Didn't really plan for this to be potentially TLDR, but it kind of kept writing itself.
Sourman said:
I honestly can't hear the whole "but men are depicted with unrealistic bodies, just like women!" without thinking about this [http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2008/12/31] Penny Arcade comic.
Yes...this. The problem that Bob glosses over is that men ARE expected to have the same godlike physiques as women--at least in the circles and classes we are told that matter--and if you
don't rock a sixpack, then you are very specifically targeted by billions of advertising dollars for workout diets/machines/facilities
and your social peers for your ugliness/wheatbelly/lack of focus or determination/whatever else. Our society is becoming ever more Greek in that way: we are becoming more and more obsessed with our physical image, and more proactively judging ANYONE who does not fit in with our expectations. Towards the end there, even the Romans started obsessing over baths.
You could say that this is just an expression of class separation, but we have to remember that almost all Roman and Greek bathhouses were
free and public. Gymnasiums were similarly free, and the athletes competed and practiced nude
specifically to encourage God-bods. I call them God-bods because that is
exactly what they were: an attempt by man to honor the Gods they believed in by emulating their perfect forms. People who were not at their physical peak were regarded not as poor, but as ungodly. Even Dionysus and/or Bacchus were not excluded from this requirement; it is only in more modern times that we have made those deities corpulent and middle-aged in a very concerted effort to attach certain behaviors and lifestyles to certain body types in an attempt to use Chaucerian Physiognomy to separate "good" people from "bad" people. Even those qualifications of what makes people "good" or "bad" have become increasingly subjective over the last hundred years, and so the separation has shifted towards class distinctions: if you
look this good, it is because you can afford to, and that makes for a more potentially attractive mate on two levels--looks and money.
I have to suppose, Bob, that you don't get out much into the social environment. There is just as much, if not
more judging of men going on than women. Whenever I go out, I see gads of men chatting up women of all body types...because every man wants to get laid or have companionship, and there's an individual fetish for every one of us alive; that is to say, you have ass-men (subcategories of small-, big-, athletic-, and apple-), tit-men, legs-men, neck-men, hair-men, big-girls-men, eyes-men, etc., etc. To a very large degree, it is how the woman dresses and presents herself as opposed to her physical attributes. Not so for men. The men who are bald, too old, have worked very hard lives and have skin like leather, the men who can't afford a dentist and so are missing a tooth here or there, the men who are fat, the men who don't have the right amount of bling, the ones who drink too much...these men are judged and ostracized by both men
and women. They can only exist in social strata that are similar to themselves, or that are populated by less-judgemental people...who are also typically judged by men and women. I would say, from personal, real observation of people in the wild, that the pressure on men and women to look a certain way is roughly equalized.
What's worse, is that women who do
not look a certain way are just considered to be less attractive.
Men who do not look a certain way are considered
not to be men.
I don't think that depiction of men or women in video games is a problem at all; it's an artist's rendering. To be more specific, it is a continuation of artists' renderings that have been in existence for thousands of years. Our very evolution has encouraged these body expectations: women grew larger breasts because the women with larger breasts were more often chosen by the males, and those were the genes that were passed on (and no bologna about lactation--modern science has debunked the assertion that bigger breasts provide more milk)--women developed an enlarged clitoris to encourage front-to-front intercourse so that lovers could look each other in the eye (and so that women could focus on more attentive lovers as men focused on bigger breasts). Our
biology is based on these things. When a twelve-year-old sees T&A in a movie, TV show, advertisement, or video game and begins to make judgments about body types, it's not because the media format is telling him to do so,
it's because his body is telling him to do so. As the child matures, the expectations will level out by a large margin as fantasy continues to collide with reality--and if they make it to middle age driving that red convertible and still thinking rock-hard torpedo tits are the shit, well, what do we always say about those buffoons?
What are you, TWELVE??
