Timeframe of asking girls out

[Superpuff]

Ok i need to know the how long to wait before a ask a girl out im think im going to early well i made a pretty damn obvious mistake of asking a girl out like the 9th day of school another i dont know the issue it was like pretty well into school she thought we were freinds and thought it would be uncomfortable (god if i knew we were freinds) man some help would be nice please

 

[RetiarySword]

Hang out with her for a week or two. If she likes you to she will put the time in. You will see.

 

[Aschenkatza]

There is not real "timeframe" It's more of a "Is this an appropriate time to be asking me out? I'm in the middle of lunch with my friends."
You can ask people out the moment you meet them or a month later.

Edit: and it's they think of you as a friends than it's just a difference of relationship interests.

 

[Superpuff]

There is not real "timeframe" It's more of a "Is this an appropriate time to be asking me out? I'm in the middle of lunch with my friends."
You can ask people out the moment you meet them or a month later.

well i mostly ask them out at lunch its the only time a i got theres no free period or nothing at school

 

[scoHish]

i made a pretty damn obvious mistake of asking a girl out like the 9th day of school

Dude I did the same thing back in freshman year... that lasted all of 2 weeks, but anyway regarding your question, I'd say like a month if you see her enough. That's worked pretty well for me.

 

[sneakypenguin]

I take it your in high school, my advice screw HS relationships they waste time and money and generally lead to nothing. Do what I did, play sports hang with your friends go to the lake, mtns, sporting events, work a job, rather than sit around and talk to a girl on the phone while ignoring others.

 

[zacaron]

There is not real "timeframe" It's more of a "Is this an appropriate time to be asking me out? I'm in the middle of lunch with my friends."
You can ask people out the moment you meet them or a month later.

well i mostly ask them out at lunch its the only time a i got theres no free period or nothing at school

just try and find a time when shes alone or ask if you could speak to her.

 

[Aschenkatza]

There is not real "timeframe" It's more of a "Is this an appropriate time to be asking me out? I'm in the middle of lunch with my friends."
You can ask people out the moment you meet them or a month later.

well i mostly ask them out at lunch its the only time a i got theres no free period or nothing at school

Then it's something wrong with them, not with you. They either don't wish to go out with you[conflict of interests], or just they want to be friends =P

 

[Duke Machine]

Well I spent about 3 years as friends with my girlfriend before I asked her out, its worked out great so far but I'm not sure that helps u a whole lot

 

[Erana]

Its things like this that assure me that I'm not missing a thing by being an unusual person.

 

[AkJay]

*sigh* People claim most people online are guys but theres a definate lack of testicles around here.
First off, no one can answer that because each girl is different. Secondly, this is a gaming forum. I can't remember the exact number from the latest poll but like 75%+ people here are virgins or never even kissed a girl. Thirdly... I can't even be bothered going on...

Pro tip. Go up to a girl you just saw and say "Hey, nice shoes, wanna fuck?" You either get laid, she thinks its funny and at least becomes your friend, or she storms off and you have lost nothing.

Sir, you now have my upmost respect, if that means anything.

 

[Echolocating]

Pro tip. Go up to a girl you just saw and say "Hey, nice shoes, wanna fuck?" You either get laid, she thinks its funny and at least becomes your friend, or she storms off and you have lost nothing.

I guess if you don't have any dignity to start with then how can you possibly lose it, right?

Burn! ;-)

 

[CapBubba]

I take it your in high school, my advice screw HS relationships they waste time and money and generally lead to nothing. Do what I did, play sports hang with your friends go to the lake, mtns, sporting events, work a job, rather than sit around and talk to a girl on the phone while ignoring others.

*rides up on bycicle* Hey baby, wanna go to McDonald's?

 

[Gitsnik]

Pro tip. Go up to a girl you just saw and say "Hey, nice shoes, wanna fuck?" You either get laid, she thinks its funny and at least becomes your friend, or she storms off and you have lost nothing.

I guess if you don't have any dignity to start with then how can you possibly lose it, right?

Burn! ;-)

Whilst I think anonymouse is maybe a little off, being so damned sure of yourself helps.

See that babe? Hot as. Probably lonely as too, walk up, offer her a movie. Something girly that you aren't going to fall asleep in. Doesn't have to be a date, don't think of it like a date, and bam all of a sudden your on a date.

No cheesy moves, no pickup lines, just "Hey, I think you're quite pretty and would like to take you to the movies" or some variation.

That and, you know, discount everything you read on the internet, we're all probably screwing with your head

 

[GRoXERs]

*ahem*

Spoiler

This is what happens if you worry about it too much.
Honestly?
Go for it.
EDIT: Gitsnik has it about right.

 

[jim_doki]

Take your time dude. find out some shit about her first. I mean dating strangers, outside of alcahol fueled situations, always end in tears

 

[PayNSprayBandit]

There are two ends to this answer. On the one hand you don't want to smother her and on the other you don't want to seem disinterested. It is true that all women are different, but somethings remain fairly constant. So, (for women you've only known a short time, and not in the first conversation) you want to calmly, casually let her know that you're interested, a compliment or suggestive hypothetical, (CLEAN, like "If I took you out to dinner...") something that tells her where you'd like the relationship to go. Gauge her reaction. This is important, she will have two reactions, initial and thought out. If her initial reaction is awful, you have your answer without the awkwardness of rejection. If her reaction is tempered give her time to think about it before you bring it up again; at which point you can again test her reaction subtly, or just go for it. If her reaction is positive ask her at the end of the conversation.

Or if your comfortable and calm, just walk up, introduce yourself and ask her out. It's really a lot easier than it sounds, but you do have to be relaxed or you'll just come off as creepy. Oh, and start with something small (coffee) and specific (Thursday at Denny's, if she says she's busy, ask her when she's free).

Signed,
A man whose had real relationships

 

[Ace of Hearts]

You can ask them out virtually whenever, it's the wherever that's going to slow you down. Even if they kind of like you, putting them on the spot will drive them away, let it come, and don't take forever (Or you'll be friends with them for months and they'll just think your not intrested.)

 

[Superpuff]

Or if your comfortable and calm, just walk up, introduce yourself and ask her out. It's really a lot easier than it sounds, but you do have to be relaxed or you'll just come off as creepy. Oh, and start with something small (coffee) and specific (Thursday at Denny's, if she says she's busy, ask her when she's free).

Signed,
A man whose had real relationships[/quote]

Its not that easy man i live in a small town news travels fast second dont have a lisence or car (freshman) and theres no hang out with 10miles so all i got to rely is school which again is small so its pretty big getting rejected