As a privileged white male, this rings far more true than you would expect. It took me three different tries to convince my family to spend some money and take me to a doctor. Once there he was easily able to find that I was a manic depressant. But before it all happened, I was told to just get over it. Mental illness are things that can go unchecked, but really shouldn't. I do think we as a society do need more systems to help anyone who thinks or appears to have some kind of illness.Vegosiux said:There is no universal "trigger". One thing that does come close to it, however, is the tendency of our society that when and if a guy of that age tries to ask for help, he's told "Shut up and grow a pair", if you ask me.
If you're a "privileged white male" it seems as if it's a disgrace to ask for help when you need it, instead you should "Quit whining and grow a spine".
This is pretty much the answer, as far as I'm aware, and is something that Japan has a MASSIVE problem with.Vegosiux said:There is no universal "trigger". One thing that does come close to it, however, is the tendency of our society that when and if a guy of that age tries to ask for help, he's told "Shut up and grow a pair", if you ask me.
If you're a "privileged white male" it seems as if it's a disgrace to ask for help when you need it, instead you should "Quit whining and grow a spine".
It's all subjective to us who realize it, but to everyone who goes by society's definition of crazy [footnote]This is what I hate a lot, people thinking that their definition and outlook on things I always right.[/footnote], they have to rationalize, however horribly they do it.Vegosiux said:Well, the problem with that is that the general sentiment in the society seems to be "Crazy" = "Not enough like me for my comfort".xDarc said:Whatever happened to just crazy? You can't just be crazy anymore?
Is the guy who goes live a hermit life in the middle of nowhere crazy? I suppose most of us would say so. But he's not going to go on a killing spree, either.
Yes, it really is. Mental health issues are vastly stigmatized here in the US, to the point that people are extremely reluctant to even admit they have a problem, let alone seek help for it. And when they do, getting insurance to pay for it is a whole other hurdle. It's disgraceful that this country doesn't consider taking care of your mind to be as important as taking care of your body.SmashLovesTitanQuest said:Is it really like that in America?Vegosiux said:There is no universal "trigger". One thing that does come close to it, however, is the tendency of our society that when and if a guy of that age tries to ask for help, he's told "Shut up and grow a pair", if you ask me.
If you're a "privileged white male" it seems as if it's a disgrace to ask for help when you need it, instead you should "Quit whining and grow a spine".
Yeah! Those people should be blinded with a laser pointer in a colour of their choice, and be shot![footnote]This is humor. Not a serious suggestion.[/footnote]TizzytheTormentor said:Who knows, some people can just "snap"
The tragedy is horrible, but people are using it to ***** about Mass Effect and Guns.
No not really. He seems to be exaggerating. Where I'm from if you want help from your school's guidance councilor you can get it rather easily. Hell, you can visit a priest or preacher, they'll try to help you too.SmashLovesTitanQuest said:Is it really like that in America?Vegosiux said:There is no universal "trigger". One thing that does come close to it, however, is the tendency of our society that when and if a guy of that age tries to ask for help, he's told "Shut up and grow a pair", if you ask me.
If you're a "privileged white male" it seems as if it's a disgrace to ask for help when you need it, instead you should "Quit whining and grow a spine".
In Germany it seems better. You're likely to recieve at least a bit of help if you ask for or need it. The end goal is just to get you back into a shape where you can go work and pay your taxes without whining but hey, it is something.
Funny thing is that didn't stop numerous people here from shooting up schools. As you said, there is no universal trigger. Some of these guys may have had a bad childhood, some may have had a terrible time at high school, some may just be born with a disorder that makes them more likely to snap, some may have had all 3, etc etc.
Anyhow, how do you stop it? I have no idea really. No solution I can think of is realistic. You could try cutting down on pressure in schools and stress in general, but that's not happening because it might harm the precious fucking wage people will earn later. Cutting down on media coverage would be a good idea, but that's laughable.
Or we can take the defeatist, lethargic approach of "Oh, he was a nutcase, we really don't need to understand why this happened, really" as exhibited by some posters so far >.<Scarim Coral said:Tha't the thing, unless the shooter explain why he/ she did it (like Breivik) we have no idea what motivate a person to go on a killing spree (we can only speculate the cuase behind it).