We actually do have a pretty terrible reputation. It's mostly because of how strict the mods are, and the piracy rule[footnote]which is not conducive to serious discussion on a very important, videogame related topic[/footnote], instead of the community itself, but there you have it. We're regarded as slightly better than gamefaqs, but without the grudging respect.
OT: I don't know if it's still like that, but when I was a teenager, Gamefaqs was like 4chan, but with slightly better moderation. There's also the Steam Community forums, which tend to be full of people complaining.
Edit: <link=http://amplicate.com/hate/the-escapist>Here's a link showing some of the hate we get. I forgot, people also hate us because of the whole "last bastion of intelligence on the internet" meme that used to be common here, as well as for all of the Valve fanboys who, again, aren't really prevalent anymore.