Sooo.... I think we should see other people.
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Why am I not surprised, considering your avatar.Prof.Wood said:
how I met your mother is legen-wait for it-dary!
'I think we should break up.'
My pet hatred with that situation is when they suggest an open-relationship, or going on a break. False hope to sensitive people you're going to drop isn't doing THEM any favours. It's like taking off a plaster, best to just rip it off and deal with the fallout straight away.
My pet hatred with that situation is when they suggest an open-relationship, or going on a break. False hope to sensitive people you're going to drop isn't doing THEM any favours. It's like taking off a plaster, best to just rip it off and deal with the fallout straight away.
I've been in that situation a couple of times and I found out two things:
1. I SUCK at breaking up.
And 2. It's always going to be different and difficult no matter what or who you're with.
Well...unless there is cheating or something involved, then the answers probably pretty clear haha!
I found that it's best not to sugar coat it. The longer you drag it on, the longer then have to listen to you dump them. Also, not swearing is a good idea too.
1. I SUCK at breaking up.
And 2. It's always going to be different and difficult no matter what or who you're with.
Well...unless there is cheating or something involved, then the answers probably pretty clear haha!
I found that it's best not to sugar coat it. The longer you drag it on, the longer then have to listen to you dump them. Also, not swearing is a good idea too.
Only ever had to break up twice.
Once was over the phone, where I apologised profusely. She seemed ok with it, and I thought I was off the hook. Then her friend phoned me 30 seconds later...
The second was when the girl pretty much knew I was going to break up with her because of how I'd been behaving. I, once again, apologised profusely and once again, someone tried to make me feel bad for it. Her sister this time, being all like 'You could have at least given her a hug or something'. I fucking tried, she shoved me off!
Once was over the phone, where I apologised profusely. She seemed ok with it, and I thought I was off the hook. Then her friend phoned me 30 seconds later...
The second was when the girl pretty much knew I was going to break up with her because of how I'd been behaving. I, once again, apologised profusely and once again, someone tried to make me feel bad for it. Her sister this time, being all like 'You could have at least given her a hug or something'. I fucking tried, she shoved me off!
I've had 1 Real relation so far, i think it was definitely over when i said "OK, forget it, i never wanna speak to you again!" and i blocked her on MSN, Facebook and all the other sites that we had accounts on. (i'm glad that's over, she turned out to be a real !@#$%)
Sooo brutal! Props dude.Dudemeister said:
I've broken up with people twice, and those times it was more of a mutural thing. Kinda good because it was like "Yeah, this isn't going to work.. Lets quit while we're ahead."
Last year my ex dumped my by going "I just wanna be single for awhile" which means "I'm 18 and cute, I'ma go whore around for a bit"
*****...
Well if your asking for the painless way of breaking up with someone, that's easy - make them want to break up with you. Make the other person totally resent you in everyway. Every little thing that that person has ever liked/loved about you, change it to the complete opposite. If you're nice and tolerable, then become brute and untolerable. If you're gorgeous and outstanding then become ugly and shallow... Do whatever is needed to drive that person away from you so that one day he/she breaks up with YOU. And since you wanted to break up in the first place you shouldn't care that much or at all. It's sort of a long procedure, but it's my preffered way of "breaking up" with someone. Because, you see... There's no painless way otherwise to do it and I hate hurting people and their feelings...
Walk up to their grandmother/mother:
"Hello Mrs. [Insert Name Here], how are you today?"
"I'm quite-"
"TELL IT TO MY BALLS!"
Storm out. Works 70% of the time, every time.
"Hello Mrs. [Insert Name Here], how are you today?"
"I'm quite-"
"TELL IT TO MY BALLS!"
Storm out. Works 70% of the time, every time.
Well, the two times I've broken up with someone were quite different. First time I sat him down and explained my feelings and he explained his and we relaised that we just weren't suited to each other anymore. Nicely done I thought.
Second time the guy was a total bore and rather then put up with any crap I just stopped contacting him. He couldn't have been that broken up about it because he never tried to contact me at all. Again, nicely done.
Second time the guy was a total bore and rather then put up with any crap I just stopped contacting him. He couldn't have been that broken up about it because he never tried to contact me at all. Again, nicely done.
Ahh, as a non-confrontational person I tend to in the most disrespectful and easiest route available.
Just don't ever talk to them ever again. Don't answer their calls, or the door, or anything. Eventually they get the point. I've never encountered repercussions. 0f course, you have to be a horrible person if you're going this route.
Just don't ever talk to them ever again. Don't answer their calls, or the door, or anything. Eventually they get the point. I've never encountered repercussions. 0f course, you have to be a horrible person if you're going this route.
