The Ex Hate Thread

[EmzOLV]

So here is the long story:

Spoiler

I was happily dating this guy (remaining nameless) for nearly 2 years. He decides half way through this 'relationship' to go out to Cyprus as a scuba diving instructor. He moves out there for 8 months, and everything is fine. I spend money going out to see him, on credit to phone him and text him, and for the first 7 months of it, it's fine.

Anyway, in the final month I'm busy working at a festival so communication has been low anyway due to my insanely busy schedule, when I notice - he hasn't bothered. He hasn't texted, mailed, phoned, skyped, posted me anything at all. Okay, so I get in touch with him, everything is fine. And then it just goes downhill. Don't hear from him. Yep, that's right, here comes the inevitable break up - after 3 weeks of nothingness and me beginning to get more and more pissed off, he decides to break up which is fine. I'm ready for that I deserve someone who actually wants to know how my day is once in three weeks.

But that isn't the end of it. Next few days, I'm still a bit upset understandably and suddenly he has a new girlfriend/love interest. Mysterious you say? Yes, I think so too. He denies cheating, but considering she lives in SCOTLAND and he's in CYPRUS and they met whilst she was on holiday whilst we were going out, it leaves very little to the imagination. His facebook also wasn't very sympathetic to his excuses.

He even emails me and accuses me of the following:

Him: Have you hacked into my hotmail?
Me: ... no?! Why on earth?! What? I don't even know your password? why would I care about your hotmail?
Him: Well this girl sent me these nice emails I wanted to keep and they've been deleted
Me: are you sure you weren't just an utter retard and delete them yourself?
Him: no someone definitely deleted them... you sure?
Me: you can fuck off right now with that accusation. I haven't even touched your account and how dare you come and ask me that
Him: oh don't get arsey I was just asking
ME: no response

So I'm pretty pissed, I can safely assume that he found someone else and had little dignity of getting it on with her whilst we were still going out. I'm angry. He has his stuff at my house, now I know he's back this week and all I want, ever, was for him to get his stuff then get out of my life. He's lied before, he's lying now. He sends me a message saying he doesn't have time to pick it up because he's going to scotland "for diving" *cough cough*. So me, trying to be nice and flexible because getting angry at him won't get anywhere, leaves it.

Then suddenly this afternoon, he's phoned my mum to pick him up from the station to let him into MY house to get his stuff and drop him off. And my mum being super uber nice and lovely adn I love her to bits, can't say no to him because she knows I want it over with. I am SO ANGRY that he could do this after he's cheated on me, but to avoid even working out the normal every day stuff of collecting his crap from my house with me has just pushed the barrier.

*breathes heavily*

TL;DR I fully hate my ex because he's a bleep and didn't even give me the respect to even work out getting his stuff from my house like a regular normal person, but undermines me and goes to my mum whilst I'm at work. Have you got an ex that has royally angered you because they are such bleeps? Do you want to get it off your chest and have an epic royal rant because I DO and I'm very willing to rant with you.

If not an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend, but a best friend who has lied/betrayed you which you would like to take the opportunity to rant about.

GAH *throws arms up in air in classic angry pose*

 

[The Rockerfly]

I hate Deus Ex, does that count?

 

[EmzOLV]

I hate Deus Ex, does that count?

It can count if you hate it so much that it makes you angry. REAL angry.

 

[Enemy Of The State]

Vent your frustrations in a thread!

I'm not sure if this is a terrible idea or a good one.

 

[AWC Viper]

I hate france.. nothing OT but i just hate france.

 

[hyperhammy]

What an asshole, should have just burnt his stuff!
I don't really have an ex, so... yeah... but your situation really sucks!

 

[Rasputin1]

There's a very simple thing you can do in your situation. It's just one word. Fire.

 

[KiKiweaky]

While not condoning what this guy did by any means, there's no need for constant contact imo. Fair enough 3 weeks is a bit of a stretch :/

One of my mates has a girlfriend that if he doesnt text regularly each day, she will freak the fuck out and not in the good way either. He showed me bunch of messages that he received within a couple of minutes of each other, after he forgot to text her for a while. They were complete and utter madness, went from 'why arent you', to 'FFFFFUUUU and GTFO of my life'

Next day all was good again :/

But ye, he seems like a dick good riddance I'd say.

 

[EmzOLV]

There's a very simple thing you can do in your situation. It's just one word. Fire.

I can't do that. No matter how much fun it would be,and the really strange smells that would probably come out of his xbox harddrive (ohhhh, thousands of hours...) I can't do that. Gah.

