2. None come to mind.
3. Quite often.
In single player games, particularly survival horror, I like unlocking the extra costumes because I both like "playing dress up", and a different outfit can change the "feel" or atmosphere of a game. For example, take Resident Evil: dressing up as a cop, I tend play as a cop (rescue the survivors, help others a prime directive). If dressed as a soldier, I tend to play "Kill them all", keep a killcount score, etc.
It adds replay value.
In mmo's, I absolutely love getting costumes. In World of Warcraft for example, I spend quite alot of time trying on outfits in the Dressing Room, buying "grey" items from NPC vendors because they look good, getting all the seasonal outfits, friends would buy outfits for me, and stuff like that.
4. Does such a game exist?
I've played a few Hentai games, and while there are some that have some nice love stories, most aren't all that good. As well, they are mostly all male leads, so don't qualify.
About the only one I can think of that would fit the description would have been "Rule of Rose", but really that only has as much to do with BDSM as thinking stabbing someone with a knife is a rape reference (phallic object forced into a body). IE, way, way, way overanalyzing things, akin to thinking hard rock lyrics are actively recruiting satanists.
(It seemed to me to be more about how children forming their own societies can be extremely cruel to each other, ala Lord of the Flies).
But that would be the only game that comes close to my knowledge.
Would I play a game featuring these? Depends. I've done BDSM, and I enjoy it. As well, I'm always interested in learning more. So a game featuring it would be attractive, if only for more information.
For rape, meh. I've role played that several times with my ex-boyfriend (both as top and bottom), and it was enjoyable, if difficult logistically. But as far as watching it on the TV or playing on a video game, it's not really that attractive.
Then again, I'm also the type of person that likes the whips and chains but squirms at "torture porn" like S.A.W., or even expressions of misery like on Amaestad.
lol double standard? Me?
5. Once I did a cybersex "for money" role play session like that with my ex-girlfriend, over WoW. I could go into specifics, but this is a PG-13 board, and I'm probably pushing the envelope quite enough >.<
As far as favors, no, not really. Sometimes I'll "flirt" in warcraft over trade or general. When I'm bored, I'll let slip some innuendo into trade channel and watch the discussion. Sometimes people will flirt back. However, if I get a whisper from someone I tell them I'm male before anything happens further, and they usually just laugh and move on.
I tend not to do that anymore, as I never had anyone "bite", but some people are still vocally homophobic after learning who's flirting. That hurts... It's safer than real life, but it's not completely safe.
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