To do or not to do.

[cameron112497]

So as a 13 year old I have been disgusted by everything sexual since I knew it existed.
However I er (feels awkward) I have been having a few urges to masterbait. Should I (I haven't yet FYI)
Is it right, wrong?

 

[holy_secret]

If there is something you want to do, which will not hurt anyone else, you should do it. This should not even have to be mentioned. Of course you should masturbate if it is what you want to do.

 

[joe the janitor]

Why not? Your reaching that age. There is nothing bad about it, just don't get caught...

 

[The Man With the Soap]

So as a 13 year old I have been disgusted by everything sexual since I knew it existed.
However I er (feels awkward) I have been having a few urges to masterbait. Should I (I haven't yet FYI)
Is it right, wrong?

Nothing wrong with it. Why should there be? I don't do it, but plenty of people do.

 

[ultrachicken]

The fact that you're even asking this question makes me think that you live in a fairly uptight household. Whether or not you're wanted to believe it, everyone masturbates. Your teacher does it, your dad does it, your pet dog does it. Don't get so worried about it.

 

[Paksenarrion]

This is something you'll have to decide for yourself.

Unless you're asking if there are unforeseeable negative consequences to it.

Just don't do it too much, make sure you have privacy, and if you do it, concentrate on your own pleasure. Touch yourself for the sake of touching. Don't let it replace other things you enjoy.

 

[superbatranger]

Don't worry. Those urges and feelings are completely normal. There is nothing wrong with masturbation, regardless of what people tell you.

 

[RipperjackAU]

I hear warm apple pie is just right for this purpose. Just heat up a couple and try it out for yourself.

 

[HellspawnCandy]

So as a 13 year old I have been disgusted by everything sexual since I knew it existed.
However I er (feels awkward) I have been having a few urges to masterbait. Should I (I haven't yet FYI)
Is it right, wrong?

Masturbation is natural. Most people do it, even if they don't want to admit it. I say do it, because bent up sexual frustration is pretty unhealthy, last I checked. :x

This. Your body is exploding with hormones right now and sexual urges are gonna increase if you don't release the steam valve once in awhile. It's definitely not wrong by moral standards, just embarrassing.

 

[cameron112497]

Well the problem is a bit more complex.A Part if me still feels very disgusted, yet the other wants it, also a third part of me feels like I'm just fooling myself into thinking what I'm thinking, as you may guess this is cause of some frustration and distraction (because whenever I can't figure something out I think about it till I do figure it out)

 

[Zaverexus]

Why not? Your reaching that age. There is nothing bad about it, just don't get caught...

I would find this an ironic response to anything. "there's nothing wrong, just don't get caught"
the latter contradicts the former.

Not that you're wrong, it's just amusing to me.

 

[icame]

There's nothing wrong with masturbation, its completely natural. If you have that 'urge' and your around that age I sincerely doubt your asexual (No attraction to either sexes)

 

[zombiesinc]

There's nothing wrong with masturbation, it's completely natural, and healthy. If it's something you find embarrassing or uncomfortable, don't bring it up. It's completely your choice to talk about it with anyone, which also isn't a bad thing.

 

[cameron112497]

Well its kinda different, It's more a form of shame. I basically made a promise to myself( a few years ago) to never do anything like this, knowing that doing so would mean being the very thing that I hated

I know the Internet isn't the best place but it's the only place for advice that I have. My parents would anger I'd they were told I was even thinking about it, I detest my cousins(for unrelated reasons), my only sibling also doesn't understand my situation at all.

 

[burningdragoon]

Well its kinda different, It's more a form of shame. I basically made a promise to myself( a few years ago) to never do anything like this, knowing that doing so would mean being the very thing that I hated

It's easy to make promises like that when you're an age where it's not an issue in the first place. You shouldn't feel bad you don't keep your promise to yourself, you should realize how silly the promise was in the first place.

That being said, I'm pretty sure it's a law of nature that the first time is supposed to be by accident >.>

 

[Hollock]

it's not right or wrong, like how brushing your hair or blowing your nose isn't right or wrong. It's just something you do. If you have the urge to do it, do it. And I'm 18 in a few weeks and have never masterbated, though I have sexual thoughts in my head half the time (well not sexual as much as I'm so alone!.) but either way doing it doesn't make you a bad guy, and not doing it doens't make you a good guy.

 

[Nerdygamer89]

So as a 13 year old I have been disgusted by everything sexual since I knew it existed.

Yeah, that's normal. The concept of "cooties" comes to mind.

However I er (feels awkward) I have been having a few urges to masterbait. Is it right, wrong?

That's also normal. Personally, I think you should probably stop attaching such significance to it. It's a natural human urge and there's nothing whatsoever wrong with it. Your family isn't pentecostal by chance? I hear pentecostals are pretty bad about discouraging that sort of... activity.

Well its kinda different, It's more a form of shame. I basically made a promise to myself( a few years ago) to never do anything like this, knowing that doing so would mean being the very thing that I hated

Now this is where you're losing me. The very thing you hate? As I said before, you might want to stop attaching such significance to it. Human sexuality is as natural as breathing, not much you can do about it. So good news, you're perfectly healthy, kid! Now stop worrying. Go ride a bike or something and enjoy not having to study for college midterms.

So many exams *nervous breakdown*

 

[cameron112497]

Funny that you mention my family's reiligion, lets just put it this way. My parents or catholics, all my relatives are catholics, everybody at my school is catholic, everybody that i know is catholic (with the exception of 2 protestants)


and unless im wrong catholics are also pretty bad about discouraging that sort of... activity

 

[cameron112497]

Thanks for the advice, I have come to a decision( from the replys you can probably guess which one from the replies)