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Maybe we can gather them all in one place and slowly burn them alive. The we can dance at the sound of their agonizing, nightmare giving screams. AND THEN, after all is over, we could go catch a movie or something.
 

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JonnWood said:
omega 616 said:
Like I said up there, I don't buy that. I mean, where was that even pulled from, it could be from trollingamI.com or 100%facts.com I don't know.
It's clearly sourced at the top of the quote. Argument from incredulity and ignorance.

Lets see, according to that, whats the best way to get raped is .... Be drunk, with no drugs, on a premeditated whim, while only raping, can't argue before it and don't have sexual fore play AND ABOVE ALL ELSE DRESS LIKE A NUN!
It's like watching a two-year old try to walk in his dad's shoes, then trip and fall down. Except the shoes are a metaphor for debating. The toddler is you. Possibly literally.

Two of those clash, 21% premeditated the rape but 16% were impulsive/spontaneous, "the victim was simply an easy available 'innocent bystander'". 16 +21 =/= 100%.
You forgot "non-responding". Rapists who simply didn't answer the question.
I will go for "what?", "what?" and ....

If they didn't answer would they not just put X% didn't answer the question? It would also be weird to agree to answer questions about your rape-ings then say "I don't want to answer that one".

It still doesn't sound like the best source if there leaving big flaws in there stats. That kind of shit wouldn't fly anywhere else and I am surprised so many people are just saying "it doesn't matter" basically. Maybe your unable or willing to give me a solid answer 'cos it backs up your opinion so well otherwise.

There clearly flawed stats but since they agree with you (or whoever agrees with your opinion) you stand behind it and go "look this credable source agrees with me".

I am pretty sure I could find stats to agree with me, if I could be bothered to look for them. (yes, you can use that to proclaim your victory if you like).

I'll stand by my opinion all day long and I am kicking myself that I got dragged into this debate again.
 

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omega 616 said:
I will go for "what?", "what?" and ....

If they didn't answer would they not just put X% didn't answer the question? It would also be weird to agree to answer questions about your rape-ings then say "I don't want to answer that one".
I assume the poll wasn't covered under attorney client privilege, which means that certain answers may jeopardize their chances of an appeal.

It still doesn't sound like the best source if there leaving big flaws in there stats. That kind of shit wouldn't fly anywhere else and I am surprised so many people are just saying "it doesn't matter" basically. Maybe your unable or willing to give me a solid answer 'cos it backs up your opinion so well otherwise.
I did. I proposed that they simply could not have answered. You have not bothered to attempt to explain the source of these "flaws", or even to look up the poll yourself, which should be a standard step before you start criticizing it.

There clearly flawed stats but since they agree with you (or whoever agrees with your opinion) you stand behind it and go "look this credable source agrees with me".
And you haven't even looked up the source, and ignore both the "clearly flawed" study and a plausible explanation. The statistics, all told, add up to upwards of 200%. The poll could easily have allowed the respondants to select multiple answers. There, a second plausible explanation, which you will promptly accuse of being a double standard, I have no doubt.

I am pretty sure I could find stats to agree with me, if I could be bothered to look for them. (yes, you can use that to proclaim your victory if you like).
Not at all. I'm using them to proclaim your intellectual laziness and dishonesty.

You are intellectually lazy and dishonest, BTW. For one thing, you still haven't admitted that you questioned the source of a clearly sourced quote.

I'll stand by my opinion all day long and I am kicking myself that I got dragged into this debate again.
Opinions != facts. Standing by an opinion in the face of any evidence is what's known as "denial" and "blind faith".
 

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Grimlock Fett said:
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When I read this piece yesterday (Hipster) I immediately thought of this picture!!
Just felt the need to quote this from Break, as he/she put it pretty well:

Break said:
...It's never worth saying. Not even once. It starts from the assumption that a woman's chastity is something to be guarded, whereas a man's ability to stick his dick in things is something to be lauded, and piles on the misogyny from there. Don't worry about making sure it's said. It only makes you look like a jackass.
I'd also like to add that basing your opinion on the acceptable frequency of sex by concentrating on the shape of a person's genitalia is deeply stupid.
 

