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Vern5

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What exactly was the argument about? You obviously seem stubbornly attached to the idea that you are completely right about whatever it was you were arguing about. You don't seem willing to entertain the idea that she might be right about whatever the argument was and she sounds stubborn enough to turn all of her friends on you like a pack of wolves.

I think it would be helpful to know what the argument was before just throwing out advice.
 

rokkolpo

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blaberer6 said:
Trolldor said:
How old are you?
Can't tell ya good sir!
Why can't you?
To elaborate, if you and the girl are closer to 13-14 than 17-18 this is a completely normal reaction from a teenage girl.
(A dumb one)
 

Lilani

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blaberer6 said:
Hello Escapists! Your valuable input is once again called to serve!
So, here's the story: Me and a classmate of the opposite gender are at disagreement! She then decides to have me shunned by the entire female student population of the class as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand! My efforts to be nice and gentle to her have come to ruin as she barks back with verbal and physical aggression! Now, I teeter on the brink of being a victim of wrongful undeserved further aggression from her and friends (traitorous scum!) that she turned them against me! What do I do?
(Exclamation marks are the efforts to make the subject light-hearted)
I have some bad news for you: not everybody in life is going to like you. And from what you've said so far, I don't see why you would want those girls to like you anyway. She sounds like a total *****. Just don't play their games and go back to your real friends. Gradeschool drama is pointless and fleeting.
 

AnkaraTheFallen

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Not enough information to properly comment on your problem, but she clearly isn't going to listen... or (no offence) but maybe it's you in the wrong, or she might see it that way at least.
Either way just leave it and carry on with your life as normal.
 

Korak the Mad

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I've dealt with kids like that when I went to school before I graduated. The best thing to do is do nothing, leave them alone. People like that will often go after the ones who are the nicest among the students. I know, I was victimized by many different groups of kids, but when it came to girls they always seem to be in a group.

The best way to cause this group to become destabilize the group is to observe the leader of this group, see how she acts, and how she is towards her friends, but observe them for a few months. After a while, if she insults you insult her back with a comment that will shatter her psyche for a little while. The leader will leave you alone and actually go after her friends.

That is how it worked for me. The experience I had was with a girl on the schoolbus who would insult me all the time. I just ignored her and observed how she acted on the bus. She would sit upside-down, lean fully across the seats, and jump in her friends laps. Towards the end of the school year she just pissed me off enough I told someone that I had a prediction for her.
I said "I predict that in the next ten years this girl will be a stripper who's found dead behind a dumpster somewhere."

Well, the person I told this to told the girl what I said and went to the bus driver saying I threatened her. Since I sat up front and the driver saw everything he didn't do anything, and I told the girl "I don't threaten, I'm just predicting what will happen to you in the next ten years." She left me alone and went after her friends and lost a few of them over the summer break.

She started to insult me again and I just told her to remember my prediction and she left me alone ever since.

But usually walk away, the only reason I said that was because I just snapped at her. I do not recommend doing that unless you have no other option.
 

blaberer6

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Lilani said:
blaberer6 said:
Hello Escapists! Your valuable input is once again called to serve!
So, here's the story: Me and a classmate of the opposite gender are at disagreement! She then decides to have me shunned by the entire female student population of the class as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand! My efforts to be nice and gentle to her have come to ruin as she barks back with verbal and physical aggression! Now, I teeter on the brink of being a victim of wrongful undeserved further aggression from her and friends (traitorous scum!) that she turned them against me! What do I do?
(Exclamation marks are the efforts to make the subject light-hearted)
I have some bad news for you: not everybody in life is going to like you. And from what you've said so far, I don't see why you would want those girls to like you anyway. She sounds like a total *****. Just don't play their games and go back to your real friends. Gradeschool drama is pointless and fleeting.
(Thank you for your helpful input!)

I know that not everyone will be my friend, but at least I tried to be friends with 'em.
 

Nyrad01

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Be the bigger man and walk away. When I was in school such things were common place, so take it from me, it's better to leave it rather than try to remedy the situation, it'll only work out worse for you. Just ignore her, and given some time, she'll probably get bored and move on. There's not much else that I can think to help, but I hope this does bud!
 

blaberer6

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Nyrad01 said:
Be the bigger man and walk away. When I was in school such things were common place, so take it from me, it's better to leave it rather than try to remedy the situation, it'll only work out worse for you. Just ignore her, and given some time, she'll probably get bored and move on. There's not much else that I can think to help, but I hope this does bud!
Thanks friend!

It seems that I have put her in a way that she's a "*****". She isn't one (or so far i've seen), she's the type that has good grades, smart, outgoing, not the type that causes trouble in class at all.

AnkaraTheFallen said:
Not enough information to properly comment on your problem, but she clearly isn't going to listen... or (no offence) but maybe it's you in the wrong, or she might see it that way at least.
Either way just leave it and carry on with your life as normal.
You could be right, that she sees that i'm wrong.
 

blaberer6

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Trolldor said:
blaberer6 said:
Trolldor said:
How old are you?
Can't tell ya good sir!
Unless you're 17-18, there is absolutely nothing to write home about at all.
You're still kids who will do things that make not a shred of sense.
Ohh, so you were asking for an age range. Yes, most teens may not make decisions with proper sense, but you cannot condemn those that don't. Really, its the mind that matters. (Just saying, no offense)
 

Trolldor

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blaberer6 said:
Trolldor said:
blaberer6 said:
Trolldor said:
How old are you?
Can't tell ya good sir!
Unless you're 17-18, there is absolutely nothing to write home about at all.
You're still kids who will do things that make not a shred of sense.
Ohh, so you were asking for an age range. Yes, most teens may not make decisions with proper sense, but you cannot condemn those that don't. Really, its the mind that matters. (Just saying, no offense)
The mind isn't properly developed till 35.
That is all.
 

blaberer6

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Trolldor said:
blaberer6 said:
Trolldor said:
blaberer6 said:
Trolldor said:
How old are you?
Can't tell ya good sir!
Unless you're 17-18, there is absolutely nothing to write home about at all.
You're still kids who will do things that make not a shred of sense.
Ohh, so you were asking for an age range. Yes, most teens may not make decisions with proper sense, but you cannot condemn those that don't. Really, its the mind that matters. (Just saying, no offense)
The mind isn't properly developed till 35.
That is all.
Very well, I stand corrected.
(Thank you!)
 

blacon

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Don't say anything, just sit back and take it like a man. They will get bored.