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Kenbo Slice

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When I was a freshman in High School these two guys in one of my classes picked on me constantly, mostly for being white and wearing band shirts. Then one day I kept making fun of one of the bullies for being fat so much he cried and after that they both left me alone. I wish I would've known it was that easy to get them to back off earlier in the year.
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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Someone tried to add me on facebook that bullied me at school. I told them to get lost and that if they think I have forgotten the five years of torture they put me through they are very much mistaken.

They acted shocked that I was still affected by it. I explained to them how I was bullied at school all day then went home and was beaten by my dad all night. They made any relief I might have gotten at school nonexistent. I explained how I have PTSD and anxiety disorder partially due to what they did.

Bullies don't think about how maybe that kid who acts a little strange maybe has a reason for being tired or messy or quiet. They get to go away and have normal lives at the end of the day. Bullying is torturing someone mentally... they should be locked up for it nevermind expelled.

If it was an adult doing it to a kid it would be abuse why is it any different if its a kid doing it to another kid?
 

IceStar100

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Once a guy walked up behind me and put me in a choke hold. I had a compass this type.

http://www.google.com/imgres?q=compass+circles&um=1&hl=en&sa=N&rls=com.microsoft:en-us:IE-Address&rlz=1I7GZEU_enUS446&biw=1280&bih=639&tbm=isch&tbnid=aGMQsQx1OvZPUM:&imgrefurl=http://www.concordsupplies.com/drafting-supplies-and-tools.html&docid=iFam-MuypYZBmM&w=240&h=240&ei=hN2TTr3nHYqzsALQmbHRBg&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=567&vpy=266&dur=78&hovh=192&hovw=192&tx=117&ty=110&page=1&tbnh=162&tbnw=192&start=0&ndsp=12&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0

Anyway I had been trying to draw pac-man. I stabbed him in the Knee and fucked up his leg. I know all through elementry school he walked with a limp. So I endded up getting off with nothing since both minors and I paniced and acted on instincted. No one talked to me becuase I was the school Psyco and I was anti-social anyway so it worked out for me.

please excuse miss spelling this is done on a phone.
 

Joccaren

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At my old school I used to get bullied by some guy who pretty much everyone thought was a prick. There was no reason for him to bully anyone, he just did for the 'fun' of it. What I did about it was organise a group of about 6 people to mug him with sticks the next lunch time.
Strangely, he became one of my good friends after that. Probably because he stopped being a prick and started to be an alright person. There was still 1 other prick, but I didn't see it being worth fighting him. His bullying was pathetic and every time he tried to physically get at me I'd just throw him off. Anyone who knows me will tell you; I'm weak. The second guy was just pathetic, and an absolute ass though.
Probably an overreaction on my part for the first guy, but things ended up well enough, and we were about six, so... Eh. Movies these days, THEY cause violence. Games have calmed me down.
 

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i used to be verbally bullied - sort of - it was pretty rare and very mild, and seeing as i was too shy to so much as raise my hand in class, even when i blatantly knew the answer, my frozen blank stared rabbit caught in headlights response was no fun for the bullies. i sure showed them ... in my own way :D there was one time though, when this squat little fat kid who was barely a notch higher on the social ladder than i was started giving me lip, and im definitely not much of a fighter, but i grabbed him round the neck, whacked him down onto the concrete and did the one thing that could make up for my feebleness, kicked him in the knackers. im sure the real bullies found it quite hilarious, watching these two total dweebloids whaling on each other, but im pretty sure nobody so much said anything to me after that, and that was how i liked it. believe me though, this all sounds alot more heroic than it actually was - im sure that applies to alot of this threads replies =P
 

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To a a degree, I was bullied in Year 7, I'm not sure how it stopped, but thankfully it wasn't because I was fighting, because I'm really weak. I just ended up making friends with the bully.
 

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Here is my school story,

During k-grade 1 everything was hunky dory. The only thing that could possibly be considered bullying was saying pink was a girl colour.

Now in grade 2 I had made friends with an awkward grade 5. One day he was being bullied by a group of other grade 5's. I charged them and headbutted the biggest one in the stomach. He called me a ***** and kicked me to the ground, then proceed to step onto my ribs.

