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KOMega

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hate? maybe... maybe...
drama? Oh man.I've seen a lot more forums have a lot more drama than this one.
This forum is actually not too bad.


Zeh Don said:
If negativity is spreading throughout the video game community on a massive scale, one might stop to wonder why.
I agree. Perhaps the negativity is more of a symptom than the problem itself.

Zeh Don said:
Is it the anti-consumer behaviours of the largest players in the industry going unchecked until the internet based gaming community organises twitters bombs, mail-in campaigns and hate mongering that shakes the very pillars of the information super highway? I'd say we're getting pretty close.
perhaps, but there was plenty of internet negativity before as well. Anti-consumerist behaviours drew out and justified a lot of recent negativity.
I'll ponder on this later.
 

RJ 17

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Arnoxthe1 said:
Tom_green_day said:
I think the thing to remember is that while it may seem everyone is complaining, this is because not everyone is saying something. The complainers are a vocal majority but actual minority.
It's kind of weird though that game companies like to use forums to listen to complaints if they ever want to listen them at all. But then, what else can they reliably use that gives them ideas on what to improve on since a lot of consumers won't take the time to tell them?
I'd say that's a rather big part of the negativity around here. Not that we know that game developers are coming to forums like this to read through complaints, but more because we want to talk about how the industry can improve itself. It's kinda hard to do that by discussing what the industry is doing right...if they're doing something right, there's no need to address the matter. Or at least, less reason than there is to address when they do something wrong.

People often get VERY heated when discussing things that they're passionate about, and clearly we as gamers are passionate about gaming. So when we feel that the people who control the industry that we're passionate about are giving us the shaft it really lights our fuses. What's been garnering the most hate recently? Stuff about the Xbox One. Why has it been garnering so much hate? Because of quotes from people like Don Mattrick that have essentially been direct insults towards us, as gamers. I'd argue that when a higher-up in industry that you're passionate about comes out and insults you and/or your intelligence by staying things like that infamous "nuclear sub" quote, you have every right to get pissed off.

Are there nit-pickers out there? Of course, there's always going to be the people out there who just can't seem to see anything but the negatives, but even that's coming from a good place: they want what they're nit-picking to improve. Beyond that are the fanboys/fangirls who will ALWAYS get upset whenever a game or company does something that pisses them off. "Dark Souls 2 will have an Easy Mode" nearly started riots in the streets! Buuuuut that was only with regard to Dark Souls fans. Anyone else who didn't like/play Dark Souls likely didn't care, and anyone who wanted to enjoy Dark Souls but found it to be too difficult would actually be happy. The problem is, the passion of the fanboys/fangirls often drowns out everything else.

The real point that I'm getting at is that, deep down, we're all critics. And while critics do point out the good in things, the best thing they can do is point out the flaws, that what the person/product they're critiquing will know what they need to improve on. Just as a little anecdote: back in high school I was in the chess club. We'd have to make sure that at tournaments we took proper annotation of all the moves in each game we played. If we won the game, we could throw it out. Clearly, since we won, there was nothing to be learned from it since apparently we played the game "right". But if we lost, we'd go over the game move-by-move to find out just where we went wrong. In terms of videogames, I'd worry that focusing too much on what a game did right will lead to a "too much of a good thing" scenario...which is pretty much where we're at with games like CoD. CoD used to be a simple shooter. Speaking from personal experience, I started with the first Modern Warfare and had loads of fun with it. Back then it was simple and that made it very competitive: everyone got three killstreak rewards and that was it. Now due to it's popularity, they've felt like they needed to give us more and more and more, and so now we've got a game that a lot of people (well, at least in my circle of friends) are getting sick of because it's less about your skill in a shooter and more about how many killstreak rewards you can decimate your opponents with. And so by focusing too much on what made their games so good and popular, they've now turned that good thing into a flaw.