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Metal Brother said:
TB_Infidel said:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-13333013



So these women are proud of being sluts, think that there is nothing wrong with acting in that way, and rather then listening to advice on how to avoid rape, they want to protest?

Does anyone else find this type of behavior ridiculous and shows how warped/hedonistic parts of Western society is becoming?
Sexual discrimination fail!

sethzard said:
I think you've totally missed the point of the article, I support them on this. They should be able to choose how they dress without the worry of being raped.
Adult perspective win!

Any adult should have the ability to choose his or her own style of dress AND choose his or her own consenting sexual partners, without fear of being sexually assaulted.

How about you, TB_Infidel? Would it be ok for you to be raped if you were wearing an outfit that turned on your attacker? Would that make it your fault?

Guys seem to think that rape is something that only happens to women - it's not. Put the shoe on the other foot, and it looks a little different...
Well wouldn't it be nice if we all lived on a big fluffy cloud and held hands singing hymns.........

Sadly this is not the world we live in and people will take advantage of some situations/people.
Of course the victim, and I don't think anyone in this thread disagrees with this, is always a victim and the attacker is the one who should be punished, however sometimes the victim puts themselves in such a stupid position that you leave yourself wondering how can anyone be so void of common sense.
 

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If what they really want is to stop rape, something arguably everyone on the planet wants (excluding rapists i suppose...), then thats all well and good. we should all have anti rape parades. you know, where everyone can come together and say "hey everyone, don't rape people you psychos" or something catchier. you know general consencious that rape needs to stop.

instead, they have decided the better way to go about this is to proudly refer to themselves as sluts. so while we can all agree that no woman should ever be raped, regardless of how much, or how little, they happen to be wearing; these girls have decided its better to alienate themselves and invite scorn for their right to wear low cut tops or tight jeans, or whatever. and in the end no-one really cares because it seems so trivial. we all agree that the arguement "she was dressed slutty therefore was asking to be raped" is invalid, and in the end its rape we really want gone, not cleavage.

what im trying to say is just that this isn't the right way to go about spreading this message. if your a woman that likes sex and sleeps around, thats fine. i honestly don't think your begging to be raped. and hell, you could be a proud slut who happens to prefer wearing sensible clothes anyways. dont go throwing away supporters against rape by calling yourselves sluts, thus asking for ridicule at least in the short term. in the end i think its a start, not a good one, not one that will have much affect, but a start. definatly support them, even if its in the way you secretly support green peace or peta, but would never ever call yourself a member because, while you believe in the cause, their methods are just asking for trouble.

EDIT: just wanted to add another thought. can we all stop applauding guys for banging several girls? thats another thing i've noticed in this thread, the whole "if one key opens many locks, its a master key" thing. its not really correct. if you bang dozens of girls your a man whore really, but thats ok. thats your thing. you shouldn't be judged, nor should you really be praised. who you sleep with is up to you and its your own business; but honestly its not a huge accomplishment worthy of the amount of praise we tend to give guys for it.

so inconclusion: rape=bad, and guy who sleeps around isnt a champ, he's a man whore. can we all just get along?
 

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There seems to be a chronic rash of blaming the victim on the Escapist, don't you think if there was any evidence that dressing provocatively increases rape statistics that it would be all over the outlets instead of making the news because it came from the mouth of some hick cop in the States?

The thing I hate about this "common sense" is while it's certainly common it's barely ever sense.

matt87_50 said:
WHERE!!!! WHEREEEREREREE!?!?!??!??

ahhh, this ole chestnut again... I brought up the same thing not to long ago and got shot down by a bunch of idiots...

yes, 'slut' was a poor choice of word.

no wait, no it wasn't it was a perfect choice, short, simple, universally understandable... everyone knows exactly what it is, because women AIM to do it... this of course does not mean they ARE a slut, or have any intention of having sex, or even being hit on... some of them aren't even doing it to tease, or even be noticed by men... its just what everyones doing...


if a gas station gets held up by a guy with a bat, and then the police suggest that the station should get a security mesh at the counter...

the store owner doesn't get up in arms saying "what??? are you saying I ASKED to be robbed by not having one??? that its all my fault?? this is an outrage!!!"

