So I want to punch my soon to be ex roomate in the face.

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Veldel

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My roommates dog was refusing to listen to him so he grabed her by the collar and carried her as she choked then threw her into the house her collar flew off and she rolled on the ground and yelped.


Shes shaking and scared and it really pissed me off.


He has only had her 2 weeks she hasn't been trained yet or anything.


Im leaving in 2 days to move to a different state.
 

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Take her with you..

If an animal is treated that way they'll (usually) become more aggressive towards folks because they fear them.
Person=Pain.

Theres other ways of dealing with refusing to listen...put them in time out... a small sprayer that you can fill with water so it will surprise them...etc etc. Out of personal experience, my kitten kept trying to chew on cables, even though I said no various times and shook my finger. So I got that water sprayer thing, it doesnt blast or douse him in the slightest but it does surprise him shortly (Sidenote: No its not animal cruelty whatsoever seeing as biting cables etc is dangerous as hell for animals anyways). Nevertheless, after being surprised like...7 times, he'll still touch cables but wont try and bite them anymore.

Long story short, Id honestly take the dog with me then, or atleast try to have a talk with him that what he did was f'd up and that maybe he should give owning a dog a second thought then.
 

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8bitOwl said:
Punching him? Now, now, don't be hasty. Let's behave like intelligent, evoluted beings here.

1) Secretly record your roommate abusing the puppy, with your mobile phone

2) With that proof in hand, go report him to authorities for animal abuse

3) Meanwhile, make sure to post that video on your Facebook or where you're sure a lot of people who know him will see the video


After that, please get the poor dog away from him.
Oh I do think before I act that's why I'm posting online here to help take out anger

Thats a method I do use tho the recording of stuff.

The living room is now covered in puke and shit from the dog.
 

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Take her with you. Take that doggie and give her a good home! Turn him in to the authorities. Do everything you can to make sure that that vile thing gets punished for what it has done. And punch it too. Give it a good punch to the face. Record everything, tell everyone who knows it about what it has done. Just please get that dog away from it.
 

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Call me crazy... but what about talking with the guy and maybe try to convince him that's not the right way to train his dog? I mean maybe he just doesn't know any better?
 

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This is quite serious, and if he intends to keep a dog as a pet, he first of all need to realize that after 2 weeks, the poor thing will hardly be house warm yet, let alone living room safe. By antagonizing the dog when the dog doesn't understand what he did wrong, it will scare the dog, it will confuse it and it will make it aggressive because it doesn't know what it's doing wrong, and it doesn't want to be punished.

It is critical that the owner learns proper dog care, and that being rough and/or violent will not help in the slightest. If he's going to be impatient with the dog, he shouldn't have a dog in the first place. There are ways to assert "pack" dominance that doesn't involve getting physical, and it's also important to remember that yelling at it does also not help.

Also, does he want to keep the dog inside the house, or is it going to be the kind of pet that stands in the garden, that he occasionally visits whenever he feels like it? Because if it's the latter, then why have a dog in the first place? I believe dogs should be treated as a part of the family, unless the dog is to be used professionally in some way.

If it turns out that he simply expects the dog to be a mind-reader and understand his slightest whim, then tell him that he has no business owning a dog, and if that doesn't work, report him to the proper authorities. I know the SPCA takes animal abuse VERY seriously.
 

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Oh the irony.

You want to physically hurt a guy.
Because he physically hurt an animal .
How does that make you better than him?

Anyways. What do people have against talking. Talk to him! Hell you should have done that before making this thread. Words people , fight your battles with words.
 

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Well punching him isn't going to make the dog feel better obviously.

If it's a regular thing, then contacting your local animal abuse center will be the best choice.
 

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If the dude is abusing animals that roughly, I'm going to just go against what recent posters have said: don't bother talking to this douchecanoe, he's shown himself to be physically violent and unreceptive to calmly evaluating any situation. A discussion is probably going to make him angry, and then it's high chance of you getting shaken around instead of the puppy.

Even if you're not moving out ASAP and able to take the dog with you, time to quietly drop it off at the house of a receptive friend-of-a-friend or your benevolent great-aunt or something (a respectable rescue organization would be a huge step up at this point) before it gets, well, damaged any more. And if the guy got the dog from a specific place - say, a breeder, a rescue group, or some other organization that gives a damn - let them know what's going on.

People who abuse animals are scum and if he's using violence to solve problems instead of his head, you don't need to be next on his list of things to beat up. And neither does that poor dog.
 

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krazykidd said:
Oh the irony.

You want to physically hurt a guy.
Because he physically hurt an animal .
How does that make you better than him?

Anyways. What do people have against talking. Talk to him! Hell you should have done that before making this thread. Words people , fight your battles with words.
This. Punching the dude over it is just immature. Talk to him or notify the authorities

Can we clarify? Did he physically hold the dog up off the ground by the collar or just grab the collar hunched over and sorta force the the dog to walk where he wanted?

