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bluemistake2

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Right, I'm a year 9 in Australia I'm not sure what that is in America and such but I'm 15 incase that matters.
There's this girl, a friend of mine, somewhat a good friend and probably the person i talk with most and can tell the most.
So lately she's been acting differently (Waving goodbye, randomly hugging me, always saying hi and such) but I didn't think much of it so I just let it pass, however a few days ago she tells me she likes someone, naturally being her friend i wanted to know who but she didn't tell me.

Now this is a little strange since she pretty much tells me everything, so after a while (Do mind this was over Facebook so i couldn't detect hints of sarcasm or tell whether she was being serious or not) I keep asking for hints.
After 5 hours of talking I gather as much, every hint led to me, naturally not wanting things to get awkward I played dumb for all that time (also a little bit into it she tells me she likes me followed by a "JK" (just kidding) rapidly after she said it).
Towards the end of our little chat she starts telling me that she likes no one, being the twat that I am, I don't believe her and just carry on the conversation.
Then I ask her if she was serious about who she likes she tells me she is, tho this being on Facebook and being typed I can't tell if she is serious or not.

Then earlier this week I ask her friend if she knew what was going on with her, she told me she didn't.
Later that day she tells me (the girl I'm talking about not her friend) that she only told me those things to make conversation, yet again I didn't believe her.
Then I tell her I'm confused about people and stuff, tell her I like someone but not who, naturally she asumes it's her (or at least i think).
The next day her friend asks me what i was on about the other day, she asks me if it was because I thought the girl likes me, then she tells me it was only to get her off my back, though in reality she could have just ended it at the start of the conversation and not told me anything.
Later that day I was talking to her and she asks what I wanted to know what I was asking her she was serious about, so her friend yells ABOUT WHETHER YOU LIKE HIM OR NOT, people laugh, then she goes "Oh that, that was about 3 people".

So now naturally I'm confused as hell and a little hurt so tell me what do you think? does she like me, does she not? I just need some opinions.
 

bluemistake2

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Also I have some feelings for her, do I tell her? I'm in a hole here I have no idea what to do.
 

icyfresh

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I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?
 

Littlee300

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I am guessing there is a voice in her brain that says "keep it cool!" so she says just kidding after she says she likes or doesn't say it at all.
So overall you need to make her feel more comfortable around you.
 

bluemistake2

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icyfresh said:
I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?
I'm bad with words also things might be awkward to be honest I've never been in this situation before so I have no clue how it would go
 

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you will have to decide for yourself man...

this is the reason i loved being a stoner and growing with them, the only problems you ever really seemed to care about were painfully simple, and things like that were resolved fairly quickly

but if you are into her then yes address it, if you arent then i say leave it alone
 

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icyfresh said:
I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?
This isn't YouTube comments you know? Keep the grammar straight.
 

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Pirate Kitty said:
Sounds like she is just a happy girl who enjoys your company and is having a bit of fun.

I wouldn't say there is any serious relationship material here.

Best thing to do is just tell her how you feel.
I gotta say I agree with this ^^^^^^
 

Littlee300

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bluemistake2 said:
icyfresh said:
I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?
I'm bad with words also things might be awkward to be honest I've never been in this situation before so I have no clue how it would go
In words of the literacy genius Mark Twain
"With a head full of ignorance and a heart full of confidence, success is assured."
 

ExaltedK9

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I had a hard time following your story, but from what I can tell, she just seems to be indecisive herself.

Best to stay in neutral right now.
 

MegaManOfNumbers

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I feel that there is an answer to EVERYONE'S "I like so-and-so and I don't know what to" problems...

Ask her out, if she declines then pass it off and return to your friendship. there is no shame in asking out someone you like, there is shame in thinking the worst may come out of it.
 

bluemistake2

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Pirate Kitty said:
Pararaptor said:
Pirate Kitty said:
Best thing to do is just tell her how you feel.
Gotta dispute you on that. Best thing to do is not risk the friendship & get on the road to finding someone you can be more certain with.
Fair enough.

To each their own.

I wouldn't say that expressing his feelings, if done well, would harm the friendship, though.
That's where the problem comes in, her and her friend are close to inseparable.
I want to tell her but don't really get a chance to talk to her alone, face to face, her friend tells everyone everything and I have a friend that is an ex of her and still interested in her, so i don't know if i can.
 

BlindMessiah94

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Worst thing you can do is ask her or tell how you feel. I'd just make a move. If she isn't into you, she was obviously dropping mixed signals and it's not your fault and you can call her out on it. If she is into you, then you win. Nothing to lose here really.

If she winds up being a ***** and rejecting you in some dramatic fashion and ignoring and avoiding you, well she isn't really that great a person to begin with then is she, so you win there too.
 

icyfresh

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Littlee300 said:
icyfresh said:
I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?
This isn't YouTube comments you know? Keep it the grammar straight.
Littlee300 said:
bluemistake2 said:
icyfresh said:
I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?
I'm bad with words also things might be awkward to be honest I've never been in this situation before so I have no clue how it would go
In words of the literacy genius Mark Twain
"With a head full of ignorance and a heart full of confidence, success is assured."
First one: HOW THE HELL DID U KNOW I JUST CAME OFF OF YOUTUBE?!
Second one: I agree