Which leads us to the next point. Game developers are not consciously reinforcing stereotypes and body expectations because they believe in them, but rather
because they sell. A major game costs tens of millions of dollars to develop these days, and the developer and the financiers MUST recoup their investment. Every month we see some developer lay off a dozen or more workers or a small dev house close its doors forever because they only sold two hundred thousand copies of the game they made, rather than the two hundred and ten thousand they needed to. In such a financially hostile environment, i.e. one where a smaller percentage of the population have significant (if any) amounts of disposable income to drop on an entertainment product, the gamemakers can rarely afford to take risks. So they don't. They go with the titillation, because that's where they can make enough money to do riskier things in future projects. A lot of the time, they never even get to that point of stability, and just keep releasing the same stuff so they can stay afloat.
The only way to not be affected by these things is to simply choose not to be affected by these things...to know that they have been with us as long as human beings have walked this Earth, and that maturity yields wisdom. Let us also not forget who these trolls are who hate on women not made of silicone
and how old they are likely to be, and also not forget about G.I.F.T. [http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GIFT] (formally known as the Online Disinhibition Effect [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Online_disinhibition_effect]).
Monxeroth said:
Oh and if there's something i have to say about this project that hasn't been said already
Well then i'll just leave this here and you can see for yourselves
Here's the nugget here. It's all about the benjamins. You see, there's this thing called the Glass Ceiling [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glass_ceiling], and although it has largely been broken, it will never truly die until the fathers of its philosophy are, themselves, dead. It dishonors those women and minorities who
really struggled in this last century by raising Glass Walls in its place. I don't think that the Suffragettes would take too kindly to Ms.Sarkeesian (I use Ms. as opposed to Mrs. as I assume that she has trouble finding men who will put up with her, and that even if she DID, she would elect not to marry them, as some feminists believe that marriage is a chauvinist pair bonding scheme used to exult the importance of taking a woman's maidenhead, objectifies them as barter chips to increase the land and holdings of father figures, and also reinforces the outmoded idea that women need to be taken care of by men and that their only roles in a nuclear family or even society as a whole are those of a janitor, cook, and sex slave...is that sexist of me?) and her points of view...but we all know that she doesn't really even believe them herself, don't we? Those Glass Walls are very profitable, and in this age of 24 hour homegrown internet media, the squeaky wheel gets the moola.
I suppose the biggest irony in all of this is that her argument (and arguments like it) are self-defeating. A XX-year-old (How old
IS she, by the way? It seems a card she holds very tight to the vest...possibly because she doesn't want to lose that 18~24 demographic that brings in most of her money by aging? Just a thought.) woman who owns and maintains her own website that doesn't rely on external google ads for revenue who can film in HD because of her professional-grade equipment and professional-grade studio and professional-grade editing hardware/software/capability
AND uses it to vociferously decry the effects of sexism upon the fairer gender? Really? She's the one saying women are mistreated and objectified? Maybe if
I had a nice rack I could weasel some of those opportunities into my life (SEE WHAT I DID THERE???). Nah, just kidding...her post-pro and webmastering and such are probably all done by men she exploits on her staff (SEE WHAT I DID THERE AGAIN???). I also find it interesting how she presents herself: nice makeup, nice haircut, nice attire, perfectly clear skin (I wonder how much of the money her fans donate goes into making her look as attractive to men as she could possibly look)...all in all, a very professional appearance. Tell me, do feminists usually wear ruby red lipstick and hoop earrings? I thought that was against the whole paradigm.
Anyway, the point is this: She should be grateful we are coming up on the 50th anniversary of the Feminine Mystique and that she lives in a time and a world
and a country where women have the freedom to engage in activities like hers. One hundred years ago she would have been beaten and told to remember her place, and a thousand years ago she would have been rape fodder for simply not being born a man...and if she were an African woman
today, she would be more likely to be raped than learn to read [http://www.irinnews.org/Report/84909/SOUTH-AFRICA-One-in-four-men-rape]
AND would have to be told by other feminists that wearing an anti-rape device is a form of enslavement [http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20008347-10391704.html]. Yeeeeeep, sounds like the argument defeats itself.
P.S.
I waited for my
wife to come home from
work (in our single-income, two children household) so she could approve of this before I posted it.