Sexual Preference = Racism?
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I don't find many dark skinned black women attractive, I don't see how its racist but if you think it is I frankly don't care. Its my preference, I find blue eyes attractive and I don't find dark skinned black women attractive, what's the difference? And I do intentionally say dark skinned because I think lighter skinned black women are some of the most beautiful in the world.
I don't find black people attractive, but I find pretty much any other race attractive. I don't think the OP is being racist, and I don't think I am either. I have no problems with black people, I just don't like how dark their skin is (in an attraction sense). I tend to prefer light skinned, dark haired girls.
Lulz. I agree with your statement.JediMB said:
It's not racism just in the same way being gay isn't sexism.
Black guy here (called white by my friends), and living in a mostly white neighbor all my life and going to schools where white people make up the major amount of students I have a thing for white girls more then black girls. But I'm not going to say I wouldn't date a black girl, shoot I would date any girl if she is nice. Find myself interested to white, black, asian, what have you. I wouldn't call it racists to prefer a girl of another color to your own, it's what you do, where you go, who you hang and grew up with. Now saying I hate a X color girl because she looks like a Y (something offensive) would be raciest.
Nope, its more of a genetic disorder than anything. If your parents were black and had an alibino baby, it would still be black but just not have the color pigments to make it so. You could really only argue they aren't anything because even white people have colour pigments.Tdc2182 said:
And no it doesn't make you racist.
A) sexual atraction is not a choice.
B) prolly more importantly, different races have more differences than just skin color, facial structure, and dozens of other anatomical differences exist. It's likely that it isnt the fact that they are black that turns u off, but something that is a turn off for u is more likely to exist on a person of african desent. At least, thats what i think.
B) prolly more importantly, different races have more differences than just skin color, facial structure, and dozens of other anatomical differences exist. It's likely that it isnt the fact that they are black that turns u off, but something that is a turn off for u is more likely to exist on a person of african desent. At least, thats what i think.
Can I ask something.... who really cares? Why is everyone so concerned about the things they do, think or believe giving off the impression that they are racist? Do you think you are racist if you don't find black women attractive? No? Well then why the fuck do you care if other people think you are racist?
I'd agree with you, OP, to be honest. I'm a white male, and I'm attracted mostly to white girls, usually redheads or brunettes (pale skin is actually quite an attraction for me, though that's more because I had fake tan girls than anything else...). I'm not usually attracted to girls of other backgrounds, although I'll admit there are some Asian and black girls who I find really attractive.
And on that note, I am by no means racist. I have plenty of friends who are black, plenty of Asian friends, plenty of white friends, and although I'm English my background is Serbian (so Eastern Europe) on my father's side.
Personally, I don't see how sexual preference can possibly be equated to the feelings of someone about a race as a whole. If I said that I didn't fancy an Afghan girl because her country is full of terrorists, then that would be racist (for the record, I don't think that and would never say or think that). If I said I didn't fancy her because she just wasn't that attractive to me personally, and that I thought an Irish girl with pale skin and red hair was more attractive, that wouldn't be racist, it would just be my own preference (my actual real life preference, as it happens), and I could easily have Afghan friends too. That's just the way things go.
And on that note, I am by no means racist. I have plenty of friends who are black, plenty of Asian friends, plenty of white friends, and although I'm English my background is Serbian (so Eastern Europe) on my father's side.
Personally, I don't see how sexual preference can possibly be equated to the feelings of someone about a race as a whole. If I said that I didn't fancy an Afghan girl because her country is full of terrorists, then that would be racist (for the record, I don't think that and would never say or think that). If I said I didn't fancy her because she just wasn't that attractive to me personally, and that I thought an Irish girl with pale skin and red hair was more attractive, that wouldn't be racist, it would just be my own preference (my actual real life preference, as it happens), and I could easily have Afghan friends too. That's just the way things go.
This.ChromeAlchemist said:Every time this topic crops up, it always ends in fucking bloodshed...
Anyway, preference just depends on a number of factors. As a black man, I generally prefer white women over black women, but would pick a beautiful Asian woman over them both, because they take priority. However If I see a hot girl of any race, I'm generally attracted to them, black white, or otherwise.
Nope, there isn't. My assumption was always how and where you were raised. My city is a melting pot (North London) so you're going to be around every race imaginable here. So while I prefer one race over another, I sure as hell can't rule the others out, because some pretty girl will come along and change all that.Simalacrum said:
Holy shit just this.
As a black teen I have to say...I'm not picky.
Albino is a genetic condition that leads to no pigments as you said, so there wont be any albinos colored black, but black people can have children that are albino. I guess technically that would be a "black" albino.JediMB said:
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I dont think thats racist, everyone has some prefrences like differnt hair color, weight and so on. I dont see how your case is any different.
it's not racist, you just don't view them as that attractive. you're not saying they're an inferior race, just saying you don't want sleep with them.
My experience is that this isn't the case. I only know and am friends with one Black person, and they're a guy. Despite this, I still find I am more attracted to Black women. I am also fairly impartial to an attractive Asian woman, but I only know 2 Asians.ChromeAlchemist said:
Albinism is a skin disease that can be contracted by any race. So, to answer the question I know you're thinking, there can be an albino African American as much as there can be an albino caucasian.Tdc2182 said:
OT: No, it's not racist at all. Your base sexual preferences are set in your mind. If I think that an Asian woman is more attractive than an African American woman, that's perfectly fine, it's just whatever you're into. This is no more racist than if I were to prefer the stronger pigmentation in a woman's dark hair than a woman with blonde hair. It's pigmentation and genetic differences, and your overall environment shapes your sexual preferences. Hearing a close friend say that blondes are sexy will influence your desires towards blondes, or could have the opposite effect if someone you aren't very fond of says the same thing (or at least that's how I see it).
In short, you are a P.O.Y.E.
How is it racist? If i don't find black girls attractive then thats just how i am but i have friends who are black so how could i be racist?