no, he doesn't, because he's not a ****ing moron... obviously the cop doesn't mean that, he is simply stating the harsh reality that if you get the inconvenient screen, it will help protect you from robberies...

obviously there are others, like cops fining you for going 1 over the speed limit, or for being on your mobile phone while driving... yes its annoying, hell, abstaining from these things will probably make little difference! to you, worth the risk!

but you HAVE to understand the point of view of the police officer... while the worst case consequence of not doing everything to protect yourself might be one in a million to you, they are consequence these officers see and deal with 24/7...

their perspective is skewed. right up to the point where it DOES happen to us... then it won't seem skewed at all...

women, STFU we get it, we know its not your fault if you are raped, in any way, this is obvious to everyone, you don't have to keep telling us, and I am sure they are doing everything else in their power to stop it happening. Listen to the advice, its entirely up to you whether you take it or not, but it is nothing but GOOD, HONEST, FACTUAL advice by a man WHO ONLY wants to help.
So do you keep a dust sheet over your car at all times in case some people think it looks nice? Do you bar all your doors and windows with the curtains shut just in case someone sees inside and takes a liking to it? Are you gonna cover any children/future children in a full length burka in case a wandering pedophile takes an interest in them?

Considering this is "FACTUAL" advice I've only heard the clueless retard, I'm sorry, "Police Officer" touting it. One mans opinion isn't fact I'm afraid. No matter how many other people share it. There's no hard evidence at all that shows skimpy clothes=rape. A rapist doesn't need skimpy clothing to target someone. A woman's just as much at risk dressed as a librarian than a stripper.
 

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This is moot. People don't get raped because of how they dress--they get raped because rapists are sick.

Nuns get raped too yknow.
 

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TB_Infidel said:
Well wouldn't it be nice if we all lived on a big fluffy cloud and held hands singing hymns.........



sometimes the victim puts themselves in such a stupid position that you leave yourself wondering how can anyone be so void of common sense.
Sorry, I can't agree with that. What you're describing is not a simply a lack of idealism. What you're describing is the same position used by Muslim zealots who insist that all women wear clothing that shows no skin other than the eyes (if that) because men cannot control themselves if they see a woman in revealing or provocative dress.

You're also flying in the face of all research around rape and sexual assault. You can choose to believe what you want, of course, as many people do...

P.S. This is like the 10th CAPTCHA in a row where I have been able to read it without reloading a new one. Good job Escapist!
 

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Torrasque said:
Should men have to NOT wear their favorite team's jersey at a hockey game at the away city, to avoid getting cursed at and beaten up?
Amazing analogy - thank you!

I can see the headline now:

STUPID STEELERS FAN BRUTALLY BEATEN

Detroit, MI - A Pittsburgh man was hospitalized after being beaten at a local gas station Sunday night. He had stopped to buy gasoline when a group of Detroit football fans saw the Steelers jersey he was wearing. The local youth beat him severely until the gas station attendant intervened and called the police.

Police on the scene were quoted as saying "This is an unfortunate incident, but you can see he has it coming. He was asking for it and deserved what he got. No one goes into this neighborhood on game day wearing clothes like that."
 

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Metal Brother said:
TB_Infidel said:
Well wouldn't it be nice if we all lived on a big fluffy cloud and held hands singing hymns.........



sometimes the victim puts themselves in such a stupid position that you leave yourself wondering how can anyone be so void of common sense.
Sorry, I can't agree with that. What you're describing is not a simply a lack of idealism. What you're describing is the same position used by Muslim zealots who insist that all women wear clothing that shows no skin other than the eyes (if that) because men cannot control themselves if they see a woman in revealing or provocative dress.

You're also flying in the face of all research around rape and sexual assault. You can choose to believe what you want, of course, as many people do...

P.S. This is like the 10th CAPTCHA in a row where I have been able to read it without reloading a new one. Good job Escapist!
TB is kind of a troll, whether intentionally or not. He's not going to change his mind.
 

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Gunner_Guardian said:
gamer_parent said:
Ericb said:
gamer_parent said:
In the end, I think it would be more effective to actually address the fact that we as a society tend to judge a woman's worth based on her sexuality and sexual conduct.
Smaller battles do tend to help the larger war, though.

