@Sky: I think the reason why people's secrets are so tame is because they don't really want to look like a really bad guy. They always see the story from their point of view and having a character that's done a
really bad thing makes them less easy to sympathize with. And since these characters are extensions of themselves for the most part [small](I know mine is)[/small], I can't say I blame them. Though I won't admit how bad my secret is, considering how I too am unsure how SkyeNeko want's to handle these.
@xTwinkiesx: Don't worry about it. I'm sort of new to this, too, and I'm a regular! It shouldn't be too hard, though.
EDIT: Also, the flying monkeys were generous this season and have holiday'ed up my lack of avatar. But I can't see it. How about anyone else? <_<