Basically how my life worked too, and yes those pictures did make me feel a bit uneasy. Last time I talked to my dad was when I asked for him to pay for my Eve account, now I don't feel all too enthusiastic D: think I'm gonna call him, thanks for making this thread but I feel like a bastard D:!Brawndo said:I was never one of those spoiled brats who took their parents for granted, but for a variety of reasons which I won't go into my dad and I do not have a good relationship. I wish I could fix my relationship with him, but ultimately both sides have to want it to work in order to make any improvements, so it's not gonna happen.
Yes, I lost respect because he started smoking again. He stopped acting years ago (where he picked it up) and stopped smoking before my brother and I were born. He is an intelligent person who is a respected electrical engineer at the company where he works. He is a voice of reason most of the time, and the same person who tells me to not do drugs and stuff like that.Tdc2182 said:You lost respect for him because he... smokes?Eumersian said:I've lost respect for him a few years ago, after I learned that he started smoking again. As a matter of fact, I was probably the first one to find out, but I wasn't sure so I didn't say anything.
He doesn't know that I know, and I try not to let it bother me as much.
Honestly, I don't really care one way or another. We don't talk all the time, in part because I never talk to anybody in the first place. So it's kind of a whatever. At least he's not an asshole like some people's dad's I've seen.
Usually people get ancy about their parents when they find out they are racist, or cheating, or stealing money in a corporate scheme.
But you don't like him because he is smoking again?
My sympathies...Brawndo said:I was never one of those spoiled brats who took their parents for granted, but for a variety of reasons which I won't go into my dad and I do not have a good relationship. I wish I could fix my relationship with him, but ultimately both sides have to want it to work in order to make any improvements, so it's not gonna happen.