Pluvia said:
Once again it's not both person A and B saying they're for Equal rights for LBGTQ. That's not the issue.
It's when this happens:
Person A: "I'm going to do something meaningful to show my support. I'll help." Person A then goes to do things to help, even very little things.
and
Person B: "Well I support equal rights for LGBTQ." Person B then gives nothing but continued moral support.
Person C: "I support LGBTQ euqality and intend to do something about it." Person C is either a celebrity or politician, but they somehow manage to get things done that actually help. The then don't go around touting what great people they are.
vs.
Person D: "We need to do blah blah blah to stop injustice against LGBTQ." Person D continues to pontificate as their poll numbers rise, then does nothing to actually help when they get elected. Maybe they pass a vague law that is easy to ignore or is easily abused. Thus making the LGBTQ community look like exploitative dicks. Even though they intended to do go good, or have good be done.
Person E: "We need to fight injustice against the LGBTQ community. As (insert celebrity) I am commited to the LGBTQ cause!" Person E then goes around enjoying the popularity the statement got them and patting themselves on the back when they did nothing.
THAT'S The difference. Person D and E are subtracting from any good they can do by being completely focused on themselves and not the cause. They can actually be in support of the cause, but their primary motivation is to make themselves look good.That attitude is counter productive, and they're not against the cause. But them acting the way they do, actually harms the community. They're not
against the community, but by being so self interested they're a liability.
On the other hand Persons A, B, and C. No matter how much they contribute, or how little aren't being pricks about it, and making the community look bad. They're not out to stir the pot, they honestly want people to have it better.
Now do you understand the difference? The road to hell is paved with good intentions, especially when those good intentions are used for personal gains of some kind.