I really can't abide by this. I come home from work/school looking to unwind, and I come into lobbies looking for like minded people. What I get is a clan of black guys cussing incessantly, and then one white racist comes into the fray (not me, mind you) and the whole match EXPLODES even before we're in game. I like games, and I like other gamers, but why the hell does everyone seem to feel so personally inadequate that they have to immediately pick up a headset and fire off every slur, curse, swear or dirty insult, at whoever will listen? I like other gamers, I like hearing what they have to say, I like talking with my friends while we're playing online, I don't like people screaming about all the nasty things they want to do to my mother while I'm talking with these friends. And besides personal objections, we're already venting by fragging each other online, isn't that enough? I mean sure its ok to laugh and say "haha, I shot you" but can't that be the end of it. No, instead i get someone using the crouch button repeatedly on Halo 3 (which by the way, has it ever been used for actually CROUCHING?!?) while vehemently attempting to hump their headset in contempt for my very existence. And thats just not kosher with me, so to all trash talkers out there, please, lets have some good will towards fellow gamers.