Annnnnd there I go inserting a criticism into this...well I guess at this point it's almost an essay. :3

But that does bring up that there's a difference between constructive criticism - as I gave about the CoD series - and just flat out hate. That's where you don't have an actual discussion and just say "CoD frickin' sucks! It's just the same game over and over again and it's getting old and lame!" While there might be validity behind saying it's the same kind of stuff over and over, the fact that the person doesn't go into detail talking about what's specifically wrong and how it effects the game to make it "old and lame".

Let's see...I've covered gamers in general...fanboys/fangirls..."we're all critics"....

Oh, I guess I should mention one more thing about the fanboys/fangirls that really helps to explain the proliferation of negativity. Obviously fanboys/fangirls are the easiest to piss off regarding any given subject. But getting back to what the first response to this topic said: they're a vocal minority. The reason they seem like a majority is because EVERYTHING has fanboys/fangirls. They're there for Dark Souls, GTA, CoD, Microsoft, Ubisoft, there's even a couple out there for EA. Any time something pops up regarding anything, the fanboys/fangirls for whichever specific thing they're fans of and rip it to shreds or hold it aloft while the rest of us don't care nearly as much. It's not all the same people, the people who love Dark Souls and are pissed off about an Easy Mode aren't necessarily the same people who like GTA and were pissed off about how GTA IV had lousy driving controls and you couldn't buy businesses. Still, both of those topics got just the same amount of hate because the fanboys/fangirls for each game gravitated towards topics that relate to the games they love.

In the end, I'd say the best thing to keep in mind is that we're all critics and critics are used to point out negatives a lot more than positives. To be fair to your point, though, there are a saddening amount of people who do slip away from constructive criticism and become flat-out haters.
 

Strazdas

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first of all, there can never be too much drama.

the phenomenom is easy. if a person likes something, he is very likely keep it to himself and rarely talk about it. if a person dislikes something he is very likely tell everyone he can how much "This thing sucks and you should not use it". this simple reality has lead to the situation you are describing.

Also when you are cirticizing something, it is easy to write down flaws, comapre them, ect. while posts like "i loved it and i think its amazing" does not even go though the low content barier.

CapchA: om nom nom
team fortress reference? really?
 

Rickin10

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I'll take an overwhelmingly negative forum over a complacent happy-clappy place any day. If you want a place to see a gaming world where everything is peachy simply head over to Ign any of the their similar flash-ad brethren where they will validate the pure awesomeness of gaming.
 

rob_simple

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People are more inclined to give their opinions on a negative experience than a positive one, it's just human nature.

Think about it, if you stayed at a hotel and everything went fine, you'd most likely hand the key in at the end of the holiday and say, 'thanks, see you later,' but if there was a dead hooker in your room you'd tell the staff, you'd tell your friends, you'd go on Yell.com to leave a review, (I, no shit, once saw a guy complain about the food being boring at his hotel when it was a fucking buffet every night.)

I do know how you feel, but personally I've found a good solution is to go into these threads with an unassailable positivity and inform these people that it's not all doom and gloom.

Every time you see a thread about how all games are the same/dumbing down/for filthy casuals/trying to be CoD share your own experiences and, when possible, concrete proof of how this is not the case. The best way to fight ignorance is with the truth, let's not let the overly vocal minority ruin it for the rest of us.
 

Nami nom noms

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Totally agree with the OP. Escapist used to be my first-stop on the internet, now it's just a rare check-in every few weeks. Some people here have become whiny, trollish and generally antagonistic.
 

crotchdot

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It's a website devoted laregly to people who love gaming, and people get passionate about what they love.

And some of that negativity resulted in a reversal of Xbone DRM policies, so tough love is not always a bad thing (although I accept not agrees with me on that point).
 

Dragonbums

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The hypocritical situation right now is that people are only interested in talking about negative things than interesting ones.

Most of the threads I have seen when I came here that got over 10,000 views and hundreds of comments tend to be "Nintendo Doom and Gloom" threads.

Console/console users are stupid threads

Xbone threads

Anita/feminist threads

and Yet another Third Party dev/AAA publisher are acting like fucking tools threads.

