It's not about the fact that you didn't go on a date. It's the fact that you asked her out.MagentaMask said:Yesterday I swallowed as much of my nervousness I possibly could and asked a girl I fancy out for a cup of coffee. Her response was not cheerful or eager (which is, of course, the best response of any) but more reserved. She told me she didn't know when she'd have time and that she'd have to get back to me. I said that was cool, and we said goodbye.
Now... To me it just feels like I suprised her and she didn't know how to put me down gently, so she kinda "stalled". I might of course be wrong, but at the moment I am overanalyzing, worrying and biting my fingernails down to bloodied stumps.
I apologize to you who thought this thread was going to have a point... I just needed a way to release some steam at 5 in the morning. Monotoring this thread for any morsel of insight might also keep me occupied until I can tell for sure about her sincerity.
*tips imaginary hat*
THAT'S A HUGE STEP DUDE. Congratulations! Here you see is that even if she turned you down (which she did) then you can stand up tall and say.
I AM A MAN! AND A GLORIOUS MANWHORE! Go eat some yogurt kid! You deserve it!