First and foremost the girl is retarded and the "I let you kiss me" me line is utter bullshit, I would have dumped her for that alone. Now, to deal with this line from Charley "In her defense, you didn't really show her "love" the way girls understand it." That's true but I wouldn't use the word love, I would use the word attraction. The things you listed are certainly good things to do if you want it to be a long term relationship, but at the base level, they aren't going to cause her to be attracted to you and want to stay with you. Just pointing it out, I don't know the whole story behind how you got together etc.