Maybe we can gather them all in one place and slowly burn them alive. The we can dance at the sound of their agonizing, nightmare giving screams. AND THEN, after all is over, we could go catch a movie or something.
I will go for "what?", "what?" and ....JonnWood said:It's clearly sourced at the top of the quote. Argument from incredulity and ignorance.omega 616 said:Like I said up there, I don't buy that. I mean, where was that even pulled from, it could be from trollingamI.com or 100%facts.com I don't know.
It's like watching a two-year old try to walk in his dad's shoes, then trip and fall down. Except the shoes are a metaphor for debating. The toddler is you. Possibly literally.Lets see, according to that, whats the best way to get raped is .... Be drunk, with no drugs, on a premeditated whim, while only raping, can't argue before it and don't have sexual fore play AND ABOVE ALL ELSE DRESS LIKE A NUN!
You forgot "non-responding". Rapists who simply didn't answer the question.Two of those clash, 21% premeditated the rape but 16% were impulsive/spontaneous, "the victim was simply an easy available 'innocent bystander'". 16 +21 =/= 100%.
I assume the poll wasn't covered under attorney client privilege, which means that certain answers may jeopardize their chances of an appeal.omega 616 said:I will go for "what?", "what?" and ....
If they didn't answer would they not just put X% didn't answer the question? It would also be weird to agree to answer questions about your rape-ings then say "I don't want to answer that one".
I did. I proposed that they simply could not have answered. You have not bothered to attempt to explain the source of these "flaws", or even to look up the poll yourself, which should be a standard step before you start criticizing it.It still doesn't sound like the best source if there leaving big flaws in there stats. That kind of shit wouldn't fly anywhere else and I am surprised so many people are just saying "it doesn't matter" basically. Maybe your unable or willing to give me a solid answer 'cos it backs up your opinion so well otherwise.
And you haven't even looked up the source, and ignore both the "clearly flawed" study and a plausible explanation. The statistics, all told, add up to upwards of 200%. The poll could easily have allowed the respondants to select multiple answers. There, a second plausible explanation, which you will promptly accuse of being a double standard, I have no doubt.There clearly flawed stats but since they agree with you (or whoever agrees with your opinion) you stand behind it and go "look this credable source agrees with me".
Not at all. I'm using them to proclaim your intellectual laziness and dishonesty.I am pretty sure I could find stats to agree with me, if I could be bothered to look for them. (yes, you can use that to proclaim your victory if you like).
Opinions != facts. Standing by an opinion in the face of any evidence is what's known as "denial" and "blind faith".I'll stand by my opinion all day long and I am kicking myself that I got dragged into this debate again.
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When I read this piece yesterday (Hipster) I immediately thought of this picture!!
I'd also like to add that basing your opinion on the acceptable frequency of sex by concentrating on the shape of a person's genitalia is deeply stupid.Break said:...It's never worth saying. Not even once. It starts from the assumption that a woman's chastity is something to be guarded, whereas a man's ability to stick his dick in things is something to be lauded, and piles on the misogyny from there. Don't worry about making sure it's said. It only makes you look like a jackass.
Well wouldn't it be nice if we all lived on a big fluffy cloud and held hands singing hymns.........Metal Brother said:Sexual discrimination fail!TB_Infidel said:http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-13333013
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So these women are proud of being sluts, think that there is nothing wrong with acting in that way, and rather then listening to advice on how to avoid rape, they want to protest?
Does anyone else find this type of behavior ridiculous and shows how warped/hedonistic parts of Western society is becoming?
Adult perspective win!sethzard said:I think you've totally missed the point of the article, I support them on this. They should be able to choose how they dress without the worry of being raped.
Any adult should have the ability to choose his or her own style of dress AND choose his or her own consenting sexual partners, without fear of being sexually assaulted.
How about you, TB_Infidel? Would it be ok for you to be raped if you were wearing an outfit that turned on your attacker? Would that make it your fault?
Guys seem to think that rape is something that only happens to women - it's not. Put the shoe on the other foot, and it looks a little different...
So do you keep a dust sheet over your car at all times in case some people think it looks nice? Do you bar all your doors and windows with the curtains shut just in case someone sees inside and takes a liking to it? Are you gonna cover any children/future children in a full length burka in case a wandering pedophile takes an interest in them?matt87_50 said:WHERE!!!! WHEREEEREREREE!?!?!??!??
ahhh, this ole chestnut again... I brought up the same thing not to long ago and got shot down by a bunch of idiots...
yes, 'slut' was a poor choice of word.
no wait, no it wasn't it was a perfect choice, short, simple, universally understandable... everyone knows exactly what it is, because women AIM to do it... this of course does not mean they ARE a slut, or have any intention of having sex, or even being hit on... some of them aren't even doing it to tease, or even be noticed by men... its just what everyones doing...
if a gas station gets held up by a guy with a bat, and then the police suggest that the station should get a security mesh at the counter...
the store owner doesn't get up in arms saying "what??? are you saying I ASKED to be robbed by not having one??? that its all my fault?? this is an outrage!!!"
no, he doesn't, because he's not a ****ing moron... obviously the cop doesn't mean that, he is simply stating the harsh reality that if you get the inconvenient screen, it will help protect you from robberies...
obviously there are others, like cops fining you for going 1 over the speed limit, or for being on your mobile phone while driving... yes its annoying, hell, abstaining from these things will probably make little difference! to you, worth the risk!
but you HAVE to understand the point of view of the police officer... while the worst case consequence of not doing everything to protect yourself might be one in a million to you, they are consequence these officers see and deal with 24/7...
their perspective is skewed. right up to the point where it DOES happen to us... then it won't seem skewed at all...
women, STFU we get it, we know its not your fault if you are raped, in any way, this is obvious to everyone, you don't have to keep telling us, and I am sure they are doing everything else in their power to stop it happening. Listen to the advice, its entirely up to you whether you take it or not, but it is nothing but GOOD, HONEST, FACTUAL advice by a man WHO ONLY wants to help.
