This girl I like...

[Lineoutt]

SNIP

You telling the truth? you were really heading in the direction of something hot? was it red as well >.< If hell exists I don't really want to go there :S

 

[Judgement101]

You're in the same boat as me. Normally I just tell myself that she isn't worth the trouble.

 

[Brad Shepard]

I'm really not good with this, but you know who is? <url=http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread>BonsaiK! Gotta give him some work, we can't risk letting him loose in here.

this is the best thing you can do, trust me.

 

[no oneder]

Suppressing emotions isn't very healthy.

 

[dfcrackhead]

I've made a topic about this before, but I think a reboot may be in order.

I really, really like a girl. I have for more than a year, where my stupid crushes go on for a couple of weeks max other than this one. I try, and I try hard to kill my crushes as soon as they start, usually I can easily find a way to overcome emotion and be my normal, boring, logical, calculating self, but my usual methods don't even come close to working. I am going on record saying that I am not an emotional person at all, that most of my emotions can go fuck themselves, and I have a very pessimistic outlook on just about everything. Especially romance.

To business: My main question is, how do I just get over this? If it really can't be that easy, does anyone have any general tips or advice on how to kill this or, really, anything else I can do? By the by, she has had a steady boyfriend for several months. As if my situation wasn't shitty enough, she's taken too. Sorry if I come across as whiny.

If you want her, go sing this to her http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ it works everytime.

If you want to forget, just find someone else to concentrate on

P.S. I'm sorry

 

[diego_2112]

SNIP

You telling the truth? you were really heading in the direction of something hot? was it red as well >.< If hell exists I don't really want to go there :S

Yes, I'm telling the truth. Not red, but very, VERY hot. And let's just say I dont ever want to be in THAT again...

 

[Mrrrgggrlllrrrg]

Stop whining and go do something productive. It seems like thats what you want to do but you're not doing it so I'm just gonna hop out on a limb here, you love to whine.

 

[Lineoutt]

SNIP

You telling the truth? you were really heading in the direction of something hot? was it red as well >.< If hell exists I don't really want to go there :S

Yes, I'm telling the truth. Not red, but very, VERY hot. And let's just say I dont ever want to be in THAT again...

:S... are you sure that wasnt just the blood oozing from every orifice? do you legitly think you were going to hell?

 

[diego_2112]

SNIP

You telling the truth? you were really heading in the direction of something hot? was it red as well >.< If hell exists I don't really want to go there :S

Yes, I'm telling the truth. Not red, but very, VERY hot. And let's just say I dont ever want to be in THAT again...

:S... are you sure that wasnt just the blood oozing from every orifice? do you legitly think you were going to hell?

Well, let me put it THIS way: I was NOT a religious person before then. I am now.

I cant be sure of what was going on (being a follower of Christ now, I'd say yes, I think I was going to hell, but I cant ever be sure, as I'm still here, ja?), I just know I dont want to go through that again, if I can avoid it, REGARDLESS.

 

[Celtic_Kerr]

I've made a topic about this before, but I think a reboot may be in order.

I really, really like a girl. I have for more than a year, where my stupid crushes go on for a couple of weeks max other than this one. I try, and I try hard to kill my crushes as soon as they start, usually I can easily find a way to overcome emotion and be my normal, boring, logical, calculating self, but my usual methods don't even come close to working. I am going on record saying that I am not an emotional person at all, that most of my emotions can go fuck themselves, and I have a very pessimistic outlook on just about everything. Especially romance.

To business: My main question is, how do I just get over this? If it really can't be that easy, does anyone have any general tips or advice on how to kill this or, really, anything else I can do? By the by, she has had a steady boyfriend for several months. As if my situation wasn't shitty enough, she's taken too. Sorry if I come across as whiny.

Rather than supress your emotions, embracing them can often be the best way of getting over it. If you have a crush on a girl, you have no idea how far "Look, I'm going to be hoenst. I think I have a bit of a crush on you, but I understand that you probably don't feel the same" and if she does, then you say "But I'm not ready for/looking for anything right now. It's all a bit confusing, I just ahd to get that off my chest."

If you supress the emotions, you try not to think of them, but in doing so you think of them,, and they grow. If you tell her how you feel, then you're like "Okay, I crush her, I told her. Whatever..." and you can get over it

 

[Keela]

Stop whining and go do something productive. It seems like thats what you want to do but you're not doing it so I'm just gonna hop out on a limb here, you love to whine.

I'm going to have to ask you to slow down there. It's not that I love to whine, I try to avoid doing it, but this strong of an emotion is kind of foreign to me. Since I moved to Florida, I've grown more and more hostile and critical towards people in general. Actually feeling positive emotions for a female is rare, since most of them are unbearably obnoxious. I can usually just ditch most attraction to girls very quickly. Not being able to is awkward and distressing, like taking away everything that gives me power and confidence at once.

 

[teddy monster 5000]

hahaha wow just listening to every ones comments and of course your problem you sound like every teenage boy out there. hell even i have this problem how i like a girl and she just wants to be a friend. it hurts it really dose but just be optomistic if you cant have this girl as a girlfriend then just be friends with her its better than nothing at all.