Meanwhile the non flammatory positive threads I can remember reaching the same popularity are Old Games You Used to Play but Can't Remember them.

and the E3 Stream thread of Sony and Microsoft.

That's about it.

All the other positive ones get kicked back to Oblivion because nobody cares about them.
Despite everyone clamoring for more positive threads. Nobody wants to comment in said threads
 

Z of the Na'vi

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110% agree, OP. Been coming to the Escapist for years, and only recently have I cut back on discussion in the forums. Sure, I still visit everyday, but the overall quality of threads has noticeably declined, from my point of view.

I still jump into threads I find somewhat interesting, but it has been a very long time since we have had a truly worthwhile, fun topic to discuss.
 

Hero of Lime

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I try my best to be as positive as I can be, for the most part anyway. I like commenting on threads that involve sharing things I like, or my favorite things. Even the positive threads have some spirited exchanges when people who have strong different opinions decide to clash. Negativity will always draw more attention unfortunately, it's a lousy mentality but we all share it.
 

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Arnoxthe1 said:
I've been reading this forum for a while. One of the key things I keep seeing on here is people arguing about games in general. And not always in a good, professional way. People care too much about what the public thinks of something. They always want to discuss what's wrong instead of what's right. They always want to discuss how the industry's screwed them over in some way. And I know saying that sounds hypocritical since I'm writing a topic that's pointing out what's wrong but in my defense, I don't do this often at all. And I feel if I don't say anything, no one's going to give this any thought for at least a very long time.

Nowadays, nobody wants to talk about the games themselves. What they liked. What they want to see in future games, etc. None of that. Why?

I know what you guys are gonna say. Yes, I have seen topics that aren't all negative but honestly now, which topic get's the most hits, hm? A topic about how the industry wants to suck away all our monies or a topic about a cool new feature or features of an upcoming game?

Who've we become? This whiny kid who complains whenever things don't go their way for any reason? Why can't we just 'chill'? For example, yeah, it sucks that the Kinect is bundled with the Xbox One but people would just NOT let it go for a while. Way too many needless impassioned arguments there. Too much unneeded drama.

Anyway, hope some people will read this with intelligence instead of saying the equivalent of 'lol no'. Be honest with yourselves.

TL;DR:

Maybe people complain because complaining about something is more interesting than praising it?
I mean, look at this topic. You're complaining about other people complaining. Why won't you make a topic about how wonderful people are? Why are you just concentrating on the negative aspects?
 

StrangerQ

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If you think here is too much hate and negativity...
Well i suggest you will not go browsing /v/.
The worst i have seen on escapist and partly thanks to moderation has been only a small crystal glass of pure whine compared to whirlpool of insanity that is /v/ every day.
 

scorptatious

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Things have been kinda negative here for quite a while.

I guess I can't blame people too much though. Things like the ME3 ending fiasco, SimCity, and the XBONE weren't exactly things to celebrate. Plus it wouldn't help just to ignore the bad things that happen in the industry. Still though, I wouldn't mind just a little more positivity in these forums.
SonicWaffle said:
*clap clap clap*

Well said man. Well said.
 

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Andy Shandy said:
Oh yay, another thread whining about whining!

Let me get you some more!

I KEEP STARING BUT I CAN'T FIND THE SEAMS. O__O

OT: You're suffering "pessimist's bias". You notice when things go wrong, but not when they go right.

It's a REALLY pronounced effect. Usually, when someone complains that "the news never reports anything good anymore, only misery", you can pick up a newpaper and find half a dozen stories on good things within a few page turns. If you actually go look at the thread list, you'll see a whole bunch of threads that are actually dedicated to positive things in games you like.