SCHOOL ZONE CHANGE

For Grade 3-7 I was bullied by girls. My best friend was still pokemon yellow. I was a wimp and I cried a hell of a LOT. I was not good at sports, I was smartish, and was known as Bill Nye in grade 4(for being able to teach a lesson from watching a Bill Nye in my own time) which didn't help. I got lots of verbal abuse. By grade 7 I had grown to about 5'8". I had begun to fantasize about killing the girls who still bullied me. I had thought about cloning their corpses and killing their clones. But I never lashed out in any way other than the occasional "eff off". Still not good at sports and with minimal friends I finished the year without killing anyone, however I hated school.

NOW I MOVED

Grade 8 came along. Now i was about 5'10". Nobody talked to me on the first day of the new school. Except for one person. This douche would be the reason I think the way I do. After about a week people would tell me not to be friends with him else I wouldn't have any friends either. I stopped talking to him and found a group similar to my old one, filled with nerds. However the d-bag continued to torment me. One day we were having an indoor recess. on the way back to class from the cafeteria he kicked me in the ass as he ran passed, in a retarded jumping motion. I lost it. I ran after him, picked him up by the shirt and slammed him into the door of our classroom. 2 teachers were inside. We were sent to the office. The principle was cool about it all because I, being the gigantic wimp I was, was crying and gave all the reasons why I did this. He still tormented me after... just not to the same degree for what i thought was fear of me totally snapping and killing him.

During the nights of grade 8 I had dreams of killing him by stuffing napkins down his throat and watching him choke to death. Another by watching him be hit by a subway train.

THEN CAME HIGH SCHOOL

Greatest time in my life. In grade 9 everyone was an ass. friends changed and became emo ska/punk fans. Some became band geeks. I became a drama nerd. I met lots of new people and did great on my final assignment in drama where I had to be an abusive husband. During rehearsals the girls in my group began to like me. I didn't want to throw them too hard for one of our scenes, the first time i did, i broke the table she was supposed to bump into. I felt incredibly bad.

In grade 10 i had grown to about 6' and never had to take another gym class. From here on out i was only bullied by the occasional foot baller. He'd throw a punch into my shoulder say something asshole-ish (I now know he was just being friendly) and I'd just laugh it off. I don't remember what happened but at one point at this time a came close to suicide, maybe the d-bag from gr8 said something, but i pulled through.

For grade 11 and 12 "**it was so cash" grew to 6'4", ere body was friends with each other, except for the gr 8 bully. I went on school trips, participated in school and stepped up for friends, and finally, after gr12 prom started dating the girl I since grade 11.

Now in a University people are much more mature. The people i don't like, i don't hang out with. The people who like me hang out with me. And finally, I am free from the 3 bitches who bullied me, and the one bastard who was a few wrong words away from becoming my first homicide victim(he wants to become a lawyer).

Still a virgin, only 18, got a girlfriend, studying to be an engineer, partying with the engineers, and now immune to bullying and have my dreams of a family with my girlfriend.

So take a lesson from me. Take it like a wimp. Cry like a baby. Stay unique. Make friends who like what you like and think similarly to how you think. Feel like shit for 15 years of your life, because when you are older and life gets better you can laugh at the bitches who have tried to take away your life. Go forth with your bully scars and become successful by using the lessons you have learned and applying them to your current life. Participate whenever possible, it may seem like a pain to go and watch your school hockey game, but there is not many times when you can yell at the top of your lungs with hundreds of others. And don't forget to take Pikachu with you for the journey.

tl:dr I was bullied all my life until high school. things get better. bring pikachu.
 

WOPR

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Rednog said:
So you committed assault (possibly aggravated) and you didn't go to jail, why?
I'm serious, this kind of thing would get anyone thrown out of whatever college they went to, no matter how much the bully "had it coming", you'd get sued and be in jail if this were true.
Well, I got the crap beaten out of me daily, and they got away, but the second I shoved a student off of me, I committed an offense and got in trouble... guess it's how the people there see the situation.. (let the record show that the above happened to me at a very republican, very catholic school, and I'm a socialist, atheist... you do the math... freaking religious bigots...)