But you can totally be angry at that guy for taking your 50p. Bastard!

TOTALLY! He's going down. I'm going to rugby tackle him when he walks into this part of the office next.

I'm not sure if this is a terrible idea or a good one.

And yeah, this thread is either a fantastic idea or a baaad idea. It was started in anger...that's usually bad though, right?

 

[Gxas]

My ex left me because I started having second thoughts about being with her for the rest of my life. I was seventeen at the time, she was eighteen.

I don't hate her for that, I hate her for the fact that she's willingly with a new guy who is so insecure that he forced her to stop talking to me. If that isn't enough, he also "likes" every picture, status, etc that she posts on Facebook so that he can see exactly what everyone says to her. It sickens me that she finds that endearing...

 

[EmzOLV]

While not condoning what this guy did by any means, there's no need for constant contact imo. Fair enough 3 weeks is a bit of a stretch :/

One of my mates has a girlfriend that if he doesnt text regularly each day, she will freak the fuck out and not in the good way either. He showed me bunch of messages that he received within a couple of minutes of each other, after he forgot to text her for a while. They were complete and utter madness, went from 'why arent you', to 'FFFFFUUUU and GTFO of my life'

Next day all was good again :/

But ye, he seems like a dick good riddance I'd say.

Ahhh you see, as much as I would love to pride myself on being completely psychotic, I'm not. I'm not fussed if he doesn't text back - the idea of a text being it can be replied to at the chosen time of the recipient. If I need to speak to him I'll call him.

Same with friends - if I need to get them to answer something, I'd call. If they don't text back, or email back, then meh, whatever.

It only came to my attention when it had been so long. Surely, if anyone here is like myself, if you like someone in that way you tend to wanna know what they're up to or if they're okay. I mean not every day, but sometime within three weeks...

I don't hate her for that, I hate her for the fact that she's willingly with a new guy who is so insecure that he forced her to stop talking to me. If that isn't enough, he also "likes" every picture, status, etc that she posts on Facebook so that he can see exactly what everyone says to her. It sickens me that she finds that endearing...

It's so annoying isn't it?! I mean what is different? My ex used the excuse of distance, but then goes out with someone who is even FURTHER away. I don't get why people aren't just honest and go "well, I've just lost whatever it was with you"

Or whatever.

 

[redisforever]

My mom. Now, I don't just hate her, but it's probably because she's a *****. She has threatened to throw me out of the house. But she cooks. Oh well. I just learn to ignore her. I wish I could do what my dad did and divorce. On the other hand, my dad is a very nice and level-headed person.

 

[Gxas]

It's so annoying isn't it?! I mean what is different? My ex used the excuse of distance, but then goes out with someone who is even FURTHER away. I don't get why people aren't just honest and go "well, I've just lost whatever it was with you"

Eh, I'm over it by now. If she wants that, then thats on her. I know I'm better off without her. Just need to keep looking to find that special someone now.

 

[EmzOLV]

Eh, I'm over it by now. If she wants that, then thats on her. I know I'm better off without her. Just need to keep looking to find that special someone now.

Damn right! And you will! Someone completely, fully awesome

My mom. Now, I don't just hate her, but it's probably because she's a *****. She has threatened to throw me out of the house. But she cooks. Oh well. I just learn to ignore her. I wish I could do what my dad did and divorce. On the other hand, my dad is a very nice and level-headed person.

I've spent years perfecting my relationship with my mum as I don't have my Dad around, but there are moments when we are two completely different people and we clash. Trying so hard to overcome anger heh.

 

[Darkgoosey666]

I live in cyprus, and i have done diving courses. Im really curious who this guy was now XD

 

[the_pleasure_is_mine]

I pretty much gave up on my hate now. I just plain don't care anymore...

Though back in the day I was angry cause after we broke up she complained I was always near her.

Simple option is stop hanging around my friends you crazy psycho...

 

[Arella18]

My last boyfriend mentally abused me and three days before he was wearing his scrotum as a necklace he knocked me out...literally he beat me until I was unconcious. It took me those three days to recover from it.

The girlfriend before that tried to murder me by shooting me...thank god she missed.

Before her came the boyfriend who thought it would be funny to tie me down and let his 10 friends take turns gang raping me.

and before that was a string of emotionally and physically abusive relationships.

As a result of all this I've had to rebuild not only my mental state, but my self esteem, my credit thanks to the hospital bills, and my life. >.> so forgive me if I'm not sympathetic because right I would welcome simple drama like that I really would.