I can't see this as an argument against going to concerts to be honest. You could see the same about movies, food, games, travels, bars or parties. Is it worth it to do something you don't like as a favour to a friend? Well, that's an entirely different discussion than why people go to concerts.RaikuFA said:What if you really don't like the band and you're just going as a favor to someone?
OT: I haven't been to a lot of concerts, but I am going to see Rise Against for the third time this autumn (ordered the tickets right before I started writing this post) and I can't wait.
Why do I want to pay almost twice what I pay for their record to hear them live? Well, for one the music they play live isn't the same as the one they play in the studio. Savior, one of their songs that I don't really like was played in such a masterful way live. They extended it by 3 minutes just putting out some really amazing peace of instrumental beauty. I don't get that when I sit home. You also get to hear how they sound when things aren't being fixed after recording and you get to hear their real voices. What I like with Tim McIlrath's voice is how gruff and hoarse it sounds and after screaming for half an hour he just gets hoarser and I start liking it more.
Also about a month ago I was at a concert where I saw NOFX live. I had several great laughs at the stuff they said between songs, that is something I would not have experienced at home. I also talked to a lot of different people which was great fun. Someone even bought me a beer. How the band deals with the audience, how the audience acts are also important aspects of a concert. Bands that simply play their music are terrible live bands.
Then there is of course August 12th 2009. That was the first time I saw a concert by my own choice and the first time I saw Rise Against live. I was awestruck at that show. The rain, the atmosphere, the performance. After the show I even got a high five from the lead singer and exchanged a few words with him. That was probably the best moment of my life. I had a lot of travel expences to get there, it took a long time and I ended up with some terrible neck pains from sleeping on the train, but damn it was worth it. I listen to their music a lot, but their CDs will never be as memorable as that one rainy night almost 5 years ago.
I could mention other quite concrete examples of how a concert may differ, but I think I've made my point.