Sorry, I can't agree with that. What you're describing is not a simply a lack of idealism. What you're describing is the same position used by Muslim zealots who insist that all women wear clothing that shows no skin other than the eyes (if that) because men cannot control themselves if they see a woman in revealing or provocative dress.TB_Infidel said:Well wouldn't it be nice if we all lived on a big fluffy cloud and held hands singing hymns.........
sometimes the victim puts themselves in such a stupid position that you leave yourself wondering how can anyone be so void of common sense.
Amazing analogy - thank you!Torrasque said:Should men have to NOT wear their favorite team's jersey at a hockey game at the away city, to avoid getting cursed at and beaten up?
TB is kind of a troll, whether intentionally or not. He's not going to change his mind.Metal Brother said:Sorry, I can't agree with that. What you're describing is not a simply a lack of idealism. What you're describing is the same position used by Muslim zealots who insist that all women wear clothing that shows no skin other than the eyes (if that) because men cannot control themselves if they see a woman in revealing or provocative dress.TB_Infidel said:Well wouldn't it be nice if we all lived on a big fluffy cloud and held hands singing hymns.........
sometimes the victim puts themselves in such a stupid position that you leave yourself wondering how can anyone be so void of common sense.
You're also flying in the face of all research around rape and sexual assault. You can choose to believe what you want, of course, as many people do...
P.S. This is like the 10th CAPTCHA in a row where I have been able to read it without reloading a new one. Good job Escapist!
Go Florgy?Gunner_Guardian said:Again as I said earlier, the easiest solution right now would be to coin another word with a positive connotation. I've heard the term "sexually liberated women" that seems to serve the purpose but I think a shorter word should be coined.gamer_parent said:that is definitely true, and from THAT perspective, I can totally get behind any movement that tries to win through subversion of norms. umm... GO SLUTS?Ericb said:Smaller battles do tend to help the larger war, though.gamer_parent said:In the end, I think it would be more effective to actually address the fact that we as a society tend to judge a woman's worth based on her sexuality and sexual conduct.
But that root right there is probably the deepest and hardest one to pull out. You'll notice here and elsewhere that a lot guys implicitly and explictly believe the worth of that crappy judgement.
Florgy?gamer_parent said:Go Florgy?Gunner_Guardian said:Again as I said earlier, the easiest solution right now would be to coin another word with a positive connotation. I've heard the term "sexually liberated women" that seems to serve the purpose but I think a shorter word should be coined.gamer_parent said:that is definitely true, and from THAT perspective, I can totally get behind any movement that tries to win through subversion of norms. umm... GO SLUTS?Ericb said:Smaller battles do tend to help the larger war, though.gamer_parent said:In the end, I think it would be more effective to actually address the fact that we as a society tend to judge a woman's worth based on her sexuality and sexual conduct.
But that root right there is probably the deepest and hardest one to pull out. You'll notice here and elsewhere that a lot guys implicitly and explictly believe the worth of that crappy judgement.
That's because it's not hard for a girl to be a slut. Most females can go downtown and pick up men with very little trouble if they wanted to.Grimlock Fett said:[http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/23/memesthelogicofsad.jpg/]![]()
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I agree. It shouldn't be acceptable for men to sleep around either.JoJoDeathunter said:Nope, I don't see why it should be socially acceptable for men to sleep around, yet if a women does they're a "slut" or a "slag".TB_Infidel said:Does anyone else find this type of behavior ridiculous and shows how warped/hedonistic parts of Western society is becoming?
Yeah, I figured that one out. But I had a few free minutes and decided to waste them. ;-)JonnWood said:TB is kind of a troll, whether intentionally or not. He's not going to change his mind.
Thank Christ I wasn't the only person thinking this ;-)Fagotto said:That parade seems like it'd be a good place to find a one night stand though ;D
But it's not reality. This same concept gets brought back up damn near every page by someone who thinks there's some sense to it, but it doesn't reflect reality. Reality is that what a woman is wearing doesn't actually effect her chances of being sexually assaulted.Programmed_For_Damage said:Thank Christ I wasn't the only person thinking this ;-)Fagotto said:That parade seems like it'd be a good place to find a one night stand though ;D
Back to the topic, no one "deserves" to be raped. Point blank.
And in a perfect world someone "should" be allowed to wear what they want without fear of repercussions. However they also can't walk around ignorant of the potential danger they may be putting themselves in. If you donned a suit covered in raw meat and walked around the lion enclosure at the zoo, you shouldn't be surprised if you get mauled to death, as opposed to the guy dressed as a grassy knoll. There are predators out there, like it or not, and making yourself stand out as more of a target probably isn't advised. Yeah it sucks that things are like that, but that's reality. Deal with it.