Jarimir said:
I didn't really post to this thread to engage in or win an objective argument. I came here express my opinion and to point out that there is a difference between hypermasculine characters and sexualized and objectified characters, and I have done so.
fair enough there. Not that last part, as you haven't demonstrated anything, but fair enough that what you said was your intent, regardless how poorly you pulled it off.
Jarimir said:
I am not even sure if sexism can be examined in a purely objective context since so much of the issue is dependent on the subjective point of view of the person that feels marginalized by a gender specific bias.
Humans are not robots or computers. Yes, we are capable of logical and rational thought, but we also have feelings, emotional responses to situations that may or may not have a rational backing. I don't think it is correct to deny the emotional aspect of humanity just because it is convenient to an argument any more than it is to deny that humans have 2 arms just because it would be convenient to do so in order to win an argument.
One can look at the definition of what sexist actually is and objectively apply that definition to something to see if it fits. There would be a subjective aspect to this as well, as people will have different opinions on if something can be interpreted as meeting the definition, and this can play into the emotional responses people have for it. But you still have to show how the objective traits of a label (such as sexism requiring a bias or discrimination by definition) are being met in the first place.
to put it another way
Definition of the word = Objective. Doesn't change.
Characteristics that are called sexist = Subjective. These are interpreted and applied to the original definition. Thus, even if is opinion, the opinion still has to apply back to the definition itself. This is why a woman who is sexualize is not sexist by itself, because the word is not defined by merely sexualizing something. There needs to be more to it.
Jarimir said:
It was YOU that decided to try to engage me, apparently in the guise of an objective argument that you are suspiciously setting the terms for. It is also suspect that you only respond to parts and not all of my statements and only to the parts you find weakest or most easily argued against. I merely tried to point out that my opinion does not exist in a vacuum. Others DO share it. The fact that you think me saying that is an excuse to throw the "Logical Fallacy" book at me means very little to me.
By try to engage, I am sure you mean quote and reply in public thread. Just call it what it is, you sound a little high strung here.
As for what I replied to, yes I replied to what was wrong. Why wouldn't I? You were presenting an idea that is ridiculous. Majority opinion being brought up as a counter argument is a failure of logic and as such, it undermines both your argument and your intellectual integrity, which is why I pointed it out like I did. I am sorry you take comfort in that other people share your opinion, I never denied that others don't, merely explained, as I will once again, that
the amount of people who share your opinion does not make it more right or wrong then the alternative.
Jarimir said:
You so desperately want a debate you can win, fine you have it. But you don't get anything for your victory because I am not willing to give you anything for a contest I did not agree to enter.
I want a discussion. Unfortunately, I can't seem to find it no matter how hard I try to drag it kicking and screaming out of people who are only "posting their opinions" in a forum made for actual discussion. And it isn't because I want to win, it is because I want to learn and be engaged and have my ideas challenged and force me to rethink them and reapply them and look at them from every opposing view point I can.
Don't know what the hell you are rambling about a contest and the like. You posted your thoughts on a public forum in a free exchange of ideas with everyone else here. Congrats, by doing it, you threw your hat into the ring for criticism, rebuttal and retort. This isn't a church, you don't have a right to proselytize without reply, and the strange idea you have about how my reply was an attempt to pull you into a contest is confusing to say the least.
Jarimir said:
I was expressing an opinion, I was not telling anyone that they should or shouldn't be upset by something. I was not telling anyone what or how to think. Where do you get off telling me what I am thinking or how I should think?
Well, first of all, when you throw out an appeal to majority in support of your stance, I will just point out the worthlessness of it as a support out of pure principle there. That is objectively wrong. As for the rest, I never said you can't be upset, please don't put words into my mouth. I never said people can't dislike whatever. But you trying to call something sexist, well, that is a different matter. Now you are applying a label. Labels have requirements and definitions. If you said "I dislike this", that is merely what it is, your opinion. when you say "This is sexist" you are now making a claim instead of an opinion. As a claim, it is now an argument stance, completely restricted to the rules and requirements of any argument, and that includes not being built on logical fallacies. Does this help explain why I went after it to start with by any chance?
Jarimir said:
You want a logical fallacy? How about this, "Sexism is worse in other parts of the world, therefore, it does not exist here". That is the essence of what you told me.
No, you got it wrong. I was saying "Appeal to majority is wrong about sexism because it is worse in other parts of the world, therefore what is sexist would be based on different popular opinion based in different regions of the world." See, what I was doing there was showing the flaw in your stance as I understood it there, not making it my own stance. Sort of how I do things, try to explain why something is wrong rather then worthlessly beating my chest and repeating that it merely is over and over.
Jarimir said:
What exactly are you so afraid of, that you have to aggressively stomp down these opposing points of view whenever you see them? I can only speak for myself, but I was not suggesting legislation to stifle free speech nor the subjugation of the male gender or point of view.
First, get off the soap box, put the victim card away, you are not under attack for daring to, well, follow the majority?
Secondly, you are aware that a label like "sexist" actually has reprocussions, right? I mean I can call so guy at work a racist and you know what happens? He can be investigated and fired because the company doesn't want that associated with them. Calling games sexist undermines their value as art, as commercial products and as media itself. Thus why it has to be done when it actually fits. If only we had some clear definition of the word, some way to objectively apply traits of each individual game to see if it legitimately fit instead of merely relying on emotional response..
Jarimir said:
If you continue to engage me in this manner you can expect me to do the same thing you should have done if you didn't like what I had to say. I will ignore you, I will not be baited further.
Again with the stance on the hill crap...
Listen, cutting it down for simplicity sake here. You came off as someone trying to justify a stance I already see as rocky with what I can only read as a faulty reason. I don't begrudge you your opinion on the games. I don't think you can't dislike them or even do so based on your opinions of what good media should be in relation to using female characters. I really don't care about any of that. What I do care is when people use faulty logic to justify a stance or opinion, and when people try to call something what it isn't. Those two are objective in nature, easy to point out and can be explained exactly why they are wrong. Even if I agreed with you on the opinion of character designs being crap (and if you double check my last posts, you will see I think a lot of trends in games are), I still have to call you out for getting to the answer the wrong way. When you tried to justify your opinion with anything, you made it a stance to be argued. When you did it with a failing of logic, that is why I jumped on it.