For a perfect example of the phenomenon, Google statistics tests that people have done on XCOM: Enemy Unknown. You'll find that they all report a fair and balanced RNG. Then, go read any thread on XCOM: Enemy Unknown, and revel in the magic that is "ten people complaining that the RNG hates them and their entire family". While it's possible that one or two of them really do have the worst luck, it's far more likely that they just 1. don't understand what "randomness" is, and 2. have pessimist's bias.
 

happyninja42

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Arnoxthe1 said:
Who've we become? This whiny kid who complains whenever things don't go their way for any reason? Why can't we just 'chill'? For example, yeah, it sucks that the Kinect is bundled with the Xbox One but people would just NOT let it go for a while. Way too many needless impassioned arguments there. Too much unneeded drama.

TL;DR:
One thing to also consider about the nature of forums and such, is that it is a concentrated source of comments. So while sometimes it appears that it's nothing but people whining 24/7 about something. In a lot of cases, the reality is that you are seeing a collection of people making 1 complaint....that's it. The fact that several thousand people agree to dislike something, and happen to all express their one point on the matter doesn't turn them into "the whiny kid who complains whenever things don't go their way for any reason." a lot of them have made 1 comment, about 1 subject, that they dislike. That's hardly whining.

Now sure, there are plenty of posters who do nothing but flame-rage and the like, but there are plenty of us that
1. Don't read every forum topic (mostly because we don't care about every subject)
2. Don't reply to every topic we read (again because we're not that worried about it)
3. Post things that are not a complaint, and are in fact the opposite.


So no, I would have to disagree with your opinion that we're nothing but a bunch of whiny brats who do nothing but complain 24/7. The very nature of forums gravitates like minded opinions to a subject, which makes things look to be more one sided than they actually are.
 

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Arnoxthe1 said:
I've been reading this forum for a while. One of the key things I keep seeing on here is people arguing about games in general. And not always in a good, professional way. People care too much about what the public thinks of something. They always want to discuss what's wrong instead of what's right. They always want to discuss how the industry's screwed them over in some way. And I know saying that sounds hypocritical since I'm writing a topic that's pointing out what's wrong but in my defense, I don't do this often at all. And I feel if I don't say anything, no one's going to give this any thought for at least a very long time.

Nowadays, nobody wants to talk about the games themselves. What they liked. What they want to see in future games, etc. None of that. Why?

I know what you guys are gonna say. Yes, I have seen topics that aren't all negative but honestly now, which topic get's the most hits, hm? A topic about how the industry wants to suck away all our monies or a topic about a cool new feature or features of an upcoming game?

Who've we become? This whiny kid who complains whenever things don't go their way for any reason? Why can't we just 'chill'? For example, yeah, it sucks that the Kinect is bundled with the Xbox One but people would just NOT let it go for a while. Way too many needless impassioned arguments there. Too much unneeded drama.

Anyway, hope some people will read this with intelligence instead of saying the equivalent of 'lol no'. Be honest with yourselves.

TL;DR:

I'm not going top say "lolno" but I find it funny that rather than making a positive thread, you make a post to complain about complainers complaining. Isn't that a touch hypocritical?
 

Arnoxthe1

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Zeh Don said:
I always find this type of thread very interesting, because it's essentially some kind of "Stay Calm and Obey" kind of message. If negativity is spreading throughout the video game community on a massive scale, one might stop to wonder why.
Alright everyone, please listen up. This is important.

I'm NOT telling everyone to stick their heads in the sand. The opposite of it, actually. For example, if a publisher does something that you can't put up with as a gamer, simply don't give them your money. There is no need to write a thesis on the forums about how terrible that company is, how great gaming was back in the day, and so on.

You see something you don't like, don't indulge it with your money. Simple, easy, effective. If you find a topic that is questioning why a product is bad, you state so very clearly and logically. Make no fuss about it. Not to say that people don't already do this. Which brings me to my next point.

Some of you have also said that compared to other forums, this one isn't that bad. That's very true. However it could be BETTER. A lot better. And it wouldn't take that much work at all. I'm asking you all to be intelligent.

And to the people who tried to point out the hypocrisy in my topic, you're way too late in saying that. Please actually try to read the OP in whole next time. It already pointed that out and argued why it really wasn't.