The Virginity Mission (Probably, definitely NSFW)

[Something Amyss]

It was minor small print on page 58, section Y30 in life's contract. Most people skip that section, thinking they know it all already. Luckily I doubted myself that day and have been doing so ever since!

That's weird. Usually I'm super obsessive over contracts. Wonder what came over me.

 

[vare]

I've been there, and other than being gentle, observant and responsive (which lets be real, you should be anyway the first time) it's sex.

Pretty much this.
You don't know the ins and outs of their body, heck they might not know it either, so take it slow and get to know what they like.
Also, lubricant is always a good idea. And condoms if you're doing penetration stuff.

 

[Something Amyss]

Oh I mean like normal eagerness. Nothing that makes you go "Woah nelly" and fear for your body.

Also how did you let something get that far? Weren't you like "Slow down a bit" or something?

I've had a couple of experiences where the two weren't really that far apart. Which sort of leads into the answer of the second question.

 

[Paragon Fury]

Seeing as how I, myself, am a virgin, I can't really judge them on that, as it would seem a bit hypocritical. If anything, I would be terrified of the blood that I am told would come out of my partner's vagina, as I do not know how much would come out, for what reason, and what I am supposed to do with it.

I think you're supposed to drink the blood.

 

[freaper]

I'm going to be nervous for my own sake, so I'd prefer my first time to be with someone who's more experienced, or at least kinda knows what they're doing. Having said that, it's probably an interesting experience having two newbies going at it.

So, be gentle senpai <3

 

[Blood Brain Barrier]

It definitely depends on whether you're a girl or guy. As far as my (limited) experience goes, first time for a gal isn't that much fun, and sometimes quite painful. And with that, the 'not much fun' part applies to the guy as well, along with frustrating.

So if it's a one-off one night stand thingy, I don't know if I'd bother. Luckily I haven't been in that situation before. I doubt I'd be attracted to a virgin who'd want to lose it on a one-night stand anyway.

 

[Cold Shiny]

LOL!!

You are all struggling with a problem I will never experience, as women find me repulsive and I find them insufferable.

Its a really liberating feeling knowing I'll never have to be sexually experienced, one less thing to worry about.

Dying a virgin isn't all bad, you save a ton of time and money, and everyone will always think of you as a strong independent type, regardless of the truth.



I am so alone.

 

[MHR]

I have a plan for just such situations if they were to occur.

Basically, don't make the first time actual P-in-V sex. Just use love, massages, and oral. That way the first time was pretty-much guaranteed to be pleasant, and after you're all comfortable with that, you introduce something new.

 

[The Almighty Aardvark]

Honestly, I kind of miss being a virgin. There's something exciting about exploring all new sexual ground. In the months before I had sex we eased into it slowly, trying a bunch of different non-penetrative things. So if I found out my partner was a virgin I'd actually be kind of interested in that. Sure, experience is nice, but it'd also be fun to vicariously experience the newness through them.

Of course, I can also see it being really frustrating. If they're a virgin and have never even masturbated before, that makes things difficult. I've been with someone who had never been able to bring herself to orgasm before we had sex, and... well let's just say it took a while after we started having sex for that to change. I was pretty new to things, so that could very well have been a factor, but she managed it first on her own, and it became a whole lot easier after that.

Couple fun facts I learned during this period. The majority of women don't orgasm from intercourse alone. And something like 10-15% of women will never have one at all.

 

[Johnny Novgorod]

On the bright side you'd be the best they'd ever had...but also the worst

I imagine a lot of one-timers give up on sex simply because the one person they fucked wasn't all that great.

 

[Addendum_Forthcoming]

Hrm, see that's a tough question. Because I know a few people in the BDSM community, and a fair few people dislike the idea of penetrative sex specifically. But at the same time, they might not be what you're inferring. I think that it naturally changes the nature of a sexual encounter, if only because there's only so many limits that the human body, and the mind for that matter, can entertain in terms of the various things that might happen in the bedroom. Particularly if it's their first time ... infact I can think of 10 things off the top of my head that would likely make them think they were dying if it was their first time for various activities that consenting adults get up to.

So I think it's less a virgin thing, and more; What specifically you want + experience of receiving or giving that thing / physical or mental limits x Partner(s') enthusiasm.

So ... yes?

 

[FPLOON]

"Oh hey, we have something biologically in common outside of the obvious ones!"

But seriously, I would not give a fuck unless they actually want me to give a fuck if you know what I mean... Other than that, I'm still going to assume they've dated more people than I have, so I'll use that as my go-to positive reinforcement on the situation... I mean, what could go "right" after that?

 

[Extra-Ordinary]

Well, I'm a virgin too so we both know that it's not gonna be great, which is comforting in a way.
"Neither of us know what we're doin'. Great, let's get started!"
I don't picture myself the casual sex type so if I care about this person enough to have sex with them, they hopefully feel the same way and we'll just take it as a rickety first step toward improvement.

As for if they've never fooled around with themselves before, we'd try some non-penetrative stuff first, just to get her familiar with the feeling.

 

[Ihateregistering1]

Bonus Round: If you found out they were extra virgin, IE: had never even masturbated etc.?

If they told me they had never even masturbated, I'd have a very hard time believing them. And then I'd be worried because the only people I've ever met who claim to have never masturbated were ultra religious people who had some pretty warped views on sexuality and relationships, so I might have to excuse myself from this one.

Anyhoo, I'd just take things slower and easier and remember that they've never done this before, so just make sure they're comfortable before moving onto newer things.

 

[Chris Moses]

Personally, I would have a great time showing them all the different erogenous zones, means of stimulating them, and the varying sensations you can produce.

I have deflowered a virgin before. Unfortunately, it was just a one night stand.

There is something to be said for sharing the excitement of the first time for anything with someone.

 

[Imperioratorex Caprae]

Hmmm... well I'd have to be single, and if that were the case, I'm nearly confident that I probably wouldn't want to be their first, I might ruin it for them for the rest of their life and not in a bad way. I've no clue where I got it from, but apparently whatever I do is pretty damn good. It may be that I'm observant and know how to read body language whereas most men (from what I hear) have no clue how to do anything but use their partner as a second-person perspective jerk off. By which I mean they're only interested in getting themselves off and care nothing for whether the girl gets off, and are arrogant enough to think that what they do is the best thing in the world when they're in reality shitty partners.
I just pay attention to my partner, and do my best to make them feel good and sometimes I don't need to get off myself because I get off on getting them off. But if I weren't married I'd be hella wary of a virgin, for reasons stated. I'm not egotistical about my prowess, I'm absolutely baffled as to where I learned this shit from since I've been told by many just how good I am. To the point where when I broke up with girls I'd have to ensure they would never call me back because I had stalkers come about from one night stands in the past, all because of one fucking orgasm they apparently had never had before. Seriously, what I do isn't hard, anyone could do it. Either all the women I've slept with have had abysmal luck or most guys really are bad at sex.

 

[Jerast]

I took my girlfriends virginity and she was very, very eager which was a bit bad since she kept trying to go way too fast and she's pretty small (EVERYWHERE) so forcing it in was difficult with her trying to imitate the best porn she'd ever seen on her first time.

It was easy for me to keep having sex with her, since she was and still kinda is I guess, new to sex, it's pretty good trying to find out the stuff she likes by doing a lot of stuff and that's her attitude so is all good from my end. So in short, no, no problems about it at all really.