But that root right there is probably the deepest and hardest one to pull out. You'll notice here and elsewhere that a lot guys implicitly and explictly believe the worth of that crappy judgement.
that is definitely true, and from THAT perspective, I can totally get behind any movement that tries to win through subversion of norms. umm... GO SLUTS?
Again as I said earlier, the easiest solution right now would be to coin another word with a positive connotation. I've heard the term "sexually liberated women" that seems to serve the purpose but I think a shorter word should be coined.
Go Florgy?
 

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gamer_parent said:
Gunner_Guardian said:
gamer_parent said:
Ericb said:
gamer_parent said:
In the end, I think it would be more effective to actually address the fact that we as a society tend to judge a woman's worth based on her sexuality and sexual conduct.
Smaller battles do tend to help the larger war, though.

But that root right there is probably the deepest and hardest one to pull out. You'll notice here and elsewhere that a lot guys implicitly and explictly believe the worth of that crappy judgement.
that is definitely true, and from THAT perspective, I can totally get behind any movement that tries to win through subversion of norms. umm... GO SLUTS?
Again as I said earlier, the easiest solution right now would be to coin another word with a positive connotation. I've heard the term "sexually liberated women" that seems to serve the purpose but I think a shorter word should be coined.
Go Florgy?
Florgy?
 

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Grimlock Fett said:
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That's because it's not hard for a girl to be a slut. Most females can go downtown and pick up men with very little trouble if they wanted to.

It's harder for men to be stud's though. They have to be all charming and have charisma and be good looking. Lot's of effort.
 

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JoJoDeathunter said:
TB_Infidel said:
Does anyone else find this type of behavior ridiculous and shows how warped/hedonistic parts of Western society is becoming?
Nope, I don't see why it should be socially acceptable for men to sleep around, yet if a women does they're a "slut" or a "slag".
I agree. It shouldn't be acceptable for men to sleep around either.

REPLY TO A COMMENT ON THE FIRST PLACE ON THE TWENTY-THIRD PAGE MAN, AWAY
 

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JonnWood said:
TB is kind of a troll, whether intentionally or not. He's not going to change his mind.
Yeah, I figured that one out. But I had a few free minutes and decided to waste them. ;-)

Thanks!
 

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On the one hand, I understand and fully support the message they are trying to put across.

On the other, a little modesty in how somebody dresses goes a long way. You have no idea how sick I am of seeing people wearing tights/leggings with no skirt/shorts/whatever. That shit shouldn't be worn that way, it looks horrific.
 
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Fagotto said:
That parade seems like it'd be a good place to find a one night stand though ;D
Thank Christ I wasn't the only person thinking this ;-)

Back to the topic, no one "deserves" to be raped. Point blank.
And in a perfect world someone "should" be allowed to wear what they want without fear of repercussions. However they also can't walk around ignorant of the potential danger they may be putting themselves in. If you donned a suit covered in raw meat and walked around the lion enclosure at the zoo, you shouldn't be surprised if you get mauled to death, as opposed to the guy dressed as a grassy knoll. There are predators out there, like it or not, and making yourself stand out as more of a target probably isn't advised. Yeah it sucks that things are like that, but that's reality. Deal with it.
 

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Programmed_For_Damage said:
Fagotto said:
That parade seems like it'd be a good place to find a one night stand though ;D
Thank Christ I wasn't the only person thinking this ;-)

Back to the topic, no one "deserves" to be raped. Point blank.
And in a perfect world someone "should" be allowed to wear what they want without fear of repercussions. However they also can't walk around ignorant of the potential danger they may be putting themselves in. If you donned a suit covered in raw meat and walked around the lion enclosure at the zoo, you shouldn't be surprised if you get mauled to death, as opposed to the guy dressed as a grassy knoll. There are predators out there, like it or not, and making yourself stand out as more of a target probably isn't advised. Yeah it sucks that things are like that, but that's reality. Deal with it.
But it's not reality. This same concept gets brought back up damn near every page by someone who thinks there's some sense to it, but it doesn't reflect reality. Reality is that what a woman is wearing doesn't actually effect her chances of being sexually assaulted.