Pirate Kitty said:
That's the problem there is no way in hell i can get one away from the other so in reality i have 2 options, Tell her with her friend or tell her over text message and such.randomfox said:
So theres this girl....
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Well if it clears anything up, they go to the toilets hand in hand hope that settles the picture a little.Pirate Kitty said:
I've pretty much been ninja'd by you, but yes, OP, listen to Pirate Kitty.Pirate Kitty said:
There doesn't seem to be a whole lot here regarding grounds for a relationship from what you've said, but sometimes, things just end up working out that way. If you want things to continue with her in some way, it's best to just tell her how you feel.
Talk to her alone and in private for a moment to tell her. That's really the best and only thing you can do.
Crikey it's like I'm reading parts of my past. In all seriousness this is very similar to a relationship I had with a girl and, in line with the general feeling of this thread, the best course of action I think is to just tell the lass your feelings. Trust me worst that happens is that she says 'sorry not interested', in fact for me the girl I was turned down by is perhaps the person I consider to be my best mate the one I can talk to about anything.
TLDR: Go for it, even she turns you down you can still become closer as friends.
TLDR: Go for it, even she turns you down you can still become closer as friends.
Well my friend, you are in a tight spot indeed.. Look, I have been in the position of asking someone out that your friend likes and asking someone out that is very close to you and you don't really want to risk awkwardness..
Let me tell ya!
DON'T SWEAT THE FRIEND! The best thing to do is just tell him straight up whats going on, if he doesn't like it and acts like an ass over it nothing you can do. Don't try and live for other people, you gotta fight for yourself..
Now for the girl, and this is the damnably tricky part.
Look, if you really like this girl then not telling her is just going to lead you to depression and will cause awkwardness because you will have other things on your mind. If you tell her how you feel, and she doesn't say yes its the same deal, but you will both get over it quickly. But if you really feel like she was dropping hints then odds are she was. Just make a move.. And honestly, don't sweat being bad with words; EVERY GUY IS! We where all stuck when we where asking our first girl out. Its hard, awkward, and it takes a lot of balls.. But hey, if you are already willing to post it out on the internet it shows you have them already! So go get her!
Let me tell ya!
DON'T SWEAT THE FRIEND! The best thing to do is just tell him straight up whats going on, if he doesn't like it and acts like an ass over it nothing you can do. Don't try and live for other people, you gotta fight for yourself..
Now for the girl, and this is the damnably tricky part.
Look, if you really like this girl then not telling her is just going to lead you to depression and will cause awkwardness because you will have other things on your mind. If you tell her how you feel, and she doesn't say yes its the same deal, but you will both get over it quickly. But if you really feel like she was dropping hints then odds are she was. Just make a move.. And honestly, don't sweat being bad with words; EVERY GUY IS! We where all stuck when we where asking our first girl out. Its hard, awkward, and it takes a lot of balls.. But hey, if you are already willing to post it out on the internet it shows you have them already! So go get her!
I'm getting mixed messages here thank you all for advice so far but another question is this girl interested in me? yes? no? please tell me what you think thanks in advance
Look man none of us can say for sure, you have more information then us, you spend time with her and you know if she has been truly more affectionate towards you. I think she might be, but we can't honestly say yay or nay.. We just aren't that psychic...bluemistake2 said:
That is what everyone would see on the outside but on the inside we have no idea what is happening...Pirate Kitty said:
She could be plotting murder for all we know.
I have acute paranoia
I have so many "could have happened"s and I can tell you that they suck. The incredibly dense and difficult to read OP leads me to believe you like her?
Ask her out. If you don't and she likes you she will drift away.
Ask her out. If you don't and she likes you she will drift away.
I don't know.. depends on what kind of person she is. I have a friend who has flat out told me that if I told her i was interested and she didn't feel it wouldn't effect our relationship. It's not bad to ask for advice, but YOU know her best and eventually all these opinions wont matter and you'll do what feels right.
Ask her out, or at least tell her you like her. Im also an aussie in year nine and I think if you really like her then you should go ahead and just do it, if she says no it wont really matter it may be awkward for a bit but you should end up staying friends.bluemistake2 said: