I see where you are coming from but the thing is that by their logic they are the casual gamers because they only excel at one genre while you are so hardcore that you actually manage to be OK at every game. Unless all of your friends are those annoying kinds of gamers that excel at everything they touch you will probably beat them at those games they don't excel at.Beautiful End said:but that's the problem. In my case, I am average. I could win a couple of rounds against my friends in any fighting game but they would probably win most of the matches. It probably takes me half an hour to solve a Portal puzzle while my other friends take half of the time to do the same thing. I could try to become good at FPS but my friends would put me to shame unintentionally. So I would say I'm average at most, if not all, of the games I own. I'm not a casual gamer but I don't excel at any game or genre in particular.Therarchos said:Well you don't have to be "just" average, being good at a lot of games may give you an advantage in any game. But you will probably never be the best at any game.daveman247 said:Exactly, being average means you dont feel you have to stick to a particular genre ^_^Therarchos said:Funny thing is. You get all of the fun. You might not be the one everyone thinks is the greatest but you can play anything and have fun because you do not suck at it.
And that's the problem my friends see and why they mess with me. yeah, I don't care much about that because A) They're just messing with me playfully and B) That's not gonna stop me, even if they were truly trying to be mean. But it still kinda ticks me off that they have this mentality where you MUST be good at some genre or game. Like it would define you as a gamer.
It's funny because you are right in so many ways. I do consider myself better (In a humble way) because I can play any genre, enjoy it and be decent at it. But on the other hand, my friends are really good at most competitive games, such as fighting, FPS, etc. The one genre I might beat them at would be RPGs, but only because I have more patience than they do.Therarchos said:I see where you are coming from but the thing is that by their logic they are the casual gamers because they only excel at one genre while you are so hardcore that you actually manage to be OK at every game. Unless all of your friends are those annoying kinds of gamers that excel at everything they touch you will probably beat them at those games they don't excel at.Beautiful End said:but that's the problem. In my case, I am average. I could win a couple of rounds against my friends in any fighting game but they would probably win most of the matches. It probably takes me half an hour to solve a Portal puzzle while my other friends take half of the time to do the same thing. I could try to become good at FPS but my friends would put me to shame unintentionally. So I would say I'm average at most, if not all, of the games I own. I'm not a casual gamer but I don't excel at any game or genre in particular.Therarchos said:Well you don't have to be "just" average, being good at a lot of games may give you an advantage in any game. But you will probably never be the best at any game.daveman247 said:Exactly, being average means you dont feel you have to stick to a particular genre ^_^Therarchos said:Funny thing is. You get all of the fun. You might not be the one everyone thinks is the greatest but you can play anything and have fun because you do not suck at it.
And that's the problem my friends see and why they mess with me. yeah, I don't care much about that because A) They're just messing with me playfully and B) That's not gonna stop me, even if they were truly trying to be mean. But it still kinda ticks me off that they have this mentality where you MUST be good at some genre or game. Like it would define you as a gamer.
Ok, have fun with that. I heard Bastion is a good game.Evil Smurf said:this is what you do: buy Bastion, enjoy it, then make a thread about it.
I'm sort of the same. I'm pretty good at Gotham City Impostors; I usually finish in the top 3 too. So of course I want to play with my friends but, as it turns out, they also manage to end up in the top 3 so my "mad skillz" suddenly seem like nothing to them.mitchell271 said:I'm in a similar situation to you. I can play pretty much any genre but I'm not exceptional at any of them. I'm definitely better than most of my friends at most games, especially fighters and old-school, well, anything really. I usually just play for fun.
Actually, I'm really good at Halo. Like, "always-finish-in-the-top-three-of-any-mode" good. It's not uncommon for me to end up with 25-30 kills in a game of Infection. And Mario Kart, same situation. But yeah, that's abou it.
This.hazabaza1 said:Doesn't matter if you're absolute shit or amazing at everything, if you're playing as much as you want to and enjoying yourself, the who cares, right?
THAT. gaming is about entertainment, if you take it seriously you did it wrong. You do it for fun, and fun means a different thing for different people. Personally, I tend to just focus on finishing the story taking my time to enjoy it and the main gameplay, but I don't ALWAYS go after collectibles, side missions, etc.hazabaza1 said:Doesn't matter if you're absolute shit or amazing at everything, if you're playing as much as you want to and enjoying yourself, the who cares, right?