thaluikhain said:
As I understand it, that might be because the ship is female itself, and would get jealous about other females. So, you can have a female figurehead, but not any actual women. Or something.
Yeah, but it wasn't just a figurehead. A lot of ships used to have figures and reliefs of women also carved into the forward sections of the vessel. Multiple drpictions of different women.
Have to remember that sailing was practically a death sentence for most crews expecting to serve a long time. High exposure to new diseases, piss poor food, ruthless discipline, horrific living conditions, high intensity labour... Given the huge economic and physical risks involved, many naval traditions and superstitions were highly individualized. Not only that, but given that successful voyages were often merely about luck, and the personal costs of assuming command, it's all too often easy to pass one's shortcomings and failures as something beyond your human control.
I forget the exact nature of the event, but one of tge first things a captain fid after recovering from storm damage was tear off the figurehead (of a woman) and cast it into the sea. Refusing to bear one on his ship. That being said, on the flipside of that there are cases of women joining crews in sometimes very prestigious position after being at sea long enough to learn highlg specialized skills.
A lot of these traditions are as individual as their captaincy. Even though many figureheads weren't actually maidens, it was still common to affix/carve multiple depictions of women into the prow. Suffice it to say, "no women on working ships" is more a 'guide' than a rule. Not only that, a lot of these traditions date back to before the relatively new idea of thinking of ships as female. Seeing Athena on ancient Greek ships was both an act of piety, a prayer to a goddess of war, and a symbol of the city where the ship was berthed from, for example.
(Edit) Might I add though. No sailor barring a greedy/enterprising merchant/merchant employee loved their ship though. So if the idea was the ship might get jealous it it were spurned by the men and their attention is kind of weird. Most sailors would call both her and the seas a cruel *****. There's a reason why piracy and privateering proper was seen as fair less enviable than traditional buccaneering in terms of the Caribbean... open seafaring turned good men bitter, if not monsters.
Buccaneers had a fair more landed lifestyle and it's surmised this increase of autonomy was what birthed the more romantic images we transpose onto 'pirates' as a collective. You know, crews rather than captains choosing prey, better divides of wealth, elected leadership, big ships...
All the stuff we assume all pirates did in popular culture.