There's a boy hitting on me.

[The Stonker]

Well, he's hitting on me pretty hard and well, I'M STRAIGHT!
Sure! I have crossdressing urges and I can act extremely femine when I want you but that's mostly or the lulz.
The thing is that I've never been hit on and it feels so...strange, to actually have someone want you just feels. Strange.
Even tho I don't want him at all then I just don't know what to say to him.
I've said that I'm straight and that I've told him and that I'm in love with a girl which I reccently broke up with but he just says "can you please meet me".
Then I told him that I would think about it.
Escapists, what the heck should I do?

P.s. He says that he has been interested in me for a long time and I just don't want to hurt his feelings (or anybodies feelings for that matter).

 

[The Stonker]

Just be seen at a WBC rally, that will clear it up for him.

=D I don't live in America! =D

 

[Hashime]

Just be seen at a WBC rally, that will clear it up for him.

=D I don't live in America! =D

Then tell the guy you are not gay. I don't see what the problem is.

 

[The Stonker]

Just be seen at a WBC rally, that will clear it up for him.

=D I don't live in America! =D

Then tell the guy you are not gay. I don't see what the problem is.

Well, I have a hard time saying no to people.

 

[quiet_samurai]

Just tell him how you really feel, that you aren't interested but thanks ayways. sounds like you are leading him on accidentally.

 

[Fawcks]

Just be seen at a WBC rally, that will clear it up for him.

=D I don't live in America! =D

Then tell the guy you are not gay. I don't see what the problem is.

Well, I have a hard time saying no to people.

You have to say no. You cannot not say no.

 

[drisky]

Just be seen at a WBC rally, that will clear it up for him.

=D I don't live in America! =D

Then tell the guy you are not gay. I don't see what the problem is.

Well, I have a hard time saying no to people.

You'll just have to man up and say no, its part of life. Your choices are reluctantly saying no, or reluctantly having gay sex, in case that puts it in to perspective.

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

Well, I have a hard time saying no to people.

Then why are you asking for advice? If you're not willing to carry it out, there's no purpose in asking.

 

[The Stonker]

Just be seen at a WBC rally, that will clear it up for him.

=D I don't live in America! =D

Then tell the guy you are not gay. I don't see what the problem is.

Well, I have a hard time saying no to people.

You'll just have to man up and say no, its part of life. Your choices are reluctantly saying no, or reluctantly having gay sex, in case that puts it in to perspective.

BAAAH! Gay sex!
Well, I took on your guys advice and I grew a pair.

 

[Nimcha]

Yup, best solution is just to say no. Sometimes though even then they won't get it, which means you'll have to be rude. Many potential friendships have been ruined because I had to tell off guys rudely because they wouldn't listen otherwise :< But at least it provides clarity, which is what men want right?

 

[Hashime]

Just be seen at a WBC rally, that will clear it up for him.

=D I don't live in America! =D

Then tell the guy you are not gay. I don't see what the problem is.

Well, I have a hard time saying no to people.

This is a perfect time to try it out, remember it is not your fault he is gay and you are straight.

 

[zombiesinc]

I've said that I'm straight and that I've told him and that I'm in love with a girl which I recently broke up with but he just says "can you please meet me".
Then I told him that I would think about it.

P.s. He says that he has been interested in me for a long time and I just don't want to hurt his feelings (or anybodies feelings for that matter).

Well, first of all, you shouldn't have said that. Totally gives him the opposite impression that you wanted. I understand that you didn't want to hurt him, and that he kept pressing the matter, but even so, there's a point where you need to stop worrying about hurting another person's feelings and simply being honest.

You're straight, you've recently broken up with your girlfriend, whom you're in love with. That should be reason enough for him to fully leave you be. If he persists, as he has, then you need to be very clear with him. Tell him to stop, period. Don't lead him on either.

If he can't understand that, take whatever steps necessary to block him from contacting you. If you two go to the same school, this will be more difficult, but it's still entirely possible to ignore him.

 

[Tron-tonian]

Be polite, but say thanks but no thanks.
Seriously - take it as a complement, because if he finds you attractive, odds are there are females who do, too.

/Had a roomie whose brother was gay - always knew I was looking good for a night on the town if he thought I was looking good.

 

[Keela]

Yup, best solution is just to say no. Sometimes though even then they won't get it, which means you'll have to be rude. Many potential friendships have been ruined because I had to tell off guys rudely because they wouldn't listen otherwise :< But at least it provides clarity, which is what men want right?

Yes. God yes. Please, keep that thought burned in your brain forever. You're in the right. I'm having a bad experience currently because of a girl who either doesn't get that or isn't mean enough to tell me to go to hell, either way is better than being stuck in limbo. Just try to be as polite as possible in telling us to go to hell, we sometimes feel very strongly and are often sensitive in the romantic areas, regardless of the whole nonchalant, brush-it-off air we sometimes give off for show or pride. Try to be somewhat gentle!

OT: Just say something like, "I'm flattered, but I'm just not into guys romantically." I dunno, I'm exhausted and it's past my bedtime.

 

[Zechnophobe]

Well, he's hitting on me pretty hard and well, I'M STRAIGHT!
Sure! I have crossdressing urges and I can act extremely femine when I want you but that's mostly or the lulz.
The thing is that I've never been hit on and it feels so...strange, to actually have someone want you just feels. Strange.
Even tho I don't want him at all then I just don't know what to say to him.
I've said that I'm straight and that I've told him and that I'm in love with a girl which I reccently broke up with but he just says "can you please meet me".
Then I told him that I would think about it.
Escapists, what the heck should I do?

P.s. He says that he has been interested in me for a long time and I just don't want to hurt his feelings (or anybodies feelings for that matter).

So, I don't want to sound insulting, but I think it is an important question. Are you sure? I am guessing you are still pretty young, and whatnot. Sexuality isn't a simple question of 'gay' or 'straight' sometimes. Sometimes you just do what feels right. Ask yourself WHY is it so hard to say no? Do you just enjoy the affection of another person, even if you don't requite them? Or is it perhaps something else? Just, y'know. Think about it. If the answer was the almost too obvious 'tell him no, and that you mean it' would you really have posted looking for it?

 

[Nimcha]

Yup, best solution is just to say no. Sometimes though even then they won't get it, which means you'll have to be rude. Many potential friendships have been ruined because I had to tell off guys rudely because they wouldn't listen otherwise :< But at least it provides clarity, which is what men want right?

Yes. God yes. Please, keep that thought burned in your brain forever. You're in the right. I'm having a bad experience currently because of a girl who either doesn't get that or isn't mean enough to tell me to go to hell, either way is better than being stuck in limbo. Just try to be as polite as possible in telling us to go to hell, we sometimes feel very strongly and are often sensitive in the romantic areas, regardless of the whole nonchalant, brush-it-off air we sometimes give off for show or pride. Try to be somewhat gentle!

I'm always gentle! But sometimes you guys don't get it, you know?

 

[grif598]

Okay so I have had a similar situation, and i simply told him lets just hang out see where the moment takes us. of course I was dealing with my own sexuality (I'm bi though it was really hard to except and I wasn't sure at the time) and it went well though I wont kiss and tell

 

[Augustus Drakken]

Well, I have a hard time saying no to people.

Wanna wire a couple hundred to my bank account?