Ill often grab my dogs collar if I need to get him under control right now, Hes a mad smithfield and hes good at getting over fences and jumping at people and dogs. As soon as you hold the collar he submits, kinda annoying how he will often just roll over at that point forcing me to carry him back to the yard/dog run
 

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generals3 said:
Call me crazy... but what about talking with the guy and maybe try to convince him that's not the right way to train his dog? I mean maybe he just doesn't know any better?
You are crazy. The only way to make him see the error of his ways is random violence!
 
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krazykidd said:
Oh the irony.

You want to physically hurt a guy.
Because he physically hurt an animal .
How does that make you better than him?

Anyways. What do people have against talking. Talk to him! Hell you should have done that before making this thread. Words people , fight your battles with words.
Yep, should have done something there and then, rather then make a thread. although i'd have been some what understanding if in the moment, the OP met violence with violence.

Aside; I hate people who start sentences/titles with "so" - I see it a lot here.
 

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krazykidd said:
Oh the irony.

You want to physically hurt a guy.
Because he physically hurt an animal .
How does that make you better than him?
Because the OP didn't actually instigate the violence, and would not actually be punishing the roommate had he not physically abused an animal.

However, tempting as it may be, punching him could land you in a bit of trouble if he decides to go to the police. Documenting it as other users have said and going to the police seems like a good idea.
 

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Don't take the dog, that's just stupid, really. If you do that then the argument "They just want the dog and are exaggerating, look they stole her! How can you trust a thief?" becomes valid. Discuss, record, inform of impending report, report, that gives him every chance to reform his behavior.
 

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You need to take a moment, sit down and think about this seriously. You know this guy better than any of us could - is he a violent person, or was this some horrible bad day resulting in a horrible mistake? Was the man remorseful of his actions, or did he simply not care? You need to sit down, and think - do you think this person will hurt this dog again if it continues living with him?

If the answer is 'Yes', you have two options: First and foremost, I'd offer to buy the dog off him. If he's hurting the animal, he won't put it before personal gain - people like that don't. It's also the 'easiest' option. If you can't afford the dog due to finances, space, or don't want a dog, scout around for a friend who might and explain the circumstances. I gaurantee you'll know someone who will.

Secondly, you have the option to report him to the police or animal welfare services. You cannot leave this animal in the care of an abusive owner; it hasn't been with him long. It's showing signs that it doesn't know what's going on - it isn't learning that this life of fear is 'the way' of things yet. It can still be saved from the cruel fate of constant fear and aggression that'll only result in it being put down.

You seem like a decent person, but you have a very, very important decision to make, and the ability to do something this creature cannot possibly do; save it from a life of horror if that's what you deem to be a possibility for it.

Again, you know this man - If there's even the slightest chance he's hurting the dog, you have to remove it from his care. Don't hit him, don't post shit online, all that's irrelevant and doing nothing to remove the dog from his care. Focus on that first and foremost. You have two days to decide this dog's future. Please, use that time carefully.
 

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Mr Ink 5000 said:
krazykidd said:
Oh the irony.

You want to physically hurt a guy.
Because he physically hurt an animal .
How does that make you better than him?

Anyways. What do people have against talking. Talk to him! Hell you should have done that before making this thread. Words people , fight your battles with words.
Yep, should have done something there and then, rather then make a thread. although i'd have been some what understanding if in the moment, the OP met violence with violence.

Aside; I hate people who start sentences/titles with "so" - I see it a lot here.
Yeah, if I saw someone (especially someone I knew) doing that my first reaction would be to say "Hey, what are you chucking the dog around for? Stop it!", and actually have it out with them there and then. Going off quietly to seethe, only to come back later and punch the guy and/or steal his dog would just make you look as crazy as him.

Of course, this is assuming the OP didn't say anything at the time, which isn't specified.
 
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Uncle Comrade said:
Mr Ink 5000 said:
krazykidd said:
Oh the irony.

You want to physically hurt a guy.
Because he physically hurt an animal .
How does that make you better than him?

Anyways. What do people have against talking. Talk to him! Hell you should have done that before making this thread. Words people , fight your battles with words.
Yep, should have done something there and then, rather then make a thread. although i'd have been some what understanding if in the moment, the OP met violence with violence.

Aside; I hate people who start sentences/titles with "so" - I see it a lot here.
Yeah, if I saw someone (especially someone I knew) doing that my first reaction would be to say "Hey, what are you chucking the dog around for? Stop it!", and actually have it out with them there and then. Going off quietly to seethe, only to come back later and punch the guy and/or steal his dog would just make you look as crazy as him.

Of course, this is assuming the OP didn't say anything at the time, which isn't specified.
secretly hoping he does do something now, n we get to read about the case of the crazy dog-napper