Yeah, but that time is good and gone. She's still my best friend. Had a few loves since then, in between girls right now.
Soppy subject: Your First Love
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Well, we're talking human relationships, so no. In fact, not even the "OMG we like totally made out and love each other and stuff" thing. (I would have actually quoted that, but I'm lazy.)
By the way, I'm 16. Yeah, 16. Never had a girlfriend. Never kissed a girl. Not terribly interested in doing so. Not gay. Not Asexual. Just don't care for romantic relationships. Even normal social relationships (as in, those things you people call "friends") are something I try to avoid.
By the way, I'm 16. Yeah, 16. Never had a girlfriend. Never kissed a girl. Not terribly interested in doing so. Not gay. Not Asexual. Just don't care for romantic relationships. Even normal social relationships (as in, those things you people call "friends") are something I try to avoid.
Depends how you define love.
If you mean one person feeling strongly for another, then yes. For years I wanted a certain girl more than I wanted oxygen.
If you mean one person feeling strongly for another and that feeling is reciprocated by the other, no. No woman has ever felt anything for me.
If you mean one person pretending to like another as a practical joke, yes. No fewer than three times, a female has expressed interest in me, which later turned out to be nothing more than a joke someone was playing at my expense.
If you mean one person feeling strongly for another, then yes. For years I wanted a certain girl more than I wanted oxygen.
If you mean one person feeling strongly for another and that feeling is reciprocated by the other, no. No woman has ever felt anything for me.
If you mean one person pretending to like another as a practical joke, yes. No fewer than three times, a female has expressed interest in me, which later turned out to be nothing more than a joke someone was playing at my expense.
I had my first Kiss just under 2 months ago. and life's been on the Updog for the most part! She's the first to actually get close to me and it sucks that she's leaving for school monday, but I'm already at peace with it and ready to keep going!
My first love started as a very good friend, then i just found be utterly shallow and to be honest exceptionally stupid. I think the absolute "Wow i could never love this person" came from this conversation. She will be in Italics.
(random talk about genetics)
Yeah you genetics determine a lot more than we know. Did you know they can tell you you
place of birth? How cool is that?
they can not tell you where you are born, do you mean your heritage? Like say a place your family originated and not you specifically?
No trust me babe, i am training to be a nurse, every baby born in the hospital I work at can be trace back to this hospital by their genetic code. Like i say it is not common knowledge they should feature it on CSI or something.
I'm sorry but that is just total bullshit... perhaps you should not believe everything you see on CSI... or Oprah for that matter.
NO! You just do not know because you are stupid. They can even tell your religion by your genetics!
You can not be fucking serious...
I am! I am very serious (I pour myself a drink) I hate it when you drink, you do it to ignore me, i am going to pour that out (she tries to pour out my liquor)
You deserve to be ignored... fuck just go home
(random obscenities soon drowned out by deadma5 because i know she hate deadmau5 i plan how to break it off and go to sleep)
we "date" for perhaps 2 weeks after she come to my house at like 4 A.M. drunk and saying how some guy yelled at her, said guy was a bartender who kicked her out for being hammered like 5 hours ago after last call. for some reason she walked back to my place after smashing here car (apparently she drove in this drunk state, i thought she took a cab or literally just walked all the way back) and demanded we watch some shit movie. I drove her home deleted my contact from her phone and in it place now said "(Dane) never try to contact me again" Dane being my name. So glad that is over... what a *****.
Her "Ultimate revenge" was posting on my facebook that I was Bi and looked at furry porn two thing you could find out by reading my facebook because I had posted them on it way before her. This in turn got her a lot of hate mail for her anti-gay comments. My revenge (and way i got her to stop talking to me) was E-mailing her parents picture of her wrecked car with the caption "This is how well your daughter drives drunk" and thus got them to stop paying her gas money.
(random talk about genetics)
Yeah you genetics determine a lot more than we know. Did you know they can tell you you
place of birth? How cool is that?
they can not tell you where you are born, do you mean your heritage? Like say a place your family originated and not you specifically?
No trust me babe, i am training to be a nurse, every baby born in the hospital I work at can be trace back to this hospital by their genetic code. Like i say it is not common knowledge they should feature it on CSI or something.
I'm sorry but that is just total bullshit... perhaps you should not believe everything you see on CSI... or Oprah for that matter.
