Xprimentyl said:
Well, I would have recommended the ?sanctuary? as a replacement to Escapist as it started off with promise, but unfortunately, it fairly quickly turned into yet another cesspool where people exercise their free speech for the sole purpose of being vitriolic assholes. Its myriad racist and bigoted thread titles lead me to believe this broken site is by far and away the better use of my free time if interesting, intelligent and/or casual discourse is the aim. That?s a worthy cause you?re ?stressing? over, Arnox; so glad you?ve created a place where ?because I can? trumps basic and common decency because we all know the worst of the internet have so few places left to be themselves anymore?
Trust me, I?m all about freedom of speech and defending people?s right to say what they believe, but I?m a bigger proponent of COMMON SENSE: if they wouldn?t say it out loud, in public, and be willing to face the consequences of their ?free speech,? then the venom they choose to spit from behind the mother?s skirt of anonymity for the clear purpose of inciting negativity and disrespect is a WASTE of free speech.
I feel you're blowing the criticism you got out of proportion here. While I don't agree with some of the things they said to you, they still gave logical arguments to counter yours. Also, we are not actually a total free-for-all. We do have rules. People can't spam a topic nor are they allowed to totally derail threads. Among other things. Yes, they can call you a **** and disagree with you, but they have to say WHY you're a **** or else it's treated as garbage posting and the offending user gets smacked with an infraction.
You may not think that's an important distinction, but it is. The former is useless posting. The latter still contributes something. And though they may be rude about it, why does it matter? You don't even have to acknowledge their posts. And if we were to start punishing people for being rude, then I think we'll end up in much the same shape as the Escapist, rules-wise. The minute you start punishing people for being rude, you open up a huge can of worms, and even if your moderation is perfect, people still will not be happy.
An age ago, I was a teenager and I made a stupid thread that got worse over time and I got flamed for it. I was about to leave but other posters told me to stick with it. So I did. I stuck with it. And to this day, I'm so glad I did. And because I decided to grow up a little, I had one of the best posting experiences I have ever had. I got my reputation back and I became part of that community. And all I needed was some thicker skin.
Don't make the same mistake I did. You may find the posting freedom we offer really suits you. Please join us again. <3
Elvis Starburst said:
I just gave most of the place a good browse. Eh. Just eh. I kinda see where Xprimentyl is coming from, though I do seriously wonder why you have yet to tell a certain person on there to fuck off and just ban them. Cause if your site's "freedom" of posts allows the kind of crap I just read, then yeah, I'd rather be here.
If you're talking about Infinityshock, he's already been banned for 90 days. lol