ScreamingNinja said:
I'm a parent. And there's really no need to beat a child like this. To those who say 'OH THIS ISN'T SEVERLY BEATING!! THERE'S WORSE OUT THERE!' STFU and get out. Sure, nothing was broken. Sure, she wasn't thrown into anything, etc. She was hit, with a belt, so many times it's not funny. It's a beating, pure and simple. And it's still wrong.
Oh, she was stealing? So what? Ground them, do what that other guy up there said and take away her computer, give her lots of chores. Our eldest caused a lot of trouble, back chatting, fighting with her sister, the rest of it. She's grounded for two weeks, bed at 7pm, has to clean her room every day after school, has to do homework as soon as she's home, etc. She's behaving now, because guess what? It's boring.
You don't need to beat your child. You don't need to hurt them like this.
And if anyone else was beaten worse than this, then dudes: Your parents sucked at being parents. It's simple.
Also: You're right, a smack never hurt anyone. Are they needed? Not really. You're an adult. Use your head when it comes to punishing your child.
What I was saying was not to diminish the severity of the crime. It was not to let the hyperbolic reaction of the internet at large diminish the severity of the far, far more severe crimes that occur on a regular basis. I can almost guarantee you that right now, somewhere in the US a child is being given a beating that makes this one look like a time out. Where is the outrage for
that level of child abuse? Why make an example of this one man, when what we really have is a systemic problem, which needs a lot more than one person going to jail seven years after the fact for anything to be done about it? That's the real issue here.
Edit: Also, ironically enough, I am
both the guy who said they should have taken away her computer,
and the guy who pointed out that there are much, much worse cases of abuse going on. You might want to pay more attention to usernames, or at least avatars.