Tipping Etiquette

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Xanthious

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Here in the states tipping well is something I consider a must if it's a place I frequent or plan on frequenting. I learned while delivering pizza in college that service folk not only remember who tips and who doesn't but also provide service accordingly.

Normally deliveries went out the door in the order they called in but if a person who tipped really well had ordered their order would get bumped ahead of the other orders more times than not. On the flip side if a person who didn't tip had a pizza ready to go drivers would skip it as best they could.

Today I have a handful of places I go where there are employees that work on tips and tipping generously is more times than not rewarded by my service workers. For instance there is a pretty popular Italian restaurant in my town that typically has a wait most nights.

The servers know that I tip a bare minimum of 20% and depending how many people I have with me that typically means the least they are getting is 20 dollars, usually closer to 40 as I usually tip well over 20%. I can't remember the last time I've had to wait to be seated. Sometimes I find an appetizer or a couple drinks have been comped. I don't ask for this special treatment nor do I expect it but because I take care of my servers more often than not I receive it.

The bottom line is if you have a reputation of taking care of the people serving you they will reward you in kind. Alternately if you choose to be cheap and tip poorly or not at all you shouldn't be surprised when you are given poor service as a result. Servers rely heavily on their tips and it is to be expected that those people that tip the best will be rewarded with the best service.
 

Springs1

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hulksmashley said:
Cooks are just people. They can't do everything. I'm not lazy and uncaring. I just understand that a chef can't special order the 30 or so plates that he's trying to cook.
There sure as hell *CAN*! How do you think I get my fries when I go to restaurants? I ORDER THAT WAY!!I have been ordering my fries that way for at least 5-6 YEARS and get it the way "I" want. That's how it's supposed to be to get what you want for your money.

They can do ANYTHING the customer wants them to do, so shut up, you don't know what the hell you are talking about.

The *CUSTOMER* rules the show, NOT THE COOK!

You are lazy if you think that it's OK not to do what the customer wants. That would be your job as a cook.
 

badpun

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I usually don't tip here in australia because everyone earns at least minimum wage. I do let them keep the change if i'm paying with a note or if they've had excellent service
 

TheRocketeer

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Flames66 said:
I'm not sure I'm with you here. Common courtesy is phrasing your order politely eg. "Could I have a medium rare stake please?" rather than "Medium rare stake! Now!!". Common courtesy is not giving everyone you speak to money.
That's what I meant; tipping is great and all, but just being polite is important, too. That's a really obvious thing to say, yeah, but a lot of people are real assholes to waiters, regardless of service.

I do, however, shower money on everyone I meet, but I realize I may be alone in this.