sharing a bed with another person - wha???

[Naheal]

If they're fooling around, they'd best not do it while I'm in the room. Otherwise, go nuts.

 

[juliett_lima]

I sighed deeply when I heard two of my flatmates were sharing the same bed in fresher's year. This is cos if they break up it can be fairly awkward, I've been told. So, my views on sharing a bed with someone? Fine and dandy. As long as you're not going to cause a scene if you're flatmates and breakup.

aiiii yaaa, that happened to my flatmate, kinda - except her and her boyfriend were sharing a flat with eachother, then broke up, and decided it was too much hassle for either of them to move out. . . on the plus side, they ended up back together ^^

 

[thedeathscythe]

As long as we're in different rooms, they don't fool around (or at least when I'm home, or at the VERY least, loudly...), they don't fight out loud and stuff, I don't mind. I don't want to be the third wheel when they're fighting about him finishing the milk or something...

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

I wouldn't care what they do so long as I don't have to see, hear, or smell it.

So you're fine with feeling and/or tasting it, then?

 

[Xojins]

I don't see a problem. Just as long as they're not having sex in my bed.

 

[Booze Zombie]

It's two other sentient beings living their lives, this is my business how, exactly?

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

I wouldn't care what they do so long as I don't have to see, hear, or smell it.

So you're fine with feeling and/or tasting it, then?

Ew...

Depends. Am I involved, or waking up in a sticky, not-so-delicious puddle?

I dunno, you're the one who stated an objection only towards seeing, hearing or smelling anything untoward so I thought I'd get some clarification on the other 2 senses... running on the assumption that you have those senses, of course.

 

[arsenicCatnip]

I've shared a bed before with close male and female friends, and never had any problems (I slept in the same bed as my now-roommate for a week after I left my husband).

Really, it doesn't bother me so long as I'm not involved.

 

[xAnarchysAngelx]

Sure why not, I mean it would be hypocritical of me to say it's not ok, seeing as I have done it before but being 16 doesn't count as an "adult" to some but thats ok.

 

[Xpwn3ntial]

I truly do not care either way. I have shared a bed with another man and I have shared a bed with a woman. In both cases, neither one of us gave up dibs on the bed.

 

[Gigaguy64]

In my house, id rather them not.
Elsewhere, its none of my business.

 

[Vilcus]

Their choice, as long as I don't sleep in that bed, they can do whatever the hell they want.

 

[Zyxx]

The only issues I have with sharing a bed are getting-to-sleep related: if the other person snores, moves around, or gets up a lot, I'll probably have a hard time sleeping.
And since I know I move around a lot in my sleep, it probably wouldn't be barrels of fun for them either.

Past that? Don't care. If people are fooling around in a different bed in the house, whatever, just keep it down.
If, through some bizarre scenario, other people are doing it in a bed I'm currently sharing with them, I'd damn well better get a piece.

 

[LevelSix]

I shared an apartment with a couple for a year, didn't bother me any.

My and my current girlfriend shared a bed a few times before we started actually dating, so, yeah. Sleeping alone sucks.

 

[careful]

i don't have a problem with two heterosexual young people of the opposite sex sharing the same bed, as long as they don't mind the camcorders, for research purposes

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

Very well. As long as the only way I know about roommate diddling is active participation or amusing anecdotes, I'm happy.

Flatmates of mine learned very quickly that any indication of sexytime occuring would result in me doing stupid shit, like bursting in on them and shouting that they were going to hell, keeping score of the various sounds they made and presenting them with the results afterward, cheering and shouting suggestions, and even recording and remixing the sounds to be played whenever I really felt like pissing them off. Sometimes, if I was drunk, I'd just walk in on them and start talking to them.

I'm a terrible person to share a place with.