Sorry, but mainstream RPGs have moved on from what you seem to want. Personally I feel they're a great improvement on the old games, especially with regards to Bioware. I do still get the itch to play classic style RPGs every now and again however, and for that I turn to Indie games. You're either going to have to get on-board with changes to the RPG genre, or you're going to have to get over the desire for modern day graphics, otherwise you're not going to have any choice at all.
If you choose to move on, do try playing Mass Effect and the like. In my opinion they keep everything that was great about the classic RPGs (choices, dialogue, setting, characters, story etc...), and only lose the stuff that wasn't so great.
If you really feel the stats and turn-based combat were the important parts of the game then there is still a variety of games available, just without the current-gen graphics. I'd say Spiderweb Software [http://www.spidweb.com/] is the best for this myself, particularly the Geneforge series. You just have to realise that you can't have fancy graphics with this kind of game, these days it's too much of a niche genre.
And if you choose neither... well... it sucks to be you I'm afraid. AAA-companies just don't make that kind of game any-more.