I think if you went up to the people who play Wii Sports with their family at Christmas and asked them if they were gamers, they would say no. Same with the people who play Pop Cap games in their lunch break at work. My mum plays a crap load of puzzle games (she got so addicted to Lummings I had to hide the PSP) but I wouldn't call her a gamer. Hell, even my dad made me install Doom, Heretic and Wolf 3D on the work computer but still, wouldn't call him a gamer.
The only people that I would call Gamers are me and my friends, the ones who stay up late playing Icewind Dale, spend hours talking about our MW2 matches and go to LAN centres.
People I consider "gamers" are those who take games seriously.
Mainstream media just has some catching up to do. A few years ago the only people (the large, large majority at least) that played games fit that description, and now that things have changed, people are still adjusting.
Also
Aunel said:
they fear us.
although I also get branded a "bassist" by people,
saying that bassists are stupid, and don't pay attention.
[small] or something like that [/small]
You play bass, you're a bassist. People are stupid.