goathax said:
That's my point. You're not being deprived of anything, so your choice to get all "circle the wagons" about suggests bad things. You have nothing at all to gain by defending some random jerkass who can't make it 9-to-5 without saying things that would get most people in trouble at work. If you have nothing to gain or protect, it starts to look really suspect -- like you think calling people "feminist whore" is something worth fighting for.
And I think you're overreacting and really calling out the wrong person here. I'm just annoyed over how people always take things far too seriously.
By your logic, embracing the idea of freedom of speech is the same thing as being free to call anyone anything and get away with it. I'm sorry, but I just don't care about it, and I don't think other people should pay it any heed either. I'm not defending it. I just think people are overreacting. I'm guessing you can see the difference.
But it's not that simple. If a game had a black character who was unsympathetic and a coder referred to him using the n-word, that does more than just sit there hidden in the code. It says something about the person who made it. It says they think it's appropriate to treat other human beings like that. And when other people choose to defend it, it says they approve of it. If I don't like a woman, my choice not to call her a whore has nothing to do with what I think of her as a person and everything to do with my understanding that whatever is wrong with her is not a product of her sex or of how well she adheres to gender roles. Techland's rogue coder and anyone else who resorts to gendered slurs doesn't seem to get that.
I don't think you should be quick to judge like that in your example either. There might be unknown circumstances, like how that character behaves in said game. You didn't give me anything else to go by here, and just made up an example that happened to fit your view of this whole thing. If that black character happened to be a "gangsta" like in GTA: San Andreas, where they call each other "******" and white people "cracker" over and over, it could be easily understandable between the coders. If it isn't an attack on you or anyone else, just get over it. As I said before, I'm not defending it. I just think you're overreacting about it, and that's what bothers me. If someone came out and called you something like that, like saying you're fat (not saying you are, I have no idea. I used it because I am.), it would be a whole different ballgame. If someone used "fatty" to describe an obese character, I wouldn't care, and nor should any other overweight person. That's all I'm saying. Stop saying I'm defending it as if I actually think it's "proper". I don't. I just don't think it's worth getting upset over.
If I got up in arms every time some knuckledragger said stupid crap about feminism because he didn't understand it, I wouldn't be able to use the internet or play video games. What does bother me is how the moment people pointed this out, a whole hell of a lot of people start straw-manning the hell out of the entire feminist movement or leaping to the defense of something that deserves no defense.
It's not the most awful thing anyone's ever done, but it's also unambiguously shitty to do and it makes no sense that people would defend it.
Seeing as I didn't straw-man the hell out of anything, I'll view this as a general statement, and just say "fair enough". I think the basic idea of feminism shouldn't even exist as feminism. It should just "be". Anything else is just silly. But I can see why people are upset with parts of the feminist movement, just as with any other group that has an extremist side to it. I won't go into it further, I'm pretty sure we will agree on the point of feminism in general.