NO! You just do not know because you are stupid. They can even tell your religion by your genetics!
You can not be fucking serious...
I am! I am very serious (I pour myself a drink) I hate it when you drink, you do it to ignore me, i am going to pour that out (she tries to pour out my liquor)
You deserve to be ignored... fuck just go home
(random obscenities soon drowned out by deadma5 because i know she hate deadmau5 i plan how to break it off and go to sleep)
we "date" for perhaps 2 weeks after she come to my house at like 4 A.M. drunk and saying how some guy yelled at her, said guy was a bartender who kicked her out for being hammered like 5 hours ago after last call. for some reason she walked back to my place after smashing here car (apparently she drove in this drunk state, i thought she took a cab or literally just walked all the way back) and demanded we watch some shit movie. I drove her home deleted my contact from her phone and in it place now said "(Dane) never try to contact me again" Dane being my name. So glad that is over... what a *****.
Her "Ultimate revenge" was posting on my facebook that I was Bi and looked at furry porn two thing you could find out by reading my facebook because I had posted them on it way before her. This in turn got her a lot of hate mail for her anti-gay comments. My revenge (and way i got her to stop talking to me) was E-mailing her parents picture of her wrecked car with the caption "This is how well your daughter drives drunk" and thus got them to stop paying her gas money.
Depends how you define first love. I know way back when I was about seven I was incredibly close to a girl my own age, I think if her life hadn't been total shit we might have been friends and more later in life.
I had a few crushes later in life, but I was a quiet, nerdy, nervous kid who never had the guts to speak up to the girls I liked. I spent almost every day of the week with one and even met up with her outside school a few times but I could never get over my White Knight, she has a (incredibly abusive twat of a..) boyfriend.
I fell hard for a girl I met online after a few years of pretty much being alone. To this day I don't actually know for sure that she was a real person, I made a bunch of mistakes in assuming that she was and for all I know at this point she could have been some overweight dude in a basement. She strung me along for years until I met the woman who would eventually become my wife.
In fact, I'd say my wife is my first real love, because she is the first person in my life I was actually motivated to do more than just watch from a distance. I moved half way across the world for this woman, and side by side we've been climbing our way from the pit of despair we were both in when we met. We've gone from never leaving our homes and spending all day playing games where we pretend to be other people, to fully functional adults with our own home, good jobs, and a family. In 8 years that's pretty good.
I had a few crushes later in life, but I was a quiet, nerdy, nervous kid who never had the guts to speak up to the girls I liked. I spent almost every day of the week with one and even met up with her outside school a few times but I could never get over my White Knight, she has a (incredibly abusive twat of a..) boyfriend.
I fell hard for a girl I met online after a few years of pretty much being alone. To this day I don't actually know for sure that she was a real person, I made a bunch of mistakes in assuming that she was and for all I know at this point she could have been some overweight dude in a basement. She strung me along for years until I met the woman who would eventually become my wife.
In fact, I'd say my wife is my first real love, because she is the first person in my life I was actually motivated to do more than just watch from a distance. I moved half way across the world for this woman, and side by side we've been climbing our way from the pit of despair we were both in when we met. We've gone from never leaving our homes and spending all day playing games where we pretend to be other people, to fully functional adults with our own home, good jobs, and a family. In 8 years that's pretty good.
In highschool, her name was Tahnee. She was fun, smart and had a good sense of humour. Also she was a red head, so you know how fun they are....
Didn't last for one reason, and one reason only: she moved and simply lost touch because of the distance.
Didn't last for one reason, and one reason only: she moved and simply lost touch because of the distance.
I experience my first love during my Junior year in high school. She was a close friend of mine that I had known for years and was one day awestruck by her new appearance as I made my way through the halls of our school. Although I had always acknowledge her as my friend, it was the first time that I had acknowledged her as a woman and I was head over heels for her.
Sadly, nothing came about my love for her and we just remain as friends.
Sadly, nothing came about my love for her and we just remain as friends.
I met my first love as a senior in high school. Miranda was two years younger than me and I marched with her in band, and for about the first six months of us knowing each other, we hardly spoke to each other. We got to know each other during a band trip to Atlanta after an incident involving two liters of Mountain Dew, and after about a month or so of flirting, we started dating.
