If you think you can accomplish something outside of equality outside of the law: Good Luck.
The only way to accomplish that is to force your views on others. That would be wrong. Period. Black people still have to put up with racists and intolerants, immigrants still have to put up with the same, Islamic people still have to put up with racial profiling and I still have to pay taxes, while churches do not.
Equality before the law is the ONLY type of equality that can, or should, be enforced. DEAL WITH IT. As long as everyone has the same rights, and the same responsibilities, and no-one is unfairly discriminated against for their differences, then there is NO way to improve the situation further.
It sucks that women are paid less than men (Which I think is your point, I think that was the general idea hidden in that rant). It's certainly not fair.
But how do you enforce fair payment for roles without uniform pay above minumum wage? What's to stop you from paying a woman less and just saying that her performance doesn't justify an increase?
I wish we lived in a perfect world, where women could have that same equality. And they should ask for it. But there is no way to get it, bar unionisation and asking for it. Time will be what really fixes the issue. Eventually, the concept of women as equals will become more accepted, as the conservative holdouts die off, just as the same happened with racism (You fail to realise that even once segregation was ended, blacks were still treated unfairly, and people still have the power to mistreat others). The anti-feminist arguments are all invalid, yes, we get this. Women aren't biologically inferior blah blah blah. It's the 21st century. Most of us do realise this. It's not iconoclastic to mention this, it's common sense. I'm all for equality, all around. But equality will comes with a recognition and acceptance of our differences, rather than simply ignoring them. Women are different to men. Men are different to women. That's not necessarily a problem, unless you're intolerant.
And for all you say about gender equality being only a one way issue, think back to what you said about masculism and the like: There are certainly issues that men face, particularly in the case of sex crimes, which are hardly fair. Dismissing those arguments out of hand doesn't make you very sympathetic to anyone.
TLDR: Sure, women are paid less than men etc. Deal with it. There is no way to get what you want, except for asking for it from those you want it from. Strike. Perform mass resignations. WHATEVER. It's an issue for you to deal with. Since you already said you don't want outsiders in your group, with your little burgoiuse analogy, then it's up to you.
thaluikhain said:
If you support equality between the sexes, than you yourself are a feminist.
So obviously wrong, I don't even think I need to rebutt it, but I will. There's a tendencey for courts to give custody to women as a part of the mothering stereotype. The stereotype is feminist issue, but the effect is a gender equality issue outside of feminism: Masculinism. Similarly, courts are very inclined to convict men of sexual misconduct, even in cases where the prosecution is not solid. That's not ok. Sure, it's not necessarily the same scale a problem, but it's an issue to do with gender equality which is not feminism. You're Wrong.
Maze1125 said:
LilithSlave said:
I'll worry about how "sexist" the label "feminism" sounds, when male privilege doesn't exist.
And with that, you're being sexist too.
Are most anti-feminists hypocritical? Yes. But so are most feminists too.
Yes, most men don't realise how bad things are for women. But, and here's the kicker,
most women don't realise how bad it is for men.
That's just human, almost no-one can accurately judge someone else's point of view, nor do most even try, because they think they
can accurately judge it.
And, rants like this, supporting inherently sexist terms like "feminism" do nothing to help the situation.
The feminist movement is the very embodiment of this issue, as, no matter how much good it achieved, it was founded by upper-middle class white women who cared about no-one but themselves. It's the ultimate example of two wrongs making a right. One sexist view attacking another.
Sure, not all feminists were like that, some made extreme sacrifices for the sake of equality, but they were the minority, not the majority.
I am not anti-feminist, as most feminists are just good people with a narrow point of view. In other words, most feminists are human.
But I am
very against the
term feminism, as it is archaic, coined by sexists and inherently sexist in it's derivation.
The anti-racism movement isn't called "blackism" the anti-ageism movement isn't called "oldism" and there's no reason for the anti-sexism movement to be called "feminism".
Legendary. Although the last sentence could be disputed (And has been), it's a brilliant sentiment: Gender equality is gender equality, and feminism is about rights for women. End of it. I personally like equality, and equal rights. By calling themselves feminists, they seperate themselves from others who support equal rights, by making themselves far less approachable to men.
thaluikhain said:
Danzavare said:
It may be because I'm sleepy, but I'm sure your argument would be more persuasive if you stuck to simpler words and shorter sentences. @.@ That being said, we read an article on Evolutionary psychology in philosophy class and judging by it (I can give the author/title at a later time if anyone can be bothered finding it online) I have to say, it sounds like crap. People who don't want to breed are inherently inferior (Because only the worthy reproduce. *Looks at various welfare families and trailer parks), more choice is inherently bad because it leads us to having standards and women desire to be dominated. (Among other silly claims) My problem with this kind of theory is that it prescribes the way people are rather than describing them. Analysis of women and men are prefaced with archetypes in mind that over simplify them. I understand there are practical benefits to assuming aspects of individuals away (Like assuming people always act Rationally in economic analysis) but when your purpose is describing the individual, it just doesn't work.
So if your point was that Evolutionary psychology is not helpful to the feminist cause, then I agree.
