See, I learned this lesson a long time ago from a friend who was dating this girl. This girl and him had been together for several weeks, and they met up with me and a few other friends at the Union for lunch. For some reason that I cannot remember anymore, she announced to us during the meal that she was bisexual, and had been with various girls and guys alike. A few of our friends stared in disbelief and we looked at my friend, who was typically a straight laced guy that did everything by the book. He finishes chewing his current bite of food, swallows, and without missing a beat, shrugs his shoulders and says "you like what you like". I had great respect for him that day. He's currently engaged to her, and I'm going to be the best man at the wedding (mainly because she can't stand his other friends though)!
Anyway, this simple string of five words...is a very powerful message in my mind. If PS3 fanboys would just shrug at 360 users saying "you like what you like", and 360 users would do the same, there would be so much more harmony in the world. But instead, opinions will be ridiculed and attacked, and flamed....probably for eternity.