dragonswarrior said:
Ahhhhh that makes a lot more sense, yeah you're right, if you're in the wrong, you shouldn't be afraid to change your views as new information comes available and you learn more on the subject, people are too defensive in this respect and will argue a point on principle so they don't appear "weak". It's a sad turn of events for sure.
I'll admit, sometimes evil is evil, sometimes good is good, but mostly I think shades of grey is the way of things, nothing is ever truly absolute, sometimes evil needs to be done for the sake of good and sometimes good serves only to propagate evil. It's an interesting discussion.
Anyway glad you didn't take that second part too seriously.
C.S.Strowbridge said:
Two points.
1.) Sometimes games do things that are bad, that they shouldn't do, and that reinforces negative stereotypes. You need to point out the problems and say why they are problems before you can suggest solutions. No one is going to fix a problem if they don't think there is a problem.
2.) You actually catch more flies with balsamic vinegar than with honey.
Anita Sarkeesian says before every video that you can like these games and still admit there are problems. However, many people ignore this part of the video, because they need to be attacked by outside forces in order to have an identity. That's the most important lesson to learn from GamerGate. There are some people who need an outside enemy to have an identity. These people will never be satisfied.
1. But there is a difference between: "This isn't good, here's why and you guys should have done better and here's one idea on how..." and again, "this is just bad, why would you do this? This is just so bad, you guys should feel bad, it feels bad right? I hope it does."
2. Surely that's dependant on the species of fly in question?
I actually have no issue with Sarkeesian, I think her series could do a few things a little better, she could go into more details or again proffer more positives: "This game did this wrong... but it did do this right..." but again that ties into my, it doesn't get clicks and clicks get you paid point. I'm not a fan of hers, but what she says is interesting enough food for thought. You're right though, some people will never be satisfied without a cause to fight for, however peripheral and tangential that cause is.
As I said a friend of mine and I had this discussion last night and at the end she asked me: "Do you consider yourself a feminist or an equalist?" to which I responded initially with: "I'm none, I don't like those terms, they paint a target people will use to outright dismiss your argument without understanding it, if anything I'm a peoplist, people should just be cool to each other, if you don't like what they say, tell them why and why you think it's wrong, but don't attack, engage them instead."