There's definitely terrible stereotypes and idiotic views that plague notions of what a man should be in society but, as should be obvious, women have it worse, they do. Anyone who can't acknowledge that is open-minded to the point of stupidity. It's like complaining that you broke a nail to a person that just broke their spine! Feminism works for me if we're talking about it in a genuine sense (As in equality) and it's something I really support. There are many people who don't understand the concept and are very vocal with their misunderstanding, but that doesn't take away from the fact that feminism is a good cause. The fact that the world still needs a movement called feminism is appalling, but that doesn't reflect badly on the feminist movement.
More or less, yeah.
People have come with with pseudo-science to justify their prejudices for as long as science has existed. You'll also note how evo-psych is used to "explain" that black people are less intelligent or attractive than white people, that third world countries are like that cause they're not white enough, and so on.
A hundred years ago, phrenology was doing the same thing, just with calipers. Everyone "knew" that the white male was superior to black people and/or women, so they developed a field of study to prove it.
Before that, childbirth involved using up a woman's energy that she'd otherwise need to think with, or it was the vapours or somesuch.
Oh, and you're last sentence there is a very good summation of the issue, I'll think I'll be misquoting that one.
Evolutionary psychology is NOT necessarily pseudoscience, and is NOT necessarily intolerance. Understanding how Natural selection works is important. For example, if I was born with a significantly greater intelligence, but a large growth distorting my cranium, then I should, being a better fit to the environment, be an evolutionary improvement right? Wrong: I'm no longer attractive, and hence, LESS likely to reproduce. Of course, this is a general process, and that trailer park example exists, but that can be attributed to a destruction of the fitness portion of Natural Selection: Where before, fitting your environment better was an advantage, now, if you don't fit in, if you aren't suited to it, you can still survive and pass on your genes. Natural Selection applies to a much reduced extent to modern humans thanks to community living, social services, and medicine. If some conclusions are used to support racist agendas, and discriminatory bile, that's fine. It doesn't make the facts themselves evil. That's a Logical Fallacy: Argument from Final Consequences. It does not matter how information is used, and the way that information is used does not necessarily reflect on the information itself. That's pretty obvious. Of course unscientific notions are also used to promote such ideas. But do you know who it is who refutes those ideas? It certainly isn't the feminists. It's Science to the rescue! Science shows that women's brains aren't significantly smaller than mens, science shows that women are perfectly suited to most male dominated roles, and so on. Dismissing what you don't like or necessarily understand does not make it wrong: Proving it wrong makes it wrong.
LilithSlave said:
dietpeachsnapple said:
I appreciate many of your points, However, could you be compelled to expand on why Evolutionary Psychology is to blame for your grievances?
I wouldn't make a claim so silly as that Evolutionary Psychology is even a major cause of sexism. Sexism is much older than that. However, Evolutionary Psychology does typical support age old sexist claims.
Such as that women are sexually attracted to power. That women are sexually attracted to and prefer a man who has been with multiple women, and a man more sexually attracted to a virginal woman. That by sexually attracted to power, women with money are the problem that causes underpopulation in first world countries. Because women always want to date a man with more money than them. And so to "fix" underpopulation in a nation that doesn't have a high birth rate, women need to give up ambitions and raise children, and stop being competition in the men's workforce.
Some of the latter I have mentioned are not outright stated by Evolutionary Psychology. The "what oughts", but their claims are biased and favor an idea that hurts women. So much as saying that men are hardwired to be attracted to virginal weakness and women attracted to a man of sexual conquest and money, you are supporting inequality. You are saying that female inferiority is a biological fact. You can say "that's just about relationships" all you like. But this is a major facet of all society, that claims that women desire inferiority. The microcosm is or leads to the macrocosm. These are major economic and sexual claims about inferiority, no matter how you spin them.
I think that people should understand all they can about neurology and how the human mind works and why it likes what it likes and doesn't what it does not. Why it functions a specific way and what causes the variation. The typical implications ascertained by people who claim that mental dispositions are inherited, though, typical support notions of racism, sexism, classism, or some kind of supremacy.
Well, if the science says women are attracted to power, in general, and that men are attracted to weakness, then that's that. It's not supporting inequality. Suppressing the science to support an ideological agenda is a sure road to failure. Just because you don't like a fact, or a theory, doesn't make it less valid. Only an idiot would assume that women being attracted to power makes them inherently inferior, and only an idiot would assume that such knowledge was discriminatory. Men also like women with smooth bodies, narrow waists, and often, larger breasts. That's not discrimination. That's how we are. Women like men with lean muscles, six packs. Do I cry discrimination when women don't like my pasty chubby frame? No. I get over it. The fact is, people are attracted to different things, and Natural Selection is a sexual process, not exclusively a fitness selective one (Fitness being best fit to environment), and understanding this is important, more important than your agenda. If women are attracted to power, so what? Why should this matter, to anyone? This doesn't say anything about women's rights. It just says that next time I'm looking for a date, I need to look more like a Boss. Sure, this reinforces a negative stereotype. But the next add on television I see of Twilight with an indian looking guy with no shirt, I'm not going to get mad about stereotypes. I'm going to accept that there are some things you're just going to have to deal with.
/rant over. That makes me feel so warm inside. TLDR: Evo-Psych is not pseudoscience, The use of information does not affect the morality of the motive of information, Feminism is a discriminatory movement by its very name and nature, and Equal rights are deserved by everyone.