EDIT: to make my school career simple, I got expelled; not because I was a bad student or anything, but because of massive budget cuts and it just being easier to expel one student and not suspend/punish 217 bullies(...many sports players/skaters) took private courses, home-schooled myself, etc etc, I'm now in college and suffering from the same blasted clicks, same blasted bullies, but now on campus smoking is allowed... and considering smoking kills more people then murder... dangit why is MY fantasy habit illegal?! ..would save lives too...
 

Yopaz

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I was bullied from 2nd to 9th grade. I got no good stories about what I did. I threw some chairs though, but all in all it was just kinda traumatizing and it has given me several trust issues that I probably wont get rid off for a while longer.
 

Craorach

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Where to start...

My Infant School was in an extremely poor area, primarily council housing, and my mother had a major nervous breakdown in the years after my birth.. leading me to be known as "that crazy woman's kid". I don't remember all that happened to me, but I do remember children removing the laces from my shows before they beat me up because I couldn't run away without loosing my shoes.. and my parents couldn't afford new ones. I was also chased around the village and locked for four hours in disused public toilet filled with spiders and rats. Oh, and hung upside down by a teenager from the second story of said disused building over a concrete floor.

My parents managed to move us, and I have to say Primary School was probably the best years of my schooling career. I was happy, I had alot of friends, I was even abit of a ringleader.

Then came Secondary school. Honestly, I don't think I was bullied that badly, but I just couldn't handle both the preasures of a school where you either excelled or were ignored, or the greater number of people... had trouble socialising and was unable to take even the most harmless of jokes without getting upset. I became paranoid and antisocial, even getting to the point that I thought the kids I'd known since secondary school were playing some huge prank where one day they would turn around and tell me they always hated me.

In the end, it would get worse before it got better. I ended up dropping out after my GSCEs and becoming the steriotypical gamer basement dweller... except not in a basement.. living with my parents and becoming both mentally and physically unwell before I finally managed to get my life together.
 

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At my old school, in year 5-6. A kid decided to pick on my Big brother (He's smaller than me) so, he met my fist and his throat met my hand. I'm a very violent person, I didn't get in any trouble. The kid is now a dero that has a going nowhere apprenticeship. But, now I'm calmer due to my intimidating figure, although some of my mates will usually have a friendly tussle with me.
 

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I was bullied until grade 8-9, then I got into karate (Goju-ryu). My dojo was far enough away that nobody from my school was going there, and I didn't tell anyone until I could hold my own with the senior belts. Even then 'telling people' took the form of showing off my tournament medals to teachers and friends, letting the wankers wonder about it.

It took the better part of the year but in one particular gym class during free warmup I was standing around thinking deep thoughts (or enjoying not thinking at all) when one of the football players who really didn't appreciate the way I tossed him in the previous day's full contact Rugby class (see youtube link below) decided to take his grevance regarding my unsportsman-like conduct up though the medium of interpretive dance.
I think.
Sure wouldn't call flailing around like that 'fighting'.
I didn't care for his performance, so I broke his arm, then played dumb about it and got away with it.

So I took one of the more cliche routes, but didn't make any of the sitcom mistakes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibEE_lW22O8
 

Saelune

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I really doubt your DNA is cleared from the Police database. Just saying.
 

Akyho

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What was I not bullied for? I got bullied but not for long by the same person. It would cycle. However the reasons why one person stopped bullying me was once they went too far or went too long I would fight them.

I am not a collected fighter I am a beserker so there is no plan there is no skill its just fight. Except its all over that fast either by teachers stoping us or i decide to lay off. Ive been in 20 odd fights over 14 years and Iv only out right lost 3 times and outright won 4 times.

Its all usaly broken up by friends there friends, teachers or myself as I am fully aware I can go tooooo far.

I have placed a boys head to the ground and proceeded to jump on his head into the hard road with both my knees about two to three times. Thankfully all that came of it was a broken nose. It could have been far worse as i was of the heavy people around. Not obese but fat and heavy.

So people would relise not to pick on me even give me respect. However other people wouldnt get the memo and the cycle would happen over again.

