Phasmal said:
Kind of broke. Spending all my money trying to get in the door of my and my boyfriends new flat. (Hopefully! It will be our first place, so... scary. Any advice would be lovely).
But we should be okay.
I'm still looking for work, too. Kind of hard when I don't really know the area (near where boyfriend works and flat).
1.) Take pictures of the rooms and any damages already present.
2.) Do not get a pet unless you are able and willing to cover any damages it might inflict.
3.) Always read any agreement you are signing your name to, word by word. Keep said lease in a safe place where you will remember it is (I always keep mine in a file folder up in the closet where it remains until I need it).
4.) Foster a good relationship with your landlord if you can. You never know when that relationship might save your ass.
5.) Split responsibilities with your boyfriend, and for the love of whatever you consider holy TALK. Little things are what kills relationships the fastest. You might be lalala for the first half a year but after awhile those dirty dishes he always leaves on the couch might get to you. . . (everyone has varying pet peeves. You will not solve all of them. Talk about the ones that most annoy you and him, and let go of the smallest ones).
6.) If a friend is in a bad spot and you agree to let them sleep on your couch, outline some responsibilities for them and what you expect BEFORE they start sleeping on your couch. It very well could save you a friendship.
OP - I was 'homeless' for a while, technically, but I had friends who let me sleep on their couch. I've since repaid that favor. As for being flat out broke, not really. Out of money until my next paycheck, sure, but that's my own damn fault and I deserve no sympathy or pity for it.