Techno Squidgy said:
I don't mean to come across as rude, but I don't see how you being an American has anything to do with that view point. A respect and desire for free speech is a pretty universal thing, I would think. It's worth considering however, that the school are providing her the platform to speak, and it is meant to be a graduation ceremony, celebrating the success and achievements of the students. To then have a speaker claim that all of those successes and achievements were the act of some invisible entity (that a significant portion of the graduates probably don't even believe in) and not of the students themselves, seems to run pretty counter to the whole idea of the ceremony. As the organisers of the whole thing, the school has the power to say who can and can't speak, if somebody wants to speak but their message runs counter to the spirit of the event, I think it's perfectly reasonable to ask them to either change what they say or not speak at all. It's not like this was a discussion of religious ideas.
It has nothing to do with desire or respect. In the United States, speech is a legally protected right. I can't say one way or another whether that is true in other countries, which is why I can only speak as an American. Members of other countries may speak for themselves or not as they choose.
A for the organizers choosing who can and cannot speak, they already did that. The valedictorian and salutatorian are allowed a speech of their own devising. They certainly can change that if they wish, but such a decision would carry consequences within the community. As for choosing what is said, no, they do not have that right. That is the choice of the person speaking, and as such people are almost certainly of the age of majority, and since most American schools are publicly funded and organized by the state government(and therefore cannot be considered private property), any speech that takes place within the school's guidelines would be protected.
Again, I think that the planned speech itself was insulting, and I would certainly not respect the contents. But as speech is a protected right in my country, I would certainly respect her right to say whatever nonsense she felt necessary. Just so long as it wasn't expected that I would applaud at the end.