I even had one guy give me psycotic death threats and said a time and place. I calmly said "Sure Ill see you there." By the fact i was completly cool and calm he was starting to ac confused and said 2Im going to kill you!!" I said "yu we shall see. Ill be there Ill fight you and whover wins...wins." So he was seeing to lose his nerve then.

Everyone else around the area were freaking for me saying "YOU KNOW HE IS GOING TO KILL YOU RIGHT!? DONT FIGT HIM!!" I calmly said "Whoever wins...wins." that made people freak even more.

Times comes I there. lots of people leaving the building. I had to come half way round the school to get thre. I see him he sees me...and he keeps on walking away...I shout "Hey! thought we were fighting!!?" he looks over his should and keeps walking away. I keep on him but nope....he is running away. The group of peple that did come to watch kept saying "go after him!" I replid "nah ive won it seems."
 

Rednog

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Vykrel said:
Rednog said:
So you committed assault (possibly aggravated) and you didn't go to jail, why?
"started by hitting my head as he passed my seat"

as harmless as this sounds, it is considered assault. the bully was the aggressor.

i dont think the OP should have resorted to fighting before anything else (thats what it sounds like he did, at least) but if someone lays their hands on you in any violent manner whatsoever, you have every right to beat the shit out of them... at least, in my opinion.
Granted, a hit and then a response would be justified (maybe) as self defense. But as the OP stated, he jumped the guy later on. There really is no self defense call when you wait to attack and aren't in any danger.
 

Rednog

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WOPR said:
Rednog said:
So you committed assault (possibly aggravated) and you didn't go to jail, why?
I'm serious, this kind of thing would get anyone thrown out of whatever college they went to, no matter how much the bully "had it coming", you'd get sued and be in jail if this were true.
Well, I got the crap beaten out of me daily, and they got away, but the second I shoved a student off of me, I committed an offense and got in trouble... guess it's how the people there see the situation.. (let the record show that the above happened to me at a very republican, very catholic school, and I'm a socialist, atheist... you do the math... freaking religious bigots...)

EDIT: to make my school career simple, I got expelled; not because I was a bad student or anything, but because of massive budget cuts and it just being easier to expel one student and not suspend/punish 217 bullies(...many sports players/skaters) took private courses, home-schooled myself, etc etc, I'm now in college and suffering from the same blasted clicks, same blasted bullies, but now on campus smoking is allowed... and considering smoking kills more people then murder... dangit why is MY fantasy habit illegal?! ..would save lives too...
I have no clue why you're quoting me, maybe your case is different, but in the OPs case I personally do not see it as a justified act in retaliation to basically commit aggravated assault (and getting away scott-free)and trumpet it as an accomplishment.
 

Hamish Durie

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lRookiel said:
Have you ever been bullied and what did you do about it?

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yes
as the "big" kid at school I have to watch out what I do accidentaly broke a kids arm once ........complete accident
not so for one small irritating S******* who has been in the same class as me for 2 years
2 years of........I won't go into details
last day of school he pushes the line then goes home with a face resembling pancake
seriously hes small I think he was 130 when I hit him and I was a 156cm


ironiclly I get off scot free now he doesn't bully anyone anymore and we've actually become good friends
hell he even joined our basketball team


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So we arrive at his stop a minute later and he thinks that he gets away with it and has all holiday for me to forget about what he did to me, but as he steps down the isle, I kicked him in the back of the leg with extreme force and then he turns round to fight me, little did he know im quite handy in a fight so without him landing a single blow he leaves the bus with 2 black eyes, a bent nose, fat lip and fractured jaw.
dude
nice
 

BlackSaint09

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Its a long boring story that ruined my life and i may have had it coming.
Otherwise the times i did fight back i won... i think.
 

Aprilgold

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Rednog said:
So you committed assault (possibly aggravated) and you didn't go to jail, why?
I'm serious, this kind of thing would get anyone thrown out of whatever college they went to, no matter how much the bully "had it coming", you'd get sued and be in jail if this were true.
Mainly because he had a clean record before hand, so a warning happened, also minor [maybe] could apply.

I was bullied, but my phyche is erecting a wall of fire to prevent me from remembering what it was. So, yeah, it was depressing.