The Gentleman said:
Actually, by contemporary definitions, that was technically not rape. Before you flame me, allow me to explain:
As many here are fairly aware, rape in and of itself is one of the newer violent crimes established in western traditions. As such, what defined rape was very limited to violent forcible penetration without consent. The stereotype rapist were pretty much the only ones targeted by this definition. Many jurisdictions even required a resistance by the victim in order to establish force. As such, intercourse by coercion or deception were legal in many jurisdictions up until the 1990s when many reexamined the laws and amended them to include such tactics.
Rape does not have to be violent. If you drugged a woman (alcohol counts) and slept with her, it can, has, will, and SHOULD be considered rape. The examples you mentioned involved the women making a "choice", but if the victim's mind is altered (like Ms. Marvel's was with mind control) then, yes, it is unwilling sex upon a woman not in her proper state of mind to make rational decisions.
I know this story and I know this story well. Bob is going to bring up what happened to Ms. Marvel in his next episode, I wager. Spoiler: she was PISSED. She returned angry and upset, claiming she was mind controlled into everything and none of her friends questioned it or tried to stop her. Her friends failed her and let her be used, mentally and physically.
That is rape.
I don't often speak out on that, but I've been the victim of such actions myself. I HATE saying it, but, yes, I was raped once. It was miserable. Terrible. It left mental scars I carry with me to this day and it continues to affect every relationship I have and every act of love I do.
As a lover of comics, however, I continue to be disappointed with how women were, and still are, portrayed. Earlier this year, a woman was booed at Comic Con for asking the male-dominated leaders of DC Comics to have more prominent female heroes and to give them more respect. What the hell, people?
I played a game with my fiance; could we name a single female heroine that has not 1) been killed, 2) depowered, 3) raped, 4) been shoe-horned into a marriage, or 5) gotten pregnant.
... We were only able to name ONE (love ya, Squirrel Girl). From Wonder Woman to She-Hulk to Ms. Marvel to Scarlet Witch to Jean Grey to Batgirl to Storm to Black Canary to Power Girl to practically every other female character...
It's okay to break Batman's back; he'll get better. Batgirl gets shot, she's paralyzed for life. It would not be okay to turn Captain America into a sleazy, sex-crazed man-bimbo, but it's okay to do that to Starfire. It's not okay to RAPE Spider-man, but so many female heroines have been to the point that it's sickening. It's not okay to kill Alfred and stuff his body into a refrigerator, but, screw it, let's do that to Green Lantern's girlfriend.
I want to enjoy comics. As a girl, and a rape victim, I need empowering heroines in my life. Neither Marvel nor DC really seem to understand that and continue to write sexist comics almost exclusively for horny young boys. The new Catwoman comic spent 2 whole pages focusing on her boobs and butt before we even bothered to see her FACE. Can you imagine a Batman comic where two whole pages (of a 20 page comic) are spent on Batman's crotch and ass?
*breathes* Okay. Rant over people. See you next week, Bob.