wulf3n said:
Do you not see the irony of people that live in a society where one of their biggest concerns is a form of entertainment doesn't cater to them calling someone else privileged?
No, because it's not really ironic. Now, you're also probably making the mistake in thinking that it's one of their biggest problems. I assume most of them have jobs that they dislike, or co-workers that they hate, just like you or I. Again, those problems don't preclude us from discussing sexism in video games.
It really comes down to empathy. I don't know if you are a PC gamer, but if you were complaining about a shoddy PC port from a popular console game, and others took the piss saying "Well shit, developers make more money off consoles. What are you going to do?", you would be allowed to call them privileged. See the parallel?
Now, a shoddy PC port might not be your biggest concern. Still a worthy complaint, though.
Again, it would be wrong of you to insult them for enjoying their console games, unblemished by ports or half-baked controls. And it would be wrong of them to tell you not to complain.
I think there's some disconnect here. I know it's tempting to be personally offended when someone calls video games sexist. I used to feel that way too. Like, literally six months ago.
The difficulty is in realising that, as a (I'm assuming here) straight white man, you and I are in a privileged state. There's nothing wrong with that, and again you shouldn't feel bad. It's not your fault. The problem comes with thinking that because you shouldn't feel bad (and again, you shouldn't) that it's impossible for other people to be uncomfortable because they are
not privileged.
If you enjoy boobs in video games, go ahead. They're there for your enjoyment. That's literally the reason they're there actually. Seriously, that's the developer going "Hey, wulf3n, I know work/school has been tough. Use these to relax". But that's uncomfortable for people that aren't you or I, see? But if boobs are in all video games - although it's not quite as bad as that - then the industry has a problem as a whole. And it's nothing wrong with you. You're just buying things that are specifically designed to cater to you.
And that's privilege.