So I just told a friend of mine that the guy she likes is gay/bi.

[Krion_Vark]

Pretty much everything I have to say is in the title. I know he is because he is my coworker and he has talked about having a boyfriend multiple times.

And as for discussion value. You ever say something to someone that you feel that you shouldn't have or that you should just let them find out for themselves?

 

[Lilani]

At the last job I had, there was another worker there who was a quite openly gay guy. A new girl started working who had absolutely no gaydar whatsoever. She started flirting with him, a lot. But he was hesitant to say anything because he heard she was involved with a Christian Campus group and didn't want her to go from flirting with him to shunning him.

I'm not exactly sure how she found out, but eventually she stopped the flirting and as far as I know she never harassed him over his sexual orientation.

 

[Krion_Vark]

Well if he's bi she still has a chance

Only reason I put gay/bi is because now I am not completely sure if he is full on liking only guys. I am now like 80% sure of that but I have told her to ask him. And she now doesn't want to work tomorrow because he is supposed to be working.

 

[MisterDyslexo]

Oh, this reminds me of the time I was called a homophobe for not arguing to change people's viewpoints of gay marriage, but rather pointing out that legally they should allow it, even if they morally disagree with it (Live and let live). This from a straight girl who, well, apparently has no gaydar. Never mind the fact I changed everybody's opinion in the room, but I'm a monster for not trying to change other people's worldview or attack their religious beliefs.

But yeah, why can't everybody just be mono-gendered with six differing set of genitals and we be done with it? Life would be so much simpler.