Silverspetz said:
And I suppose you see yourself as representative of all that men are thought today?
And you are?
Who is? Did you ask them?
It's an easy claim to make, but a lot harder to demonstrate...
Silverspetz said:
Nu huh? That's it?
So why aren't you misogynistic, what with all the misogynistic games, and TV, and ads, and music, and society in general...
Silverspetz said:
It wouldn't, because any argument to be made FOR treating women poorly is stupid at best,
Wait wait wait... So you have judged ANY argument that goes against your already held belief to be "stupid at best" before any of it was proposed? Then that means the media, regardless of what it proposes, will never have any effect on your preconceived notions.
Most people think like that about most things they believe. I mean it's 2014 and we still hear that the bumblebee can't fly, homeopathy works, the equinox makes eggs stand up, we only use 10% of our brains...
If actual true arguments can't dissuade people from deeply held beliefs, why the FUCK would you assume a game who isn't even trying is going to?
Silverspetz said:
Or they are simply not engaged enough in gender issues that they pick up on the subtext at all,
Oh, I see, it's a simple case of "I'm just better than the John Q Public."
That's a common line of thought. It's unfounded and unreasonable, but common.
Silverspetz said:
Which no one has done, so you are basically just laughing to yourself.
I don't normally do this, but it's kinda funny so...
Damsels 1 [http://www.feministfrequency.com/2013/03/damsel-in-distress-part-1/]: This brings us to one of the core reasons why the trope is so problematic and
pernicious for women?s representations.
Damsels 2 [http://www.feministfrequency.com/2013/05/damsel-in-distress-part-2-tropes-vs-women/]:"One of the really insidious things about systemic & institutional sexism is that most often regressive attitudes and
harmful gender stereotypes are perpetuated"
Consequently violent revenge based narratives, repeated ad nauseum,
can also be harmful to men
Damsels 3 [http://www.feministfrequency.com/2013/08/damsel-in-distress-part-3-tropes-vs-women/]: acts of altruism are repeatedly presented in heavily gendered ways that are bound up in
harmful myths.
I think 3 videos is enough. And that's just CTRL + F. I'm too lazy to catch all the insinuated ones.
Silverspetz said:
All very good points, if we were talking about the history of gender issues at large, which we aren't.
Aren't we? You claimed one "source" of how sexism is being fixed. I presented you with the history of what has caused it thus far. Spoiler: Not the same thing.
Silverspetz said:
And again, this position is just baffling to me since it essentially denies the very foundation for why art and literature is appreciated as anything more than recreation. I can't think of a mindset more detrimental to the discussion of social issues in our culture.
Man, Ebert did a number on you guys. You are so caught up in this "games must be art, and art must influence hearts and minds!"
Does the Mona Lisa affect your views in life, gender relations, politics, religion, or any subject ever? IS IT NOT ART?
Silverspetz said:
I stand corrected. You are basically taking the most cynical position in believing that all media is created with popularity in mind.
You keep trying to counter big picture (trends of a population of millions over the course of generations) with the act of an individual. Which is odd, since you're defending Anita, a person whose ENTIRE argument is based on the same premise (the problem isn't the individual, but the shared collective).
IF media is influencial in any way, it will be the most popular. The one that is consumed the furthest and most often will have the strongest effect. And the one that does that is the most popular. And the one that does THAT is not the one that challenge's the audience's preconceived notions, it is the one that reaffirms is.
Are you more likely to watch an Anita video or a Thunderf00t video? Multiply that by 8 billion and you now understand how the world thinks. Hooray!
Silverspetz said:
Because it is always one or the other with you people isn't it?
People are reacting to HER argument. As I have shown you up above.
I don't blame you for missing it though. She goes really out of her way to keep as few clear points as possible to people can make their own arguments to agree or disagree with. That's what keeps these conversations going for so long, and her popularity rising.
Hate her or love her, you gotta give her credit for manipulation. She's good.
Silverspetz said:
It never occurred to you that what we are REALLY saying is more in line with: "See, some people still think this is ok, and they will CONTINUE to think it is ok unless we show them different ways.
Why? No matter how many books, ads, videos, movies, games, songs I play for you that say "Women ain't nothing but bitches and hos" will EVER change your mind. Why would the opposite change anybody else's?
Silverspetz said:
And HOW is that not sexist? If they are deliberately choosing insults based on gender in order to hurt her then that still takes some pretty damn sexist thinking.
They are deliberately choosing insults based on what hurts HER. Those just happen to be gender based insults because of who she is.
Were she an older man it'd be about virility. Were she a mother it'd be her children.
I never said they were good people. I'm just saying, it isn't about her gender. It's about HER.
Well, I'm sure there are some misogynists in that group because there are some in every group. But remember, we are looking at the whole group as a whole, not individuals.