I knew going into it that it wasn't going to last very long but it didn't stop me from pouring every ounce of myself into that relationship, having never had a serious relationship before. Before I knew it, I had fallen in love with her.
Remember the "pouring my heart and soul into the relationship" thing? Yeah, well that over-zealousness is what caused the downfall of the relationship. I cared about her more than she did about me. I'm not going to go into it, but in hindsight, I knew what I did wrong and what I would've done differently.
That was roughly two years ago. Haven't dated since. I can't remember the last time we actually spoke to each other. So no, I wouldn't say we're still friends although we were on friendly terms last we spoke. And I imagine we would be friendly if we spoke again. I've thought about reconnecting with her but it doesn't really seem worth it anymore.
Maybe once I'm back in something stable with some perspective, we can look back on it and laugh.
I knew going into it that it wasn't going to last very long but it didn't stop me from pouring every ounce of myself into that relationship, having never had a serious relationship before. Before I knew it, I had fallen in love with her.
Remember the "pouring my heart and soul into the relationship" thing? Yeah, well that over-zealousness is what caused the downfall of the relationship. I cared about her more than she did about me. I'm not going to go into it, but in hindsight, I knew what I did wrong and what I would've done differently.
That was roughly two years ago. Haven't dated since. I can't remember the last time we actually spoke to each other. So no, I wouldn't say we're still friends although we were on friendly terms last we spoke. And I imagine we would be friendly if we spoke again. I've thought about reconnecting with her but it doesn't really seem worth it anymore.
Maybe once I'm back in something stable with some perspective, we can look back on it and laugh.
My first real love was when I was 17, I was madly infatuated and ready to plan my whole life around this one guy. It didn't last more than 6 months, but it was a feeling unlike any I'd ever had before, and I've probably never been as excited about anyone since. I've been in relationships where I can honestly say I've loved my other boyfriends even after that, but it's just felt different.
I don't think I've ever told someone I loved them without meaning it for sure. I know that even though I'm not together with them anymore and probably never will be, a part of me will always cherish and perhaps even love them, because they helped shape me into who I am. Doesn't mean that I think that any one of them is 'the one' or whatever, but they all hold special places in my heart.
I don't think I've ever told someone I loved them without meaning it for sure. I know that even though I'm not together with them anymore and probably never will be, a part of me will always cherish and perhaps even love them, because they helped shape me into who I am. Doesn't mean that I think that any one of them is 'the one' or whatever, but they all hold special places in my heart.
I was with this girl for a year, and I thought everything was great. She was Indian though and her parents didn't want her dating some white guy so we had to keep it a secret. She had a whole load of problem's and she tended to take that out on me but I didn't really mind. It was difficult sometimes but we usually made it work. Unfortunately she decided that she didn't like lying to her parents and after a year broke it off with me.
That's what she said anyway. Found out a week later that she was dating some other guy and had been lying to me about almost everything she had ever told me. That was pretty rough.
That's what she said anyway. Found out a week later that she was dating some other guy and had been lying to me about almost everything she had ever told me. That was pretty rough.
I fancied a girl all through secondary school (11-16), and after some considerable social pressure she agreed to go out with me. I bought us tickets to a Taylor Swift concert for her 17th birthday (it's worth noting we were good friends at this point) - we had a great time, but I didn't work up the nerve to kiss her.
Over the next few weeks/months we grew closer and more intimate, and finally she decided that we were a couple - facebook official! We got a reputation as a bit of a PDA couple, which I regret, but at the same time I've got great friends who let it slide, and my girlfriend and I became very tight-knit.
Fast forward two years and we've gone to university in the same city, and are doing great! She's my first girlfriend, first kiss, and also my first love.
I don't call this just a teen romance either, and get pissed off at people who do. I don't appreciate being patronised, or being told my opinions and feelings are invalid because I'm still 18.
Over the next few weeks/months we grew closer and more intimate, and finally she decided that we were a couple - facebook official! We got a reputation as a bit of a PDA couple, which I regret, but at the same time I've got great friends who let it slide, and my girlfriend and I became very tight-knit.
Fast forward two years and we've gone to university in the same city, and are doing great! She's my first girlfriend, first kiss, and also my first love.
I don't call this just a teen romance either, and get pissed off at people who do. I don't appreciate being patronised, or being told my opinions and feelings are invalid because I'm still 18.