So you like a girl...

[J-meMalone]

An ideal relationship gives you as much as you give back, and more. It's not something that causes a net loss but a net gain. Two people in a healthy relationship have and are so much more than what one person is or can have alone. There is risk involved, but even you should be able to see that nothing of value is without risk or work. You and KingGolem both claim to be focused on obtaining value, and yet you use fear and greed, 2 negative emotions, to justfy denying yourself what is arguably the MOST VALUABLE THING AVAILABLE TO YOU.

But it isn't available to me. It has never been available to me. It will never be available to me. I was born, apparently, as an abomination, a specimen which women regard as a barely-sapient sub-human freak. I've literally had sentiments like this expressed straight to my face, so excuse me for using that as a metre of my potential success in romantic affairs. It is clear from this that I am better alone - I can achieve immeasurably more by myself than I ever could with the burden of a romantic partner, even if I wasn't regarded as a grotesque monster.

All this sound like a scared child unwilling to take a risk that could truly benefit them.

If you seriously believe that ALL women are believe this, then you need to get out there and meet more. NOBODY will be seen as an abomination by all, NOBODY will be truly alone in their opinions or beliefs. You choose to believe there is nobody available to you and as long as you believe this THERE WILL BE NOBODY. You treat a relationship as a burden, but if you believe this and always have, then you will have no experience to prove or disprove such a statement. The opposite sex are people to, they take up half the population, you really think every single one who could be interested are only doing so they can spite you or milk you for money? That's an unbelievable generalisation, and a narcissistic one at that, believing HALF THE POPULATION is out to get you.

What you really are is scared. I know because I've been there, but I didn't have the strength to carry on alone. And you know what? I am better for it. I'm looking for someone, yes I'll get hurt along the way, but from just the taste I had two years ago, I know I'll be better for it braving the dangers of letting myself be vulnerable to another.

On topic: Personally, I don't tend to tell others how I feel, waiting for a right moment that never arises. However this may have something to do with the fact that I've recently managed to like only people in relationships, which certainly doesn't help.

If I were to (hypocritically) give my advice, it would be to tell them face to face and hope for the best.

 

[uristits]

Double Post. derp.

 

[uristits]

Well I met a girl today. Just met here, never seen her before. Guess what happens two hours later? Yeah. That was happens when I like a girl.

 

[Lilani]

If I liked a girl, I would first like to know when I turned lesbian.

...Anyway, definitely face to face, just the way I got together with my boyfriend. I once had a guy ask me if I had any plans on Valentine's through a text, and I actually felt quite affronted. I didn't really like him that way in the first place, and the fact that he would do it in such a way was just baffling to me. I wouldn't even think for a second of asking someone on a first date through a text, or even a phone call. Face-to-face is the ONLY way to do something like that. The only excuse for not doing so is if you're on different continents.

 

[blaize2010]

weeeeeeeeell, i'd like to say i walk right up to her and tell her. i'd like to, but i cannot say i do that without lying. social interactions are terrifying enough without me making a huge leap like that. the only times i've ever told a girl, it was after weeks of planning and growing a pair. and then i felt stupid a few times, as a few weeks into the relationship she tells me she was waiting for me to do so, to which i respond "it's the twenty first fucking century. you could have said something."

 

[kidwithxboxlive]

Well I met a girl today. Just met here, never seen her before. Guess what happens two hours later? Yeah. That was happens when I like a girl.

What? you became BEST friends? !!!!

 

[kidwithxboxlive]

If I liked a girl, I would first like to know when I turned lesbian.

...Anyway, definitely face to face, just the way I got together with my boyfriend. I once had a guy ask me if I had any plans on Valentine's through a text, and I actually felt quite affronted. I didn't really like him that way in the first place, and the fact that he would do it in such a way was just baffling to me. I wouldn't even think for a second of asking someone on a first date through a text, or even a phone call. Face-to-face is the ONLY way to do something like that. The only excuse for not doing so is if you're on different continents.

EDIT 1: Also, for the ladies out there, if your heterosexual, tell us about lads instead

There you go, please read the full post by me first...

 

[Lilani]

If I liked a girl, I would first like to know when I turned lesbian.

...Anyway, definitely face to face, just the way I got together with my boyfriend. I once had a guy ask me if I had any plans on Valentine's through a text, and I actually felt quite affronted. I didn't really like him that way in the first place, and the fact that he would do it in such a way was just baffling to me. I wouldn't even think for a second of asking someone on a first date through a text, or even a phone call. Face-to-face is the ONLY way to do something like that. The only excuse for not doing so is if you're on different continents.

EDIT 1: Also, for the ladies out there, if your heterosexual, tell us about lads instead

There you go, please read the full post by me first...

I read that, but I still wanted to say it. And I still answered your question. Can't I have just a little fun :<

 

[Kevlar Eater]

I have never been in that situation, so I wouldn't know what to do other than nothing.

 

[badgersprite]

I think this image puts it best (because I can only express myself in gifs these days).

And then I get maced.

 

[AnAdventureCore]

1: If all I wanted was sex, I'd just put it out there. Saves time, kills games, no filler.
(You'd be surprised how much it works)
2: If I wanted to be in a relationship, I'll tell her "I think you're physically attractive and I'd like to get to know if you are more than just a pretty face and a nice body."

Remember, rejection is your protection! 7 billion people in this world, can't be caught moaping over ONE.

 

[kidwithxboxlive]

If I liked a girl, I would first like to know when I turned lesbian.

...Anyway, definitely face to face, just the way I got together with my boyfriend. I once had a guy ask me if I had any plans on Valentine's through a text, and I actually felt quite affronted. I didn't really like him that way in the first place, and the fact that he would do it in such a way was just baffling to me. I wouldn't even think for a second of asking someone on a first date through a text, or even a phone call. Face-to-face is the ONLY way to do something like that. The only excuse for not doing so is if you're on different continents.

EDIT 1: Also, for the ladies out there, if your heterosexual, tell us about lads instead

There you go, please read the full post by me first...

I read that, but I still wanted to say it. And I still answered your question. Can't I have just a little fun :<

Sorry hard to judge signals over computer....

 

[Blow_Pop]

face to face unless its someone that is hard to tell face to face and doesn't have a webcam or anything. unless its a girl i work with and then i just keep it to myself and don't get involved.

 

[Blemontea]

Probably the weaker man here, The only way ive ever asked a girl out is by using a game of origami yes or no. one messenger paper pigeon, a green dove for yes, and a sad blue penguin for no. After that i would pretty much kept emotions like that bottled up, or release them and translate them into other forms. The only reason im in a relationship right now is because the girl im dating has big enough brains and balls too know i like her, and that im bad at social situations.... she pinned me into a corner and forced me to ask her out after spilling my guts out... it was awesome.

 

[Comando96]

Tell myself its not going to happen, immediately top up on my anti depressants and continue on as if nothing had happened.

.... I wish I was lying >.>

 

[uristits]

Well I met a girl today. Just met here, never seen her before. Guess what happens two hours later? Yeah. That was happens when I like a girl.

What? you became BEST friends? !!!!

Well sure, If you want to put it that way.

 

[Reincarnatedwolfgod]

i am not sure but gaining confidence would be a good first step

Girl I Like: Hey whats up.
Me: I kinda have a personal question.
GIL: Sure ask away.
ME: Well you see I really like you, your beautiful, smart, funny, I had never met someone until I liked being with all the time until I met you but I have a problem.
GIL (starts to blush): Whats that?
Me: I have absolutly no idea how to ask you out, do you have any suggestions.

Works everytime.

Your avatar is Austin Powers how covenant