So how sad is this?

[Tautology]

It's not that sad at all. If anything, it's admirable. At least you're not one of those people who jumps to and fro relationships, sleeping with everything that says yes. You want something and it sounds like it's important to you, just don't compromise it for something easier and you'll find her. Take your time. Don't let it get to you either.


I want all that fuzzy stuff too. Hasn't happened so far and it might not for while, but it sure beats joining the rest of the dogs in whatever it is they think they're doing. It's too shallow. Too transient. I should stop, before I begin to ramble, no one wants that. Just know it'll happen for you. And if it doesn't, well at least you didn't get hurt.

It's funny being a romantic cynic.

 

[THE M3RCENARY]

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Seriously I know what you are going through.

You are not alone.

 

[SckizoBoy]

Nope, not sad at all...

I'm after the same thing (almost 25 FFS), though to be fair, I've been in three relationships and none of them ended well. However, one of them was everything a relationship should be, and I wouldn't change anything that I've done 'cos it's all experience.

As many have noted: patience, and it'll happen.

(Now, why don't I tell myself that for once! *hrk*)

 

[Engarde]

Don't worry, it is entirely understandable, and I am in a similar situation...well, I have been in a relationship for sometime, but... its complicated...

Anyway, that is a story for another day. I admire your determination, hold out and you will get there.

 

[StormShaun]

My friend you are not alone, I have said it enough but I like my best friend's sister and I have confessed and hopefully in a while she will feel the same...*sigh*

 

[Callate]

Counter-intuitive and hard to follow, advice-wise, but this sort of thing is much more likely to fall into place about the moment you stop trying so damn hard.

Relax. Open up. Have fun. Don't treat women you're attracted to like idols who you have to walk on eggshells around, just be friendly and talk to them (and don't be around every moment that you possibly can be, or it comes off as creepy and desperate.) Have a life, and friends, of your own.

And don't beat yourself up that it hasn't happened for you yet. It will.

 

[Oliman43]

I felt the same way until my friend who felt that way to, got a girlfriend, got dumped within two months and is now on a vicious rebound with his best friends ex. I pity him a little.

So don't worry about it.

 

[SwagLordYoloson]

How old are sophmores? (not an American)

10 im pretty sure its part of Middle School?

Although i am not america my self i am pretty sure this is the case

 

[Jessta]

Heh know what you mean I'm in a similar situation as a junior, although to be fair for me its more because I fucked up in middle school, I had a girlfriend... kind of... well a girl who followed me around and called me her boy friend and would call me up and talk all night and the such but then I acted like a douche and got embarrassed and took an example from the tv series Ranma in how to handle relation ships and that shit has stuck to my shoe ever since.

 

[SeriousSquirrel]

Wow, thanks for the words of wisdom guys (not being sarcastic, seriously)

As selfish as this sounds, and you can resent me for it, it's good to know I wasn't as solo as I thought. Thank you guys.

 

[maddawg IAJI]

Its not sad at all. A lot of people have been in the same place you have. Some people are just early bloomers when it comes to woman.

 

[Ogargd]

It's not worth it, all that ends up happening is sadness that the happy experiences in life can never out shine.

 

[The_root_of_all_evil]

Has anyone else been here?

Only 99% of people ever. Including the ridiculously hot ones.

You know that girl that looks at you shyly occasionally? Her too. Wonder what you can do about that...?

 

[Outright Villainy]

How old are sophmores? (not an American)

Around 15 or so give or take a year depending on when they entered school.

So he's bitchin about not getting a romantically fulfilling relationship at fifteen?

Ah, I see, just the ol' teen drama. Carry on then!

Edit: To the OP, I'm not trying to put you down over it. After reading it again, it atually just seems like you're naieve. But yes, this is normal. Very, very few people will have a meaningful relationship at 15. Some do in college, for most it could even be after that.

 

[S3Cs4uN 8]

How old are sophmores? (not an American)

Around 15 or so give or take a year depending on when they entered school.

thats a tad early to be worrying about relationships IMO

 

[Korak the Mad]

I'm in college now (just graduated high school last year), and I've never had a girlfriend, or even a first kiss.