artanis_neravar said:
Lilani said:
artanis_neravar said:
Angie7F said:
artanis_neravar said:
It's not actually phallic, but either way the only opinions that matter are the people close to me, and the people to me will know what it is. Anyone beyond that can think it is what ever they want.
I understand and totally believe that you feel this way, but i think what people are trying to say here is that you never know what may cause you to change your mind on this.
I think choosing a misinterpret-able symbol is important as you will have it for life, and you will be able to love and be proud of your tattoo more is there are no misconceptions or misinterpretations. Especially because the position you choose is actually very noticeable.
And always best to consult the artists themselves.
How is it very noticeable?
If you're a guy, the shoulder or shoulderblade will be something people will see one way or another. Whether you're out for a swim or just outside and get hot or dirty enough to take your shirt off, you'll more likely than not take your shirt off one way or another. If you're a girl, anytime you wear something sleeveless or a swimsuit they'll see it or at least part of it. Then of course there's the inevitable "Oh, you've got a tattoo? Let's see it!" conversation, which is what you will get every single time you tell somebody you have a tattoo.
The only places that are truly "unnoticeable" places are either right around the areas of your private parts or under the hair on your head.
I spend 9 hours a day working on design work in front of a computer, in a dress shirt or polo. Outdoor work is generally not in my repertoire, and even when it is I leave my shirt on. After having been a competitive swimmer for ten years, any pool that I can't swim laps in leaves me more agitated than I was before I got in, and the times I do manage to swim, I am either alone or with only my friends.
Ok, I understand that you have that all figured out.
I said it is very noticeable because as a girl, I have had boyfriends with tattoos on their backs and it is very noticeable when we are...intimate.
If it was a tattoo that i secretly thought was ugly, i would have to keep looking at that same tattoo more often that the person with the tattoo is aware of.
The same boyfriend had a tattoo on his inner wrist, and as much as it was a more visible location, I noticed it less because arms tend to move around a lot.
The back is something other people see a lot, its pretty much stagnant, and therefore, for noticeable.
But, as you said, if you hardly ever take your shirt off in public, then go for it.