Nisselue said:
That's pretty individual don't you think? You have those who go totally emo and wrist cut and then you have those who just brush it off before walking to a friends house to get some cake. So if you get raped and find out you cannot live with those mental scars of yours you could always choose to end you own life. At least that way you can figure it out for yourself if it is worth continuing or not.
It is. But not as individual as may think. The thing is, my mother worked in a mental hospital. Suffice to say I could catch a few glimpses of the shells of former humanity that, for the lack of a better term, lived there. This deterred me for life.
I don't think you can shake rape off so easily. It's about so much more than sex. It's psychological first and everything else second. You're not necessarily broken like mental patients are, but the effects will never leave you alone. That's how I see it.
Nisselue said:
Should probably have framed the question a little better so it doesn't sound like you think murder is fine sorry about that, but it seems like you understood what i was trying to say. xD
Rape would not be worse than death if i was the victim. Of course i couldn't really complain about it after i was dead but right now dying would be worse. Yes, death is inevitable but you can somewhat decide when you are going to die or not depending on how well you take care of yourself and if we are going by the assumption that we will die by natural causes.
I'm not afraid of death. My own death, that is. I'm afraid of the process of dying and I'm afraid to leave loved ones behind that may be hurt by my passing away. I don't necessarily want to die, but I'd rather feel nothing than suffer.
Nisselue said:
It seems that we are on opposite sides when it comes to what is worst between death and rape:
You prefer death because you are afraid of the emotional scars you might have after being raped.
I prefer rape because i want to see the future with all the technological advances, medical advances and scientific advances, i got a lot of stuff i want to try out and learn before dying. There is so much to do and so little time so i would not be stopped by having a penis up my butt!
Oh, I'm quite certain there will be some scars, in one form or another. How am I supposed to appreciate the future when I have to see it through the broken lense of my mind?
Nisselue said:
When it comes to pedophilia i am not so sure that is that hurtful either as some people say, if we go by the assumption that the kid in question started it and did it voluntarily and it happened without any violence. Physically the child might take it; mentally the child is probably not going to take it when said child grows up constantly hearing how bad pedophilia is. But if we are discussing if it is morally or ethically right to have sex with a child i am not going to comment since i do not know.
Actually there is so much I do not know when it comes to pedophilia that I am not on the for or against side I am in the middle like a nice grey mouse just looking over to both sides curiously.
I'd rather not touch this subject. Neither in this context, nor in this thread. Perhaps some other time in the Religion and Politics section